Guido Crepax:
Following my FANCY A FACIAL?, FANCY A CHOKE?, FANCY A RIM? and FANCY A SPIT-ROAST? blog posts, this is another post, with poll, in a series about various sexual acts.
This post is about spanking. By spanking, I mean being the spanker and/or the spanked. And by spanking, I mean any instrument used to hit someone's bottom, whether it's a hand, a slipper, a ruler, a paddle, a tawse, a crop, a cane, a lash/whip or whatever.
Roger Benson:
Have you been spanked someone and/or have you been spanked? And if so, did you like it?
What instruments (including a hand) have you used to spank someone and/or have been used on you being spanked?
Have you ever spanked someone or been spanked so hard or at least so deliberately that there's a reddening of your and/or their bottom cheeks, whether it's a hand print, a paddle blushing, caning stripes, and/or weals and welts (bruises and cuts)?
I've spanked and I've been spanked. And I love spanking. I've spanked many times with my hand but never a slipper. I've spanked using a paddle, tawse, cane and lash, and even a carpet beater. But my favourite spanking instrument is, I don't know what you call it, a long and bendy latex-coated rod of a thing. That thing gave quite a thud but never drew blood unlike a cane or a lash.
Bill Ward:
At a BDSM-styled cottage, called Ess & Emm, I spent many a time spanking my partner and being spanked by my partner while strapped to a spanking bench. It was our favourite piece of equipment in the cottage.
I've left red marks but never cuts and bruises, and I've had red marks left on my bottom on me. The tingling feeling of a spanking the next day and even the next, next day is heavenly, and a great reminder of what happened. Takes me back to my boarding school days!
Below is a poll where you can anonymously indicate your experiences of spanking. Multiple selections are allowed for the poll.
Below, as the first comment, is a summary of the results of a poll contained in the my FANCY A SPIT-ROAST? blog post.
Sweet Tea:
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21 comments
This is something else that is not for me as it brings back hurtful and painful memories of an abusive childhood. But I say enjoy it if that's what gets you to enjoy the wilder sides of sexual intimacy..
May your Thursday continue to be filled with many sexy and fun temptations..🙂
I can well understand why spanking isn't in your sexual repertoire.
A well positioned pop on the ass makes my pussy wet, but the guy has to know hand position and where to smack me. It actually only stings a little, it makes a loud noise, and reverberates in my pussy. The guys who know, know.
It seems an experienced hand matters when it comes to spanking!
Seems quite a few of us (myself included) enjoy a spank!
As long as there is consent and it is mutually desirable.
It does seem most of us here like a spank or two!
I never considered spanking till Leda, a lover from over 10 years ago told me she had always had fantasies of being spanked. Not too hard but enough to cause a dark rosy glow. So I did and it made her so wet and horny that I found I loved giving her spankings. I even did post/poll on how hard it can be to tell how hard to spank as that varies so much with each person.
It seems spanking is an acquired taste.
@spunkycumfun Perhaps so but that does raise questions about how the taste was acquired. Leda's story was interesting. It is a kink that I find pleasurable only from the pleasure it gives my partner.
@justskin1 I acquired my taste via a corrupting girlfriend.
@spunkycumfun Sometimes it is so satisfying to be corrupted by a woman.
@justskin1 I still miss her corrupting ways!
@spunkycumfun And I with Leda. Though I do believe we had a lot of fun corrupting each other by learning all kinds of new kinks.
@justskin1 At least their influence carries on in us!
I drove 221 miles just to spank a woman I met on AFF a few years. I found out there was a lot more to it than what I'd thought. Like, her and her on-again-off-again spanking partner, that had never had intercourse with her, was an expert spanker and they belong to a nationwide group That sometimes would rent a hotel in Las Vegas and have a spanking convention. I came away with the feeling that she didn't rank me very high as a spanker.
That's a long way to drive to spank someone. I salute your commitment to the spanking cause!
My bubble bath buddy used to like to swat me across the ass in the height of passion, but I heard it more than I felt it.
He needed to swat you harder!
I have been spanked by hand and loved it. Not a harsh spanking at all! Just a loving, warming of the area. No bruises or marks that lasted more than an hour or two.
He was a lucky man whoever got to spank you!
That is the type of spanking Leda wanted me to do and I loved spanking her like that as it made her so very wet and very multi-orgasmic. I only like to spank if it gives my partner pleasure.
Spanker and spankee ... yes. I didn't like either one. I will never ask to be spanked but I will spank a partner, if requested. However, I'm terrible at it - and can provide a reference on that fact.
Is it that you spanked too hard or too soft? Or were you laughing too much while spanking someone?
@spunkycumfun my hardest spank is too soft...even when I'm not laughing. 🤣
@superbjversion2 Clearly more practice is needed!
Pretty much yes to everything. 😊 I’ve used bare hand, leather gloved hand, a crop, a cane, a leather strap, a paddle, and a wooden spoon. And maybe some other things that don’t come to mind immediately.
I try not to break skin, but it’s happened a couple of times when I’m topping a severe masochist who just wants more and more. Nothing major, and for me that’s a signal that it’s time to stop.
And I think you may have used a rubber chicken!
@spunkycumfun oh yes I forgot about that! - actually it was used on me. 😁
@smartasswoman I think the rubber chicken needs to make another appearance!
Have you been spanked someone and/or have you been spanked? And if so, did you like it? - Yes to all of them.
What instruments (including a hand) have you used to spank someone and/or have been used on you being spanked? Hand, crop, paddle, ruler.
Have you ever spanked someone or been spanked so hard or at least so deliberately that there's a reddening of your and/or their bottom cheeks, whether it's a hand print, a paddle blushing, caning stripes, and/or weals and welts (bruises and cuts)? Yes. Once a lady spanked me a much harder than I intended with a crop and my ass was visibly bruised for several weeks. (Sorry no pics.) One other time my friend A allowed me to spank her with both my hand and a paddle for a "Materials" themed HNW. Here is that shot - my hand "won".
That's a great print of your hand on your friend's bottom.
I have been spanked, whipped, I have been spanked with a hand, whip, riding crop, rope, cane, and stick... and when done in the appropriate BDSM circumstances, I have enjoyed it... a lot. But I have never done it to anyone else and I wouldn't do it even if asked.
You are the experienced spankee but a virgin spanker!
@spunkycumfun You're right! Well, it must be the only thing I'm still a virgin at!
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@AuraAviatik6 There's still plenty of time to pop that cherry!
Nearly 400 people voted in a poll about spit-roasting on my FANCY A SPIT-ROAST? blog post. Over 260 men, about 50 women, nearly 15 trans persons and 60 couples voted. That's a decent turnout.
Well over half the respondents have been involved in a spit-roast, whether spit-roasting or spit-roasted. And the vast majority who hadn't been involved in a spit-roast want to try a spit-roast.
Perhaps not surprisingly men were more likely to be spit-roasting than spit-roasted, though a fifth of men had been spit-roasted. Women were far more likely to be spit-roasted than spit-roasting, only one woman had been a spit-roaster.
Perhaps the most telling poll finding was nearly everyone, both men and women, who had experience of a spit-roast liked it.
The poll isn't at all representative of either the whole population or even the membership here. The poll is just reflective of those who responded.