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rosaenaluin 65F
10695 posts
10/21/2024 11:54 am
People picker?


As they say on FET when things keep going wrong with the male partst of those sites,
Your people picker is broken.

And, i believe mine is broken indeed.

Because, you/i , who ever, can keep blaming those guys that they dont match
Are rude, r~Ape~ 8888 ists.. or what ever disqualification you want to give them.

The thing is, they react onto something that is in your vibe.
At least, that is what i believe by now.

Sure, most guys on here, are dangerous, psychos, narcist, and you name it
cheating on their wifes.. and what not.
BUT
Why do they find your profile, text, pictures soo "interesting" that they seak contact?

There must be something there.....
I also believe this is almost subconscious, from both those men and the women,'
They seem to find "attractive" in some way or order...

Mind you!
There is no blame here!

it is something i have been thinking, analyzing for some time
and also researching my own background
You can say, i did not come from a stable, harmonious family life,

So i dont have that kind of example, i have very bad example.
So it is almost "natural" that my people picker is broken
with that kind of background..

and even now, the guys i sometimes find attractive, are not the kind of guys you want your or , come home with...

So, i can keep on blaming those guys and there are a lot of rotten apples on here
Bé AWARE!
Be very, very carefull!

When you/i, who ever, dont see, their part in all this, this will repeat itselfs till kingdoms comes....
Soo?
what to do?
Be aware of this, is the first step,
analyze your own behaviour toward the type of men, you find attractive,
is an other one.

Break the cycle!! Is an other one!!
My advise to me;?
Keep away from guys, for now
Untill you have this sorted out.

Be, constantly aware of your own reaction toward a certain type of men... man...
Hold yourself back.

An other thing, i have found, is why do some married men, are so Hot on me?
What are my signs??
what, where is my inner power/love?

And, when i just talk with them and "see" their game?
They inmediately lose interest...
Strange? isnt it?

Am i sooo desperately?
Wanting A guy?
ANY KIND OF GUY?
as long as he is breathing, have a pulse?
Is it only about getting some sort of "attention"?
does not matter what kind of "attention"?

Not.
Vanillas dont do it for me.
There is nothing i find attractive in vanilla men, at all
So?
what is it?
I have nothing in common with vanilla men, relation wise of sexuality wise.

What do i, subconscious, send out?
Damn!
peope picker??
bleagh!!

Looking for something totally else, in a person, characterwise, power wise, inner strenght wise... inner compass?
Leading, guidance.

What do i have to offer such a person?
Is what i have to offer, what he needs/wants?
Is it enough?
Are he and i compatible, on the important items, relationwise? M/s wise?

So, the person(s) with the most deep intelligent, psychological insight, wisdom,
may answer this rambling!

Watch out for your own people picker, he/she/ it might be broken,
that is why, i think, you/i/ who ever, attracks those morrons

Because there are very good, emotional stable, fully grown up, fun guys on here,
so why dont they write to you/me/ who ever??
ask yourself that.
or not!

rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
10/21/2024 11:59 am

Everything is connected with everything
Everything is one way of form of energy

And those energy particles do react, ....


drmgirl622 69F  
27147 posts
10/21/2024 12:57 pm

I've always heard that one will show up when you least expect it!


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
5069 posts
10/21/2024 2:01 pm

I’ve come to see that match makers haven’t a clue who is good for somebody else…l wonder how their own lover is?!


kinkydaddycock1 58M
162 posts
10/21/2024 4:01 pm

you are old n broken . Ugly and vile . Find god
You are an old vessel, ,empty and alone . Mental illness is no joke .


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
10/21/2024 10:31 pm

kinkydaddycock1,

I am always Soooo happy, that certain blokes here,
Really love to show their true colour....
So my sisters are warned NOT to mingle with those...

Thank you, so much for that little insight in your true colour,

Good luck to you, too. sir. 🙏


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
10/21/2024 10:34 pm

drmgril,
If i would get a dollar, everytime someone said this to me, i would be a rich bitch by now... 🤣😂🤣

I know you mean well,😘😚💋🤗


rosaenaluin 65F
11599 posts
10/21/2024 10:35 pm

bdsmDd,
Ha! I wonder about that, too.



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