I don't know what to do. My wife has been spending a lot of time with a friend. I have never met her friend so I followed her the other day, parked the car, and quietly walked up to the house. The blind was pulled down except for two inches from the bottom of the window. I was shocked when I peeked in the window. My wife was fucking the pastor of our church. She was riding him like a bucking bronco. She was screaming "l'm cumming" and he was screaming "Hallelujah." I feel awkward going to church tomorrow, especially when the topic of the sermon is, "The Importance of Fidelity in Marriage." My wife is staying overnight at her so called friend's house. She said they're going to play games with a group called FetLife. She'll meet me at church tomorrow morning. I took photos and video of what they were doing. What should I do?
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You won't be a nobody among 10,000 worshipers after you expose them. There is nothing new about this. They say there is no mass in hell but it is not for a shortage of priests. Your GOD obviously led you to this discovery, follow your conscience...
How about you play the video for the pastor and his congregation tomorrow.
You could take this as an opportunity to have your own little side hustle. You're on this site so I'd wager that you've been thinking about it.
Show the Pastor the pics and let him know you want to fuck his wife in return for not letting anybody from the church know..
Should have filmed it and played it for the congregation or at least the pastors wife. What a phony ! I think this goes on more than people know these born again and other "new" religions are a source for predators. Thats why the lifestyle is the only way.
The thing the wife did wrong was to not be open with you. Maybe you'd be okay with adding another man (or woman) to the bedroom. Maybe not. If you are together then you can do anything and it is a TOGETHER activity.
You'll have to think on that once you get over the betrayal. If your relationship is strong, you will get past it.
As for the Pastor... what a scumbag. Think YOUR wife is the only one he's dallying with? Not likely. He's got to be exposed in a very public way. No options there. You might be the sort to walk up in front of the congregation and pop him in the mouth as a starting point... Whatever, just get their attention and present the facts.
It all depends whether you want to remain with your wife. The basic choice is to confront her or stay silent.
It’s not a sin to tell the truth it’s a sin to lie and to commit adultery, that even made it to the top rmten commandments so it’s their sin not your and he’s the one that is deceiving his congregation so post it and let him decide how to acknowledge it or deny it
Others have introduced thoughts I didn't consider... you owe your community some consideration here too... super difficult, but I think you need to report this. Be strong and do what you think is best.
Tomorrow slip the video I to the projector and let it air so all 10,000 members can see the truth the truth Weill set you free
Yeah, do you confront the situation, walk (or RUN) away, or ???
I don't know how helpful this is, but I think you figure out what you really want (full fidelity, whatever), what you're willing to accept, and then try to decide what to do next.
My wife had an affair with a female co-worker 10-12 years into our marriage, but she was in a lesbian relationship when I married her so I wasn't surprised, and it wasn't really an option for me to join in. 10+ years later she had another affair with an absolute pig of a man (church related - both of them church cantors, but he had an f'ing sailboat and taught her "sailing" ). That was almost the end.
Anyway, I decided to stay. Kids, life, etc. We're still (mostly) happy. Sexually not great, so I'm here. She says she'll never stray again, and I actually believe her. I used to feel like I had a free pass for an affair or 2, but I don't even care any more. But I'm still here.
I never had an experience like yours. I saw some other stuff (patterns, inconsistencies. etc.) over time and confronted her, and she confessed. Not sure what I would have done if actually seeing what you did.
Good luck!
Well, if you took this photo you had a front row seat right next to the preacher, even with a telephoto lens you couldn't have taken it from this angle
Love to see you video.
Get her to sit down and watch some porn with you and slip in you
home video of her going wild with the preacher. Tell her you found it
searching for some good porn. Lol.
That’s what I love hairy cunts and cocks
Show the preacher the video before church and see his reaction when you tell him you are going to broadcast it in church
I'm afraid to show him the video. He's the senior pastor of our church that has a membership of 10,000 worshipers. I'm a nobody in the congregation. Although, it's going to be difficult for me to take communion with my wife next to me as he gives us the blessing. I've been praying all day, asking for forgiveness. I feel like I sinned spying on them. My wife will tell me the lord told her to fuck him. i just don't know what to do. I'll pray some more.