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Keepitfun1691 63M

10/18/2021 6:28 am

Interesting 🤔


Plzrmeister 67M  
10279 posts
10/18/2021 6:45 am

Every time I read something about going back to - or trying rekindle - a past relationship, the same words come to me. As odd as it may seem, it's from the movie 'Patton' (circa 1970). With regard to temporarily retreating, General Patton says "Never pay for the same real estate twice."

I'd wager 99.99% of the time when people discuss the possibility of 'going back', they know it's a bad idea. Yes there's 'that draw' .... which is akin to Sirens luring sailors to destruction.

As your verbiage indicates, you know there wouldn't be a happy ending to any reunion.

Resist the Sirens.

Make Women Female Again


Greybrow 63M
625 posts
10/18/2021 6:52 am

Well said Natalie it is never easy to end a relationship. I imagine even harder if you have such a strong desire to serve and please.


petiteandtight 43F  
138 posts
10/18/2021 7:08 am

i know all to well Natalie how it feels its awful


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1542 posts
10/18/2021 7:26 am

The mind is a terrible thing to waste, so they say, but it can sure get in the way sometimes.


Artschoolgrad 46M
8558 posts
10/18/2021 9:16 am

you may have been "good" for him but you will be great for the right mr someone else


grywolf2 73M
3058 posts
10/18/2021 9:23 am

Sounds like you're well focused on the pull of this dynamic on your needs and desires.

I guess we need to stay tuned to see how your memories of what went wrong might determine if the message is his last or not.

Turning the page, there is something to be said for considering what a new and unique dynamic a future "Leading" man might provide.


brandygirasol 54T
9408 posts
10/18/2021 9:33 am

Natalie always do what's best for YOU🤩


drmgirl622 68F  
25994 posts
10/18/2021 11:08 am

Those messages are like that fish hook so carefully baited and dangling right in front of you. Just don't take the bait !


ExNameForUse 53F
5714 posts
10/18/2021 12:17 pm

I am glad you are saying you're not going back and I hope you really won't. He just hasn't got anyone else at the moment, trust me. Be brave, respect yourself, and resist temptation. dear Natalie.


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
10/18/2021 5:23 pm

Yeah, that's a tough one. Unless the reason(s) it didn't work the first time has changed or the person has changed, it feels good when together, but is only short lived.


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
10/18/2021 8:04 pm

And The Sinner isn't on Netflix for a while, but there's Ambrose to look forward to.

That's a shame , it's going to be a good one. I promise no spoilers.



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