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rosaenaluin 65F
10552 posts
8/27/2024 1:48 am
Unless,


You are dead serious about contacting me,
IF you are able to keep a conversation going, without jumping right into the sex/porn/your dick talk......

Who? On this site???
Whahaha....

Miracles can happen. You know???

I decided to no longer react on messages, "all the way from america"

The other day, this guy dare to introduce himself,( NOT)
By asking if my pussy lips are pierced?..
A totall stranger?

What is wrong with his brain?
As if i gonna share such info with "pixels on the web" ?

It would be best that the mayority of the male products....
Nah... 😇 wont go there....
😁😂🤣😜😝
Some guys on here, make it pretty difficult to....
You fill in the blanks....

rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 1:49 am

Some even seem.to forget, they already contacted you, with negative effect, about 14? Days ago??


RinBoots 71F  
155 posts
8/27/2024 2:03 am

You are right, the majority of messages have very little content.
Some just “Hi” some don’t even know where they live… Aldershot is not in Lancashire. But that the nature of many sites, just read the blogs and comment where suitable. Have a nice day…


likesmatures 55M
5098 posts
8/27/2024 4:23 am

Kinda funny that you can't run into a dude like me..I'd talk your ear off on every subject except sex


ExNameForUse 54F
5989 posts
8/27/2024 4:25 am

I know it's not funny, but tragic, yet this made me laugh... I mean, just imagine sitting in a bar or elsewhere and some randome guy approaches and ask you the same... would anyone do that? I am 99% sure not because that probably wouldn't end well.
Why then doing the same here as an opening line or close to when contacting someone in private?
I am amazed with the way people treat each other in this virtual world.


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4792 posts
8/27/2024 5:28 am

Rosa there is not much AI or l online
soo are they?! lol you mentioned it not l


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 6:42 am

Rinboots,
Thank you.
Yi agree, horrible !
😝


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 6:46 am

likematures,
That is not the point.
A communication should flow, from the one, to the other, with space & respect, to disagree.
With space for silence...

Talking my ears off, is something totally else...
Thanks for your reaction.🙏😊


davinacambs 61T  
911 posts
8/27/2024 6:53 am

For opening lines in a conversation, that has got to be the worst.

To connect , it helps to read your profile and learn more about that person ......... you find out about piercings when they tell you !!

As for the Aldershot thing - I think this is something Alt puts in when you don't use a town name in the UK ........ yet it seems to give accurate mileages somehow - very strange but useful when figuring how close they are to you.

D-J xx


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 6:55 am

EX,
I agree!

I once asked this to this guy , if he would say the same thing, to a stranger woman, waiting for the bus/ train/ taxi.
He dare to answer, that he would just do that!!
Totally cleuless! Without any social compass... disgusting
And then those men complain, that they cant get a woman interested in them??
Blaming it on "the wimmins" ofcourse!!

Lacking any insight in their own behaviour....🤷👎😝


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 7:00 am

bdsmDd,
😊🤣😂💋


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/27/2024 7:08 am

davina,
Hello! Nice to see you, again, 😊
Thanks, for visiting my blog, 🙏🌟

I have put a big city somewhat near to my place, in my profile.
ZWOLLE, check it out!! 😂🤣
The Dutch guys on here.... are mostly non paying members...
Or wankers.... or fantasy sex roleplay ~ players😂🤣
Searching for fetish dispensers, not ever A Real Person, with a Real Life! 😱🤣


drmgirl622 69F  
26832 posts
8/27/2024 7:22 am

I love to watch House Hunters on TV. I see Zwolle quite often as potential real estate destinations.


1benquick 71M
799 posts
8/27/2024 8:47 am

Several times a week, and sometimes MULTIPLE times in a day, I receive the profiles of women who have 'Viewed my profile' with this STATED as their 'Introduction' in their profile#39;'I need a submissive student to teach train all fetishes and kinks as your new mistress and i will be yours in my dungeon.''...That's all that's written, EXACTLY the same wording in all this different 'profiles' from ALL these 'SUPPOSED' Dommes/Mistresses/Dominatrixes! There HAS to be an external organization' that is available to the scammers that are SO prevalent on here coaching them and providing them with things to write in an attempt to lure the ignorant men on here that fall for such ploys. My point is, Rosa, that this iste is a pathetic MESS and does very little to protect members from the fools that are ruining it. I think it's admirable that you have standards that you maintain for the men you want to communicate with, there are, I am sure, as many fake/undesirable males on here, as there are fake/undesirable females on here. At the end of the day, we are obviously the only ones responsible for our actions, and using GOOD judgement is DEFINITELY REQUIRED on here...glad to read that you and your sister are doing better, and am hoping and praying for continued success and improvements for both of you!


uncommon1 67M  
1881 posts
8/27/2024 9:03 am

Most people here, that are
real, don't consider this the
top kink site. That being said,
the top site in europe, asian an
north america aren't all the same.
How people approach each
other various around the world
but there are some foundational
basics having to do with good manners
that aren't present in people that were
raised interacting with a computer screen
rather than other people.


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/29/2024 4:43 am

drmgirl,
Oh? Really?
That is great. It is a nice little place, not a very big city, like Utrecht, or Deventer..
But nice, never the less....🙏🏘


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/29/2024 4:53 am

uncommon1,
Well, if they dont have any (moral) standard, i am not interested in them.
They are even worst then dogs, because dogs just follow their instinct... , cant help themselves.... 🐕‍🦺🦮🐕🐶


Someone from my part of this planet, or around... would be nice... but even that German guy, lately ... was horrible... in his ways..
Wich Top sites?


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
8/29/2024 4:59 am

1benquick,
Ooh, boy! I feel for what you have to endure, on here.
Yeah, the worldwide scammer army has found the bdsm scene too.

To rip men of their money and dignity, too.
If you fall for their crap.
D's and submissives are FIRST human beings, and will treat you that way.
Not the way those fake fantasy bitches (f/m) from hell role play act... their fantasy out....
Bah!


ventureslutslave 53F
25 posts
9/8/2024 8:51 am

I love your input, and if I was closer we would have been sitting down already chatting, just for the pure joy if it. However, I can say, it is not a common advocacy to meet up with especially via internet sites.


ventureslutslave 53F
25 posts
9/8/2024 8:55 am

I totally resonate with what you state. In a way, as unwanted as these morse code non articulated pop ups arrive, in the same breath it teaches me all about the person I would best totally ignore. Thank them in your-mind, for saving you teh time to find out the dick head he may be. The bigger the balls, it appear the smaller the brain in quality function?


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
9/9/2024 6:42 am

ventureslut,
Thanks for your reaction.
Well, you know?
I am of the believe, THAT, IF both parties really set their mind to it,
It could work perfectly fine, starting from online contact..

But, most already start with lies and holding important info back, thus, already start to cheat.... 🤷
Even before there was any kind of fundation, to build on.
It shows, time and again, in their first attemp to contact you/ me.
So pathetic.
So not grown-ups.


rosaenaluin 65F
11427 posts
9/9/2024 6:48 am

ventureslut,
Yes, indeed,
They show you, right from the start, why you would NEVER, EVER get in contact with such......

I, most of the time, wont even answer such reaction...

The block and delete button is my best friend! 😃👍
Thanks for dropping by 🦋



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