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rosaenaluin 65F
10695 posts
11/11/2024 12:38 pm
I am back at my own place, again


So, it is soo nice to be at my own place, again.

I am a bit tired, it takes a lot of energy, to keep up.
This winter depression is sucking the living daylight out of me.
Waking up gets me tired, allready.....

So, caring for my sister is heavy now.
She knows this and that is allright.

For this month i dont think, i have to go to her place, anymore
Although we also have a lot of fun, laugh a lot, enjoy each others company, cook together.

And since i dont mind asking the difficult questions, she is very happy with me.
Because she does not dare to start talking about those difficult stuff on her own.

All is good & tired, beyond believe.

She is now in a state that is is going to pick a fight, over stuff
It is rather funny, to see her create an argument

She told me; you are my guinnea pig, i am going to get angry about stuff and going to put my foot down!
I laughed, said; you dont frighten me, at all!
I am not impressed!

So she is in a totall other mood, and i am glad she got there.
It is about time, she is getting real mad!!
We argued the other day, about something not really very important, but i did not understood her arguments.
So i kept asking about it.
Then she really got angry and told me; Because i say so!
It made me laugh, told her; allright, allright, you win!

She laughed too!

Later she apologized about the "argument", i told her,
No, that is not how this works!
You stay by your argument! dont apologize!

Then she got real angry again and told me so!
To me, that is real fun, to see her like that,

As i said before, i iam not impressed.
I am not scared or afraid,

so it is safe for her, to find her way, in all this new territory...

I can only be very proud of her, and her progress....

rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/11/2024 12:41 pm

We hug a lot, every day, when we are together.
She needs that, and i enjoy that too.


DancingDom 75M
23092 posts
11/11/2024 2:03 pm

glad your sister is getting to find who she is .

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


drmgirl622 69F  
27147 posts
11/11/2024 3:01 pm

Its so good of you to give her that leeway.


kinkydaddycock1 58M
162 posts
11/11/2024 3:34 pm

Just as the good times in life dont last , neither does the downs times . Dont get to high and try not to get to down . and a smile goes a long way some days when out and about .


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
5069 posts
11/11/2024 5:30 pm

Rosa hugs are the best therapy!


Hyperdominant22 34M

11/12/2024 12:27 am

Magnifique j adore


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 12:51 am

DD,
Yes, indeed, finally!


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 12:52 am

drmgirl,
Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 12:53 am

kdc,

Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 12:53 am

bdsmDd,
Ooh, they are, at least, a big part of the healing,


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 12:55 am

Hyper,
Merci,


likeithot19 63M
6652 posts
11/12/2024 3:11 am

You are a good friend to your sister
You are both blessed!


pac369 65F  
13502 posts
11/12/2024 8:45 am

Glad to hear you and your sister are doing so well Rosa!!


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 1:14 pm

likeithot,
You know?
During her "marriage/ABUSE, i could not do one thing, because he would have isolated her even more, suppression, degradation, fear creating,
forbade her to contact her family/ sister.

Now that he is finally gone, i can be her support system, she needs that badly, so, i am.
Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/12/2024 1:15 pm

pac,

Thank you, i will do about anything, to support her!


ExNameForUse 54F
6187 posts
11/16/2024 11:14 am

I think one of the best things that could happen to your sister, but also to anyone in general is to have someone you can feel free with to express yourself, be angry, fight, argue, make mistakes... I agree with likeithot, you are truly blessed with each other... 🧡


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
11/23/2024 4:37 am

Aah, Ex,
Sorry, for my late reaction,
There is so much going on, what takes up my time, energy.

Thank you!



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