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.......and yet....we are all still here. Continue to check in daily/weekly/monthly and new people are signing on everyday.
Life is all about adaptability ~
@jajo696 hun sadly you are right but if sooner or later if something better comes up this site will diminish in itself. Xoxox
@big_guy2018 ......Ive looked over the years...and so far nothing with the diversity of here.....some people like the groups....the mail...the stories.....the blogs....the chatrooms....the IM....the videos.....the magazine....the cams etc. One may be able to find one or two of that elsewhere....but nowhere is it all together as with here. Lets not forget....Various, Inc....markets to many different specific groups ( seniors..gay....kinksters...bdsm...lifestyle ....affairs...etc) all within this same data base. That means there is a mismash of what people here are seeking. That kinda cross section can't be found on other sites....yet.
......and so here we are....rolling with the changes~
@jajo696 Indeed you’re right but the glitches are something that seems to be getting worse. Using algorithms that decline posts and they seem unwilling to change or upgrade the I’m system. We are here but they could make the system run more smoothly and make people happier by listening and responding to complaints and requests.
The whole site has changed and NOT for the better!!!!!
Exactly and pretty much as you can see from the responses very few are to happy about it. If only this company would have do things differently from the start of when changes when original came to make changes. Maybe that is why he has vanished as he was pretty unsuccessful.
I thank there would be alot more people on here if the cost wasnt so hi
That plus less fake profiles, scammers or bots . It’s a real turn off. Plus a site that constantly has problems how can you trust them with your money?
Too many fake accounts and doesn't seem like anything is done to control or remove spammers and scammers
@StrangeLuck2nite I believe but what facts do you have?
@big_guy2018 It's always a clue when the picture is one gender, and the description is another. Or they come into a chat room, and their talk doesn't match their profile
@StrangeLuck2nite I saw your answer good reasoning . Especially in chat rooms when the profile does not match what they are saying.
@StrangeLuck2nite No worries this is what I mean this to be a sounding board hopefully get this noticed potentially but unlikely. To let yourself know you are not the only out the that is upset with this site.
I've mentioned this on other blogs but I find the flirt and hotlist features annoying and useless. The hotlist is used as a bookmark of sorts which is okay but there should not be a notification sent to the one being hotlisted, imo. It just creates another false hope to entice the recipient. As for the flirts, 99.9 % come from scammer profiles. We should also be able to clear the cache of all notifications as we need to. Add to that the "who viewed me" notification. I know it's a common tactic to make users (especially the men they are trying to sell gold memberships to) think they are getting interest. But let's face the fact that looking at a profile means nothing and a lot of those views go hand in hand with the flirts from scammers anyway. I mean really, I'm not naive enough to think a 20 year old in Pasadena Ca that looks like a porn star is truly interested in a 60 something guy in Atlantic Canada.
Kind of along with the I.M. not working but the inbox messaging is fucked up now. You can't paragraph when sending longer text and it doesn't automatically move your word to the next line when the line is full. You will get most of a word in and the last one or two letters go to the next line. For example, in a recent conversation I typed the word understand. Instead of a normal format that would go under- and on the next line stand, it read understan and the next line was the d. I know I'm being picky here but grammatical errors and improper letter writing really annoy the fuck out of me.
What happened to Br
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It's difficult to justify a gold membership when you are not allowed to contact standard members. 😭
I want to have a IM button to deactivate it. It bugs me to get unsolicited IM's. Email, flirt and hotlist first please! Frustrates me to get "I want to fuck you and come all over you" but not now who this person is. If I wanted this, I'd go visit the glory holes here.This site went down hill back in 2013. I don't know who messed it up, but they ruined it for us regulars.
Lots of fake accounts, but I can usually spot them
To many fakes on here have to weed through to find the real people and then some of them turn out to be scammers
I will start the comments since the company had brought in Andrew the system was not great and has only seem to have gotten worse. The IM/Messenger system has never worked and needs a total overhaul. The overseers of this site are not working hard enough to rid scammers, bots and fake profiles that at times I wonder if the company sets up. There is little they can do about people but many are not here for the true objectives of this site. Even with blogging and posting you type something wrong I think not a human but a computer program denies your posting. This company Variation should have done a totally separate beta test site internally before rolling out the site and making changes as the system was running. I do not pay but I wonder for the week that the system went totally down did members get a credit ? Also this company like most companies in the world should go by the motto to make money you have to spend money. Honestly I think the programmers reconfiguring this site seem very inept. If a better and cheaper site evolves eventually if things do not change this site will be in trouble.