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aliljaded 53F
23952 posts
6/1/2020 2:48 am
Start With These Fantasies First

Fantasies are something that everyone has and when you tumble around the lifestyle you will find many writings, blog posts, and discussions about fantasies. I am sure that when many people think of fantasies those thoughts are kinky, erotic, and probably have a sexual element to them. The spark of a new connection coupled with the excitement of a budding relationship causes many d-types to lead their partner into the titillating fast water surrounding their kinky Atlantis. While these adventures can be stimulating to think about, discuss and share with partner or prospective partner there are other fantasies that I feel a dominant should work to help their partner achieve before they take the plunge into kinky fuckery fantasy fulfillment.

I believe that a d-type should work to help their submissive achieve success in life and not just their sex life. Find out what the s-type has fantasies of doing. Maybe it is to be healthier, take a trip to a far-flung location, continue their education, or seek promotion in their career. I know I can hear the
"trolls" screaming and hollering right now, these are not fantasies but are dreams. The reason I choose to classify them as fantasies rather than dreams is life has a way of taking over dreams and making them feel like pie in the sky fantasy. Part of being an amazing partner to a submissive is showing them that these are not just fantasies but they are achievable dreams and as their dominant, you are going to lead them to achieve these. As a d-type assists and guides their partner towards success, this will bring both closer, deepen the connection, and by giving constant and positive leadership the d-type will show their actions do match their words while the submissive grows and achieves.

For me, the more the dominant gives to the submissive, the more the s-type will want to give back. This sets up a cycle that strengthens bonds, builds trust, and creates a deeper love. The more this is done, many of those fantastic fuckery fantasies will find themselves becoming reality because the pillars of D/S partnership have been built deep and strong. A strong foundation allows for both dominants and submissives to feel comfortable, safe, and confident in their partner as they explore erotic adventures together. The key to having feverish fetish fantasies ‘cum to life’ is to build a relationship that consummates success in the daily world before trying to consummate an intimate idea. A dominant that does not tell their submissive that they live in a fantasy world when they share fantasies of future success but listens, understands, and encourages while leading them to success will find the rewards are more than just an accomplished submissive but it also allows all the intangibles needed for those naughty fantasies to be brought to life over time
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©TLK2020


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


JoElspanstp 70M

6/1/2020 10:05 am

Fantasies need to be realized within a safe environment and an agreeable partner fully aware of the extent of the fantasy. Safety at all times is a must. I like this post.

That guy looks like Steve Buscemi.


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
6/1/2020 5:26 am

It's a great piece ... my fantasy is to simply be accepted for me

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
6/1/2020 2:51 am

This is an interesting piece, that I enjoyed very much.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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