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0410blossom 51F
585 posts
9/29/2022 11:46 pm
Take My Breath Away…

Edge-play: Breath play in BDSM

I’ll admit; choking to the point where I lose consciousness is an unbelievable, euphoric feeling, unlike much I’ve experienced. It doesn’t take more than seconds of your (experienced) partner pressing firmly on your carotids, looking into your eyes, and commanding you let go, until you dip into Elysium—only to be pulled back, moments later, by the same hands that brought you there—usually via a hard slap in the face.

For a brief time after coming back, your entire body is hypersensitive; each pore is alert, every sensation is heightened, and your body is basically a receptacle for sensual pleasure. At the same time, you’re giddy and giggly; high as a kite, fluttery like a butterfly.

Maybe you already went there in your mind, but I’ll say it nonetheless: Few things feel otherworldly like deep penetration in those moments; when you’re basically a butterfly on ecstasy.

I love hearing those words whispered to me during breath play “Cum For Me!”


Edge-Play: Breath Play is something “I” enjoy with my Dominate. I don’t expect everyone on this blog to agree with me; as I realize some Edge-Play is considered taboo. But I do ask that if you are visiting that your comments are respectable and free from judgement. I am glad to hear that many of you have hard limits. I know what my own are and how far I wish to go with this. So thank you all. Your comments will all stay, as it is a public blog. I don’t blog for any other reason except to share my own experiences. As part of the kink community we all have our own opinions, limitations and kinks; just remember to be kind in your comments, even when you don’t agree. 😊 Hugs to you all.

0410blossom 51F
708 posts
9/29/2022 11:48 pm

Do not try this at home, especially not alone or with an inexperienced player. Choking and breathplay are potentially hazardous, and, in the absolute worst-case scenario, deadly.)


looking4fat 72T

9/30/2022 2:13 am

Oh. And here i was thinking "Top Gun."

"Watching every motion in my foolish lover's game
On this endless ocean, finally lovers know no shame
Turning and returning to some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion as you turn around and say

Take my breath away
Take my breath away

Watching, I keep waiting, still anticipating love
Never hesitating to become the fated ones
Turning and returning to some secret place to hide
Watching in slow motion as you turn to me and say

My love, take my breath away

Through the hourglass, I saw you
In time, you slipped away
When the mirror crashed, I called you
And turned to hear you say
If only for today, I am unafraid

Take my breath away
Take my breath away

Watching every motion in this foolish lover's game
Haunted by the notion somewhere there's a love in flames
Turning and returning to some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion as you turn my way and say

Take my breath away
My love, take my breath away
My love, take my breath away
My love, take my breath away"

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 10:38 am:
Lovely song, thank you Kate, I remember it fondly

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4025 posts
9/30/2022 5:18 am

requires great trust between D/s & care by the DOM not to push to far...whatever geTs you off I’m down for thou!


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 10:17 am:
Thank you DOMDaddy. Everyone has different kinks and I enjoy the exploration.

Mrpaulux1 55M
227 posts
9/30/2022 8:23 am

Beautiful post


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 10:34 am:
Thank your Mrpaul. I really appreciate your comment. Some things are incredibly intimate and beautiful when you have exceptional trust. Giving into fear and exploring slowly with lots of care for one another is so rare.

rondiri 64M
11040 posts
9/30/2022 10:11 am

That takes a lot of trust. Though I am a sadist. Cutting the blood flow to the brain is not in my repertoire. Too little margin for error for my taste.


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 11:13 am:
It takes an incredible amount of trust and the amount of care that my Dominate has for me is surreal; and the play itself is an incredibly personal and intimate one. I appreciate your viewpoint and I realize there is a high margin. However there are a number of skilled practitioners and Masters that are extremely competent. I also understand the taboo that surrounds Edge play. There are always risks with any BDSM activity and I always advocate novices not to jump into any play without full knowledge and slow introduction. Anyone that rushes a person into play should raise a red flag.

rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
9/30/2022 11:11 am

I know for some, it is like you wrote.
For me, it is a hard limit.
The margin for things going south is way too big, in my eyes
Even with an experienced D...

Also, the way he holds that fabric/ belt? to her neck is very dangerous.
A totall red flag!
It should be done right in front of her, less chance on damage some muscle or bone structure,
so he can see and feel her neck...
her breathing.. IF, you want to engage in that...

I am happy for you, that you dare to experience this and that it gave both you and your d such a high!


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 11:23 am:
Thank you Rosa for your comment. I realize this is not for everyone and your absolutely right about the picture. I couldn’t find one that actually shows the proper facing technique or the monitors that watch over the scene. You are a beautiful person to reserve judgement and thank for being happy for me, I truly appreciate that. 😊

rydermantel 68M
23764 posts
9/30/2022 1:09 pm

    Quoting 0410blossom:
    Do not try this at home, especially not alone or with an inexperienced player. Choking and breathplay are potentially hazardous, and, in the absolute worst-case scenario, deadly.)
If it is potentially deadly why even attempt such a thing?


rydermantel 68M
23764 posts
9/30/2022 1:12 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    That takes a lot of trust. Though I am a sadist. Cutting the blood flow to the brain is not in my repertoire. Too little margin for error for my taste.
I'm with you on this. "Too little margin for error" as you say.


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
9/30/2022 1:43 pm

blossom

I can understand the feeling this generates but , like others, I do not have to the courage to either do it to another or have it done to me!

As others said, the margin for error and disaster is small!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 11:33 am:
I agree not many have the courage to try something like this outside of their comfort level, nor should they. This is and should always be a personal choice and not one made for them. Everyone’s approach to BDSM is different and that is why we all have limitations. I am glad you know what yours are.

AbstractSkies 55M
75 posts
10/1/2022 7:40 am

I have been in small groups of people enjoying intimate acts and have witnessed this a couple of times, I admit the first time it freaked me out then I saw the intense pleasure one gets from it. I am glad you followed this post with the 'warning', I've done things to increase the erotic intense pleasure release with women before but never this, thanks for sharing. *hugs*


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 11:47 am:
Thank you Abstract, it would be incredibly irresponsible if I didn’t put the disclaimer. Thank you for sharing your experience, I truly appreciate that. *Hugs*

rondiri 64M
11040 posts
10/1/2022 1:50 pm

0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 2:13 pm:
It takes an incredible amount of trust and the amount of care that my Dominate has for me is surreal; and the play itself is an incredibly personal and intimate one. I appreciate your viewpoint and I realize there is a high margin. However there are a number of skilled practitioners and Masters that are extremely competent. I also understand the taboo that surrounds Edge play. There are always risks with any BDSM activity and I always advocate novices not to jump into any play without full knowledge and slow introduction. Anyone that rushes a person into play should raise a red flag.

Oh I'm well aware. I don't begrudge anyone that partakes in this. It's just not for me. I'll stick to covering the nose and mouth for safety sake


0410blossom replies on 10/1/2022 8:40 pm:
Thank you Rondiri for taking the time to throw light on your original comment and elaborating. I truly appreciate it.

Latexandbootfet 60M
17 posts
10/4/2022 3:14 pm

Nice post


0410blossom 51F
708 posts
10/4/2022 7:16 pm

Thank you, I really appreciate that.



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