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Kitkatshadow 57F
0 posts
7/28/2020 11:27 pm
Thorn in my side


I really am just venting here, after a conversation i had on skype last night, the unjustice of it is still burning strong in me this morning!.

I met a gentleman on here from the USA, and we really got on well, to the extent that i agreed to become his online sub. Now we both sort of moved in the same circles here on Alt, watched the same cams, and chatted to the same people.

Two of those people are a Dom and Sub, quite well known here on the blogging platform, and it is them that have stirred this injustice that has been shown to this person who was my online Dom.

They ( the Dom and sub) used to watch my cam when i played with my online Dom, and we all used to chat. Then, i had a fallout with the D/s and with that regard we all reached for our "block buttons" However, my online Dom was innocent in this whole picture.

So, i found out from him last night that the said two have taken a disliking to him, to the extent that the "sub" has requested that he no longer has the permission to watch her cam.

How can one be so narrow minded, why do my actions have to have a negative effect on him? Why are people so cruel?

Yes i do feel guilty, as he has now lost two "friends" i say that in inverted commas, because are they actually worth having.?

He is a kind person, who has nothing bad to say about anyone, and that i think is what really makes me mad, that they paint him with the same brush that they painted me...

Ok, vent over

Kitkatshadow 57F

7/28/2020 11:28 pm

Be kind to man kind....


MissJasline 61T
84 posts
7/28/2020 11:49 pm

For me, one of the important characteristics a Dom/me needs is integrity. Sounds like the Dom (the other one, not yours) lacks this, otherwise would have managed the situation better. So, no great loss.

Curved Air: You, you're only what you think you might be, I am only what you think I am


MissJasline 61T
84 posts
7/29/2020 12:06 am

Damn! I've now got Eurythmics "Thorn in my side" stuck in my head. Although a good song to have stuck, but had to look up the lyrics to stop singing my own made up version

Curved Air: You, you're only what you think you might be, I am only what you think I am


TheScribe1 63M

7/29/2020 1:09 am

Pusscat, you need to develop a thicker skin.In truth, regardless of interaction you have with people on here, unless you actually meet them in real life they are nothing but names on a screen. I know that sounds harsh, but ascribing them emotions gives them power, and very few are worthy of that. xx

My Words Are A way Into Your Mind...Be brave And let Me In.


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 1:16 am

    Quoting TheScribe1:
    Pusscat, you need to develop a thicker skin.In truth, regardless of interaction you have with people on here, unless you actually meet them in real life they are nothing but names on a screen. I know that sounds harsh, but ascribing them emotions gives them power, and very few are worthy of that. xx
Sir Scribe, you are right, on so many levels, but to me human decency comes into play, be it online, or real life... So i do take offense. I do not like people being hurt or disregarded...


slaveforyou365 63M  
4490 posts
7/29/2020 1:30 am



Slave rick


TheScribe1 63M

7/29/2020 1:36 am

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    Sir Scribe, you are right, on so many levels, but to me human decency comes into play, be it online, or real life... So i do take offense. I do not like people being hurt or disregarded...
That is exactly what most of them want you to do pusscat. They KNOW you have decency, and not only do they not care, they will use that against you. You need to develop an "Irrelevant" button in your mind, that links to your block/ban/ignore system ~smiles~...that way YOU have the power to control everything these idiots try to do xx

My Words Are A way Into Your Mind...Be brave And let Me In.


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 1:38 am

Rick, just come sit with me in my corner, safer there hun


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 1:39 am

    Quoting MissJasline:
    Damn! I've now got Eurythmics "Thorn in my side" stuck in my head. Although a good song to have stuck, but had to look up the lyrics to stop singing my own made up version
I am so sorry, but damn, it is a good song lol


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 1:46 am

    Quoting  :

Take your points and run,,, best advise i can give


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 1:50 am

    Quoting TheScribe1:
    That is exactly what most of them want you to do pusscat. They KNOW you have decency, and not only do they not care, they will use that against you. You need to develop an "Irrelevant" button in your mind, that links to your block/ban/ignore system ~smiles~...that way YOU have the power to control everything these idiots try to do xx
Sadly, i am like a dog with a bone, i can not let go, be it to my own detriment, i stand for the underdog, and will speak up on those who people do wrong to.


tews 65M
429 posts
7/29/2020 2:48 am

With you there 100% Kit very well put and worded.


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 3:05 am

    Quoting tews:
    With you there 100% Kit very well put and worded.
Thank you Tews, you do have a slight understanding of me


JoElspanstp 70M

7/29/2020 7:34 am

Like I said earlier, a Cloak & Dagger shenanigans at work here on this site.


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/29/2020 8:45 am

    Quoting JoElspanstp:
    Like I said earlier, a Cloak & Dagger shenanigans at work here on this site.
I will say it in plain English, ASSHOLES, sorry, but that is the truth. Why coat the obvious with pretty words?


JoElspanstp 70M

7/29/2020 9:13 am

    Quoting  :

Points? You need points? How about food? Looking a bit thin there.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/29/2020 11:52 am

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    I will say it in plain English, ASSHOLES, sorry, but that is the truth. Why coat the obvious with pretty words?
Good call. So much for "The Over-the-Hill Gang."


Artschoolgrad 46M
8558 posts
7/30/2020 12:30 pm

"why are people so cruel?"

that is a very good question! hugs


JoElspanstp 70M

7/31/2020 12:38 pm

    Quoting Artschoolgrad:
    "why are people so cruel?"

    that is a very good question! hugs
Spill-over from Trump maniacs.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/31/2020 12:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Good idea.


tews 65M
429 posts
8/10/2020 5:43 am

Lol Kit. I have more than a slight understanding of you .... and you know it well. LOL


Bulldog719 73M  
41 posts
8/13/2020 4:22 am

A good read. A look from the other side.


DancingDom 74M
22527 posts
8/22/2020 10:42 pm

I don't know the details, since I don't cam and it does not work for me in the first place. But i have an idea who these two are. He manipulates and directs here. He is just a plain asshole. She is too smitten, foolish maybe even dumb to realize he is domineering and not really dominant in how he carries on. One day she will realize what he is and bye bye gone splitsville.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Kitkatshadow 57F

8/22/2020 11:20 pm

    Quoting DancingDom:
    I don't know the details, since I don't cam and it does not work for me in the first place. But i have an idea who these two are. He manipulates and directs here. He is just a plain asshole. She is too smitten, foolish maybe even dumb to realize he is domineering and not really dominant in how he carries on. One day she will realize what he is and bye bye gone splitsville.
You hit the nail right on the head DD, they are the same two who blog.



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