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It makes me wonder...
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I agree and I know that i have missed it a lot
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I miss it all too, but I have survived and still flourish (i think) as a human being. When it happens, it happens. I know I don't want to be with someone, just to be with someone. There has to be a real connections. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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How long?  I'd say when you write a blog like this one, it's been long enough.For sure. You hold all the keys to your happiness - you know it and I know it. Best concise advice I can give is to make sure you're giving off good vibes.  Make Women Female Again
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It depends on the person and the need. Love is all that matters. If there is no love you can wait an eternity. But then again, how do we define love? Only you can answer your question. If it has to do with BDSM, I have no need for it. Companionship is more relevant for me. Holding hands can be very intimate. You can tell a lot by simply holding hands. Then we have nostalgia and that is all in the mind and our recollection for things that are gone like a wisp of smoke.
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It's been QUITE some time for me, Ex, and I will admit that I miss the closeness of those simple pleasures you mentioned. But, I'm pretty picky about sharing those moments, and won't allow it to be just anyone, which, I'm sure, has prolonged the absence. But I'm aware that I'm alone, and enjoy the solitude, for the most part, and rarely feel 'lonely', and keep an open mind that the elusive woman I seek is on the horizon...
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There has been a drought here as well. I choose to fill that void with lunch with friends, going to the theater with friends, and traveling with friends. No, it's not the same but I'd rather have my friends than a situation where I am always questioning the validity.
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8/27/2024 11:15 pm |
One day is too long
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Flourishing or stagnating. Your in Limbo so to speak. Transitions of sorts. Look at this time as a period of reflection. You are still dealing with the loss of trust with your last partner and the dealing with your offspring. And, it could be just a time when no one in particular has sparked any interest so far. You don't strike me as a person you jumps into a relationship now days without complete trust and the elements of love, respects and frankly romance. I sense you would like to be courted in the traditional manners. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I should add: Not many in all of this will be patient and be traditional, they want to get to the kink stuff right off and expect sex immediately after contact. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Ex that question is answered differently & varies in length of time for everybody individually…it’s never good to be w o that intimacy! when the time & person are right for you is when it’ll happen…only sorry l didn’t do it for you! lol
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There has been a drought here too, going on about a year now. I have the avenue for a couple select junk-food fixes. I have been known to take a taste every now and again, but oddly that doesn't even seem worth it to me at this point. TBH, Having dealt with a number of liars lately, and still somewhat feeling the loss of the last boy, I am just not interested in dealing with any of them. I am unpacking a little more each day and setting in, enjoying my peace. While at times having a naked boy wrapped around me sounds good, I am not yet moved to make it so. How long, you ask? I have no answer to offer dear Ex.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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you being harden not easy to deal w a loner w walls…plz do not turn into one of those crazy cat ladies Ex! lol I’m lil concerned as that is what happens when you keep yourself locked up in a prison…Ex you’re worthy & you deserve…good!
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I try to fill that void with contact with friends, women friends. I too, have a hugh trust issue, if it come to contact with men. I rater stay away from them, to be honest. Also, the change of meeting a dominant/sadistic human being, with ethics? "in the wild"? is almost non existence... Vanillas just wont do it. But, even with close friends, the feeling is not the same, it does not go thát deep, although the contact is always great and we hugg and kiss each other, touch each other, laugh and share very private things, ( but not the bdsm thing, ) ofcourse, them being vanilla, it would shock them out of their shoes! I am happy to have those contacts, though..... I have skin hunger, too. ( ever since the corona lies)
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Last Thursday. If you would keep someone, set them free.
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Ex, sorry for the late reaction, I understand what you are saying about how your life is developing... And, that that, is good, too.  Yes, i do miss thát special person intimate, mental contact, too I hope i will meet that person one day.... ALthough i am totally not seeking, at all. Too bussy with other things in my life, too.. Most men bore me to death, sooo terrible vanilla predictable..... behaviour... Yuck Maybe your sons taste has changed? And now he like to eat special German things?  Just a bit of teasing... good humoured teasing, Enjoy your time, together!! Have fun!
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Ex, I've realized that it's been almost three years since I've been in a relationship. This period of isolation has allowed me to explore and enjoy my own company. It's a unique sensation when you find yourself preferring solitude over entering into another relationship that lacks depth and meaning. Despite making an effort to connect with others, I've found that the options are limited, leaving me drained from encountering deceitful behaviors and mind games. I understand that I have to be out there to find someone, but does it have to be so fucking hard? I wish you the best in your endeavors, ~xM "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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