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My one memory of doing this is not a good one. I was sharing a 2 bedroom apartment with a roommate and at some point her boyfriend basically moved in...at any rate he was around more often than he was not.
One weekend we were having a party. A male friend of my roommate's boyfriend came in from out of town for the party. Roommate's boyfriend had told him that he could stay over after the party rather than making the long drive home. And he told him he could share my king size bed. I wasn't real happy with the situation, but didn't want to be a bitch or make waves.
When the party was over and we went to bed, naturally he hit on me. I wasn't really attracted to him, but drunk and not wanting to make waves, I acquiesced.
I wouldn't go so far as to call it grape without a g. But I imagine a lot of women have similar stories of just acquiescing because it's going to be less trouble than rebuffing someone.
@hippiechick1967 I just think I was way too unassertive. 🥺
@hippiechick1967 @smartasswoman Our generation was raised to be nice. Not to be troublesome. Go along with the situation. I can't count how many times I got pawed at by men and my mother always put the responsibility on me! A kid. And told me to avoid them. God forbid they stop inviting the pervs over to the house.
I haven't found myself too often in the need to unexpectedly share a bed with guys who weren't my lovers or special friends, so to speak. But during a trip one winter afternoon in horrible weather I had a car breakdown in the middle of nowhere, and a very friendly driver picked me up and we went to his motel. I tried to book a room, but the motel was full, so we shared the bed in his room, and we did have sex, I thought it was only fair to reward him for his kindness... this was almost 30 years ago! Since then it hasn't happened to me again
Yes.....have shared a bed with friends....no sex...cuz they were/are friends. Many many winters and summers ago though . I keep boundaries. ~
I have shared a bed with a friend but it’s been at least a decade.
No sex, I like to keep my friends as friends, sex often ruin friendships in my experience.
I have a Strictly platonic friend who isn't in the Lifestyle. He's like a Brother to me. We travelled 7 yrs ago to a hot humid climate in Feb. Room booked only gave one Queen bed instead of 2 double beds. We alternated nights of who slept on sofa cushions on the Bathrm floor. He was a Very light Sleeper. I was a light Snorer. Cold Bathrm floor worked well because it was darker with bathroom door closed. I had a severe migraine for first 3 days due to huge Contrast in temperature. Sex with Him has never been part of the Equation.
I have 2 longtime FWBs. When my first FWB is in my Province, We plan to have lots of sex both days, so naturally a Sleepover is required. Heh heh.
My 2nd FWB is Poly also. We share His bed because it's a part of Our connection, our friendship.
@spunkycumfun Is THIS a Not-so-subtle hint to start the Interview process? I am nearly all caught up on your blog submissions. Taken quite some time heh heh.😁
@spunkycumfun No sledgehammer required here. 😆
Yes I have with some girl friends when I was younger. And yes just like most younger people do they experiment a bit. LOL. As my husband is concerned I know he shared beds in his early tour days opening up for other bands and such which they tried to save as much as they could on cost. He told me they'd get 1 room with double beds with 5 band members and rotated the floor each night but god only knows how many ladies were in there also.
@spunkycumfun I don't think he would remember anyway, he'd just say a few. A few to him is like a dozen or more.
@spunkycumfun God I hope not. LOL He's hates the smell of Tuna. LOL
@spunkycumfun Nothing would surprise me about any of the band groupie parties. My husband did learn something from John Paul Johns. He told my husband that if he ran a Harmonic Subsonic booster from the mix to the recorder it would give the final product more Balls {That's what my husband calls it} My husband still does this today. He is sitting here telling me this stuff. He says now that everything is digital the warmth, balls, power just isn't the same. Everything is cleaner now but has lost all those things. He said Ampex tapes were the last of the balls recording styles. His words not mine. Balls???????? I assume he means Punch power. Now he's laughing saying I thought you liked Balls.
@spunkycumfun My husband has the up most respect for him and thinks he well deserves more Recognition for playing a very big part in the band's music. I ask him what the heck is a subthingamajig so he took this picture of one of his racks in his studio. It's the grey one near the top. Kosmos V 2. I amazed he knows where to put all those wires much less work all the stuff he has. The rack this is in is 5 foot tall. I have to go through his studio to get to the laundry room.
@spunkycumfun Believe me there is so much more, he also has a big trailer on the side of the house with PA system and a huge concert light show that take a computer to run. He is going to start working with some others here shortly for the CD he has been writing and said he may do some shows? If he does, I will surely take videos and pictures. The picture is where he sits to mix things down. He never does his final recording here he has a musician friend that owns 2 full size recording studios in our state and does great work.
@spunkycumfun You can see why I have to go through there to do wash, the dryer is peeking out through the doorway to the left. That's the laundry Room and food pantry room. He also has some of the things he creates {3D art work} and imports in that room behind the studio.
@spunkycumfun Our whole house is, believe me he has stuff from all over the world. Too much stuff LOL.
I'm with you I'm not sharing bed with friends or friendly because just like i said before it's the middle east man...but I'll looking it from another view like sex physical..if you trying u will know what's your physical.. and fun in the san time
@spunkycumfun certainly but with women it's gonna be more hot 🔥 if you want to test yourself and ofc if they want to play..if this girl or lady open minded to this things not us here in middle East .
@spunkycumfun but in reality I want to play and enjoy..but if I'm out of middle East
I have shared a bed with a male friend. he accompanied me and a couple of my kids out of town. There were only 2 beds and the kids voted I had to sleep with him. We were lovers at his house but not in front of my kids.
I have shared many beds with many women. Only involved touching a couple of times
It’s been a while since I shared a bed with a friend…. I did it often in my teens and early 20’s, but it’s lost its innocence since then.
I’ve shared a bed with a friend since the hotel gave us a room with a double bed instead of twin beds. She’s fun to travel with.
Can’t say I’ve been in a situation where I shared a bed with a male friend. I’ve had a male friend stay over, but he stayed in my spare room.
Have you shared a bed with a friend? And when was the last time you shared a bed?
If you've shared a bed with a friend, did sex ever happen?
When I was still a kid, yeah. I was eleven or twelve and I shared a bed with a cousin. We felt each other up and she showed me her goodies but we didn't have sex. I can't remember any other time of sharing a bed with a woman and not having penetrative sex.
@spunkycumfun I had a ton of female cousins, most of them pretty. When our moms were at work we ran around half naked and wrestled a lot but the only time it had sexual connotations was that one time. I remember being quite thrilled. I didn't know what I was doing but I was an eager student.
Not really. Had a few drunk chick's pass out in bed with nothing else.
I have shared a bed with women who were just friends on a couple of occasions. Both times sex was the result and I have formed the impression over the years that if a woman invites you into her bed, it usually means she wants to have sex with you, even if she does not explicitly say so. However, we are talking convenience rather than absolute necessity in the bed-sharing stakes, so I don't know how far that holds true if there is really no alternative. (Under what circumstances is there really no alternative whatever?)
No I can't say this has ever happened to me with a friend,
now with my spouse it has.
I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..
Shared by bed with females plenty of times, but never shared a bed with a female friend.
Yes, bed sharing was often a thing in my further education days and beyond. Males tended to top and tail. Females always cuddled but rarely anything happened sexually. Of course there were accidental touches of bum boob etc. A few ended up with heavy petting and masturbation both mutual and solo, full sex was a treat
@spunkycumfun always got away with it if I said sorry 😂
@spunkycumfun indeed they do