This post, with poll, is about pegging. It's an act of anal sex in which a woman wearing a strap-on dildo pegs a man or a woman. Pegging isn't quite the same as strap-on sex as the latter can involve both anal and vaginal penetrative sex.
In The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo published in 2022, Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller distinguished between the "pegger", the penetrated, and the "peggee", the penetrated.
The 'pegging' term was popularised by the American sex education video, Bend Over Boyfriend, released in 1998. Though not called pegging, the Marquis de Sade described the act in his 1795 book, La Philosophie dans le Boudoir. And in his 1959 novel Naked Lunch, William S Burroughs wrote about pegging. The dildo used in his writing is called Steely Dan III, the Steely Dan band took their name from that dildo!
*Shurik1's Pegging**:
In 1970, the Myra Breckenridge film based on Gore Vidal's novel of the same name depicted a scene in which the protagonist, played by Raquel Welch, forcibly pegs a man. The first explicit showing of the act of pegging was in the American porn comedy film, The Opening of Misty Beethoven, released in 1976.
At the Costume Institute Benefit, commonly known as the Met Gala, in 2021, the English model-cum-actress Cara Delevingne wore a top with 'Peg the Patriarchy' printed on it. She later said: "It's about women empowerment, gender equality - it's a bit like, 'stick it to the man'."
Have you been a pegger? And if so, did you like the experience/s?
Have you been a peggee? And if so, did you like the experience/s?
I've never been a pegger, not least because wearing a strap-on dildo would make for quite an uncomfortable experience. However, I've been a peggee on numerous occasions. I love being pegged provided lots of lube is used and the dildo is of an accommodating size, meaning not too big!
Below is a poll where you can anonymously indicate your experiences of pegging. Multiple selections are allowed for the poll.
Byron Gordon's Pegging 1:
This post follows on from my FANCY A FACIAL?, FANCY A CHOKE?, FANCY A RIM?, FANCY A SPIT-ROAST?, FANCY A SPANK?, FANCY A WAX?, FANCY A ROLE?, FANCY A GOLDEN SHOWER?, FANCY A TITFUCK?, FANCY A PEEP?, FANCY A SQUIRT?, FANCY A BLINDFOLD?, FANCY A GROUP?, FANCY A TRIBUTE? and FANCY A TEABAG? blog posts in a series about various sexual acts. Below, as the first comment, is a summary of the results of a poll contained in my last blog post on teabagging - see FANCY A TEABAG?.
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Iām a fairly recent newcomer to it. It can be a fun variation. HWD really goes nuts, lol.
I go nuts too!
I've pegged a bi playmate and it was hot!
Pegging is hot.
Interesting that one of Steely Dan's biggest hits is "Peg"
It can't be a coincidence.
Not my thing
It's quite a few people's not-my-thing.
I have thought about being a pegee but would only do it if my lady wanted to try it.
If it happens, make sure there's plenty of lube at hand!
@spunkycumfun I would make very sure of that! Of course I would have to find a woman who was enthusiastic about being the pegger and I am not looking as I have Diane in my life.
@justskin1 It's not every woman that wants to be a pegger.
@spunkycumfun Leda, my lover from 10 years ago, was willing to consider it. She was also willing to consider and do some other kinky things we just never got around to doing.
@justskin1 There was your chance!
@spunkycumfun That was likely so for pegging and several other bits of kink we both wanted to try. I have to say that sex with her was the best I ever had.
@justskin1 At least you have some very good sexual memories to cherish.
@spunkycumfun I sure do and a few pictures too!
I wouldnāt mind having it done once to me.
I hope your wish comes true.
I would do it for my partner if he wanted it but on me? No, Nada, Nein.
I've been told that it's quite empowering being the pegger.
@spunkycumfun at least in the beginning Iād be concerned about hurting a man.
@LadyLisa77 I can understand your initial concern but you should easily be able to tell whether it's hurting or not by the ease or not of how the dildo slides in, the man's positioning plus his noises. I'm sure a man will tell you to stop if was hurting. I hope you get to peg.
There are a lot of people who enjoy pegging but I am not one of them. I hope your Friday is a great start to a wonderful weekend..
Your're not alone with your view on pegging.
This might be the largest difference between me and most men. I've heard from many women of men begging the ladies to peg them. NOT ME! Oh, I have been pegged by women that suggested it. This is perhaps the best example of my saying "the most powerful words are NOT, 'please' and 'thank you', but rather 'It would turn me on sooo much if you'd ____". So yeah, OF COURSE I said yes, several times in fact, but I've never learned to enjoy it.
Never been the pegger. Never occurred to me. Seems redundant.
There's no or little point men wearing a strap-on dildo when they've got a natural version already attached to their body.
@OddsAgainst That's a very good reason. I forgot about that.
@OddsAgainst I should have thought of that reason.
The closest I 've come to being pegged was with beads. It was in Hong Kong and I must say it was a memorable sensation when the young lady pulled them out as I went into orgasm.
Anal beads are divine!
Nearly 140 people voted in a poll about teabagging on my FANCY A TEABAG? blog post.
The most striking finding is that nearly one-third of all women have been teabaggers. I know women have balls but this finding is difficult to interpret unless there are men disguised as women on this site!
Nearly two-thirds of poll respondents have engaged in the act of teabagging, whether as a teabagger or teabaggee. The majority who have tried teabagging liked the experience, though men seem to slightly like teabagging more than women.
Of the one-third of respondents who haven't experienced teabagging, a clear majority of men wanted to be a teabagger and a slight minority wanted to be a teabaggee. But a majority of women didn't want to be a teabaggee. Just like for several other sexual acts (eg tributes) previously polled, there is a clear gender preference in wanting to engage in teabagging.
From the comments posted, a few women and men didn't like the idea of a man sitting on a woman's face to be teabagged. Though that is the classic position, there are other teabagging positions. For example, a man can stand or even sit down to be teabagged by a woman or a man.
The poll isn't at all representative of either the wider population or even the wider membership here. The poll is just reflective of those who responded.