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Blondie_K 24F
79 posts
1/7/2021 8:05 pm
PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE


So I thought I'd write this blog post mainly as one of the most frequent questions I get asked is - 'What have you done before?' I don't mind answering it but it does get a bit repetitive after a while, so here's a brief account of the previous Dom/Master situations I've had.
Both these took place about 18 months ago while I was still at University

My first situation was with a friend of an ex boyfriend who I'd know for a short time, he was in his mid 30's. When I split from my boyfriend he got in touch and we had a few drinks and the subject of sex came up. We somehow got onto the topic of spanking and he told me he'd some experience of BDSM. After a couple of weeks he invited me back to his house and this was the first of around 5 or 6 sessions we had over a 3 month period.

What I later found out was he had very little, if any true BDSM experience. He'd picked a few things up from online and made things up as he went along. He'd no equipment or toys of any kind. I realised with hindsight he was using me for sex with a bit of kink thrown in. Now in a way, I did quite enjoy it as it was the basic NSA situation but my big hope of some genuine BDSM sessions didn't happen

My visits lasted anything from 1 to 4 hours, this is a brief list of what we did :-

When I got to his house I was made to strip and remained naked throughout my visit
I was referred to as SLUT and was given lots of verbal abuse
I was roughly inspected at the start of each session, made to stand with my arms up and out, turn around and bend over to touch my toes
Every visit started with me giving him a BJ
Depending on the length of my stay certain things happened, some of which included BJ's, facials, hand-jobs, rimming, squeezing and pinching of my breasts, slapping and pulling of my breasts, hair pulling and dragging me around with my hair into position, fingering of both my cunt and ass, hard fucking of my pussy in various positions, slapping and spanking of my ass, pulling and stretching of my pussy-lips and on the last visits anal sex

So some of these things were new for me and in some ways I enjoyed trying them, but as I say when I look back he was more an amateur Dom/Master rather than a true experienced Dom/Master with experience that I would have preferred. The sessions stopped when he move away from the area

My second situation was with an older man who was in his mid 50's. Apparently he was a work contact of my first Dom and we met in a cafe in Manchester during my lunch break at Uni. He was local and was open and honest about himself and what he wanted. He was married but his wife who was disabled knew and approved of his sessions, but had no involvement in them whatsoever. He had a spare bedroom which we used for the session and again the sessions lasted from an hour to on a couple of visits all day
He had been doing BDSM as a Dom/Master for around 20 and had a variety of equipment and toys. I won't list them all here but there were many things I'd never seen before
The only thing that was the same as my first situation was I was made to strip immediately I arrived, but after that things were much different.
I had always to address him as Master and was not allowed to speak only when he permitted
I won't go into the detail of what he had me do sexually as that's taken for granted but he did what I call proper BDSM training including:-

humiliation and degradation
physical and verbal abuse
tying and restraints
orgasm denial and forced orgasms
breast
toy and object insertions

I've probably missed some things out but every session was varied and exciting and at the end we always had a cuddle and kissed

Things were going well and I looked forward to my visits but sadly after about 6 months his wife became ill and we had to stop the visits

So that's a brief but I hope informative account of my experience so far. If you do message or chat to me and you want any further detail of any of the above please ask

Thanks for reading

Blondie_K


DomTantro 51M
35 posts
1/7/2021 10:05 pm

you sound like the perfect student '


ADOMIS4U2 62M
820 posts
1/7/2021 10:47 pm

Tal greets a girl an hello, having read your brief descriptions' of your experiences ,seems most do start up on that path of insecurity smiles but seem you enjoyed time with the older wiser Master ponders if you would still be with him if could be
anyways seems you got a good inkling now of what you looking for on your life's path , perhaps we might chat more and see if can discover more thing's might help you follow the path of your dreams smiles Regards MASTER ADOMIS4U2


ClitLickB4Dicku 64M
37 posts
1/7/2021 11:15 pm

I would clasify myself as a talented amateur when it comes to Dom-Master. I have been seeing a Girl on and off in Asia for 10 years and she is a Kinky-Sub-Slut (see my pics n vids) that acts as my guide in such matters and I sometimes surprise her when i go "Off-Script"

I have been discussing with a another girl here in Perth who wants to be Sex-Tortured, Humiliated and generally abused. We are yet to organise a meet, but it will be interesting to see what transpires.

It's a journey for us all, Sub and Dom alike, and there are many paths and stops along the road to fulfillment

Thank you for your post


Docman51 67M
11 posts
1/8/2021 1:00 am

love your pictures, great smile. I've sort of given up the Dom/master situation but would certainly return to it for you. The answer is always to find the right Dom for the right submissive. Be safe always make first meet with anyone in a public place, and discuss your wants openly. If you want to chat I'm often on messenger. love Docman51


mistress_black_d 60F
184 posts
1/8/2021 2:08 am

What a lovely, open and honest post.

I love the way you admit bumbling through to realising what you want; I feel most of us in this community can (and do) share that experience.

You were lucky to have found the more experienced practitioner early in your exploration; but even had that been delayed you would almost certainly have ended up discovering what you needed.

Happy to chat at any time.


likesmatures 55M
4794 posts
1/8/2021 4:13 am

You could just list your likes in your profile or post pics of what your into


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
1/8/2021 6:02 am

Hi Blondie_k . . . . interesting to read your past experiences . . I would certainly like to chat more with you. . . .privately of course. . .x


melsjourney 65M/34F
20 posts
1/8/2021 6:15 am

It was interesting reading your previous experiences and I dare say many have had similar introductions. In many ways publications such as 50 shades have ruined things in that, firstly it is terribly written and poorly researched and had produced many who wish to dabble in Dominance for the sake of a bit of kinky sex.
Generally older provides someone who has had life experience and hopefully an understanding of the female mind and body.
When you find someone that you truly trust and want to give yourself to, both in mind and body then you will feel another level of this.
Enjoy your journey.


benson0 64M
1 post
1/8/2021 6:41 am


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
1/8/2021 8:20 am

Welcome to the blogs. Best to you. Here are some suggestions for you. Now that you are on alt, read all the things on the activity check list. I would not fill it out. I would learn what everything is. Learn all you can about safety too. But, despite what others may suggest, do not reveal your preferences, fantasies and such to any prospective partner(s). Let them tell you what they are into, their experience, their opinions, observations and so forth. You do the questioning, use opened ended questions. Ask them in different ways over time. You want to look for consistency and you don't tell them what you are into so that the players, abusers and self interested folks don't parrot back to you what you hope to hear. Avoid role play on line, it is a fantasy and the sharp guys will figure it out and tell you stuff that fits such. Also, beware of anyone claiming to be a trainer or mentor. They usually are not what they claim. Besides, you in reality train yourself. And mentors, are best to be someone of the same sex and orientation and have experience in the things you are interested in. You pick the mentor, the mentor does not volunteer to you. Mentors do not engage in sexual activity. They are to instruct and advise.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
1/8/2021 11:51 am

melsjourney.

I do so agree with your thoughts and comments.. I assume mel has enjoyed a similar journey under your guidance


Dave54321 61M
2679 posts
1/8/2021 12:13 pm

I think DancingDom makes some very good points.
All the best to you - enjoy your journey.


luxmaster007 62M

1/8/2021 3:20 pm

thx for sharing, it reads like for honest and real set of experiences. That's very courageous and deserves respect.

I have a keen interest in medical play , so whenever you have interest in this , probably not before 2022, let me know.

Best regards


Congressor 54M

1/8/2021 3:36 pm

Poor girl.
I never knew Stockport could be so depraved.
I, however, am nothing like your two erstwhile perverted lovers.
We, at the Salvation Army, will not judge your previous sins. Indeed, I have a tambourine here in my hand with your name etched upon it.
Come to me my darling. Let us skip joyfully into the sunset together, you dirty little slut-wannabe.


kdom4whores2 65M
230 posts
1/9/2021 7:14 am

Hi Blondie have replied to your group post come chat if you interested for real


LyvEn4payne 71M

1/11/2021 8:05 am

Thank you for sharing.


AnalGirlForMe 66M

1/16/2021 2:09 pm

I don't think I can remember ever reading a more genuine and open hearted blog post.

Blondie, you are so precious and although I know there is a deviant and kinky Little Girl in there - be careful. Many who prey here are not what they appear to be and I want you to have fun and expand your knowledge and experiences in a SAFE manner.

Not all on here are as honest as you clearly are. You, are unique and a breath of fresh air.

What an enchanting Little Girl for some lucky Daddy to spoil.


Boggles2001 61M  
382 posts
1/17/2021 8:41 pm

Hi K ....

Just to echo the comments above,shame you are so far away because you sound a rarity on here....a genuine eager to learn submissive...

As you say with age comes expereince and i hope wisdom ..lol...what is also nice is the way you don’t denigrate your first “Dom” ...we all have to start somewhere and that includes Doms...

Perhaps we will chat someday,you certainly sound an intriguing possibility...


ADOMISs_Colleen 46F  
167 posts
1/24/2021 10:28 pm

Blondie_K, may I please give you my thoughts of having a MASTER.
Take your time, be patient and find the Master that suits 'you' not you suit him. Make sure he is patient, I know us women, we tend to get emotional at times, giggles, a good Master will understand it and help calm you, build you not break you. Find one that you enjoy conversations with and must of all just enjoy being with him. Once you become 'His' you will need to obey and serve with all your heart, soul, body, mind and spirit. So pick the right one. My MASTER ADOMIS4U2 is the best!! He is kind, patient (I needed lots, giggles) He is strong willed and so very wise. He changed my life in the most amazing ways. So good luck on your journey paths, stay true to who your are and enjoy!!! Hope to see your smile around here. If you ever want to ride a Tarn, I will be glad to take you on a tour of MASTER ADOMIS4U2's land of Talmont.
One more thing, sometimes when things get tough I read this and it helps,
'When the world says, 'Give up'... Hope whispers. 'Try one more time'
Good luck, come visit us!!!!!

happily collared, branded la kajira of MASTER ADOMIS4U2


Brockfun69 48M

2/3/2021 6:17 am

Sounds like the perceft student .... yum


slutscholarship 55M  
6 posts
5/10/2021 3:39 pm

Great info, i wish every sub provided this. Masters should as well.


alongtermthing 62M

1/6/2023 1:17 am

really really enjoyed your blog ,,,Thankyou



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