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Brutal Fucking NO SAFETYNew York1,073 4,404 
NO STRINGS SEX BUFFALO NY AREABuffalo & Vicinity215 316 
Westchester alt of all sortWestchester/Rockland Area261 259 
LI Lactation LoversLong Island & Vicinity128 247 
Buffalo ny pussy lickers D&DFBuffalo & Vicinity187 241 
Bottoms/Tops Get Together!Suffolk County252 229 
Orange county Sex clubSouthern New York169 211 
buffalo big cock slutsBuffalo & Vicinity175 183 
young men seeking older womenAlbany & Vicinity248 166 
EASt END LI BisexualsSuffolk County45 166 
Doms/mes with-for submissivesSuffolk County167 141 
New York City area BBW !Metropolitan New York City146 140 
Venti Caramel Macchiato For 2Albany & Vicinity136 
Slaves/subs seeking master/domNJ Metro NYC Vicinity51 132 
wht cpl for blk menBuffalo & Vicinity89 88 
Albany Slaves (Owners Welcome)Albany & Vicinity151 76 
BDSM For RealRochester & Vicinity105 76 
watesports in wnyBuffalo & Vicinity69 57 
All In the FamilyRochester & Vicinity61 55 
Finger Lakes BeginnersRochester & Vicinity58 50 
The Place To BeBrooklyn250 49 
Occupy Geia Mage Tech BearAlbany & Vicinity10 48 
Depraved DreamsQueens94 47 
s. tier girlsElmira & Vicinity27 47 
binghamton subslutsSyracuse / Ithaca & Vicinity60 44 
Auction Idea CentralBrooklyn44 
pussy eaters anonymousQueens36 43 
The OasisAlbany & Vicinity147 41 
Girls Who Love Male BunsMetropolitan New York City113 41 
Rochester Porn Lovers & MakersRochester & Vicinity54 37 
Forced orgasmsLong Island & Vicinity71 34 
Suffolk County SpankersSuffolk County22 33 
Gay Male Masters WantedBuffalo & Vicinity77 30 
rochester cd/tv/tg woman men lRochester & Vicinity21 30 
CatskillsSouthern New York30 28 
buffalo all holes filled......Buffalo & Vicinity30 28 
Rockland/ Orange CountyWestchester/Rockland Area51 27 
LI CD get togetherSuffolk County26 27 
Good Fellows for Bad gurlsSuffolk County49 24 
Albany area nite owlsAlbany & Vicinity52 23 
LI Sadists4Masochist SlavesSuffolk County44 23 
syracuse friendsSyracuse / Ithaca & Vicinity30 23 
Fem-Subs 4 a Gangbang and moreBrooklyn42 22 
Brooklyn Day PlayersBrooklyn85 21 
albany ny gang bangsAlbany & Vicinity54 21 
Nasty Bisexual Swing PartiesBrooklyn45 21 
Tupper Lake Bondage PlayNorthern New York15 21 
Sissy bottoms for sexy menAlbany & Vicinity21 20 
Doms, Dommes, Subs & SwitchesStaten Island69 18 

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Where is the sun...syracuse friends103  10  4/18/2024
Required postWHITE SLUTS FOR BLACK COCK8  0  4/16/2024
As ordered by my White Mastersblack slaves white masters389  11  4/11/2024
Hope to see Sallysissy_sally_6920  2  2/24/2024
SubmissionRochester Porn Lovers & Makers23  0  2/16/2024
postMilking big breasts42  1  1/23/2024
Mandatory postTaboo Topics25  0  1/13/2024
Eastern Queens/Western NassauNYC and Surrounding Areas Kink9  1  1/13/2024
To AllMaster Blues place.60  5  1/4/2024
Happy New Year AllBlues Private Playroom6  0  1/3/2024
Audience ParticipationAuction Idea Central69  11  12/22/2023
Timing of AuctionsAuction Idea Central22  1  12/22/2023
One-on-one or do we allow 3-somesAuction Idea Central54  6  12/14/2023
Scene Review ProcessAuction Idea Central39  6  12/14/2023
Scoring SystemAuction Idea Central50  4  12/14/2023
Required postKnotting181  11  12/9/2023
Nasty black slaveslut for Room useRacial Humiliation90  0  12/1/2023
Young White Dom looking for His slaveSlaves Wanted20  0  11/4/2023
postKnotting267  6  11/1/2023
Is Albany dead?The Oasis12  1  10/30/2023
Updating the groupBottoms/Tops Get Together!14  0  10/29/2023
Photo IdeasHudson Valley NY Photography12  0  10/21/2023
Mature people where are you?the mature peoples club17  0  10/20/2023
Required postWHITE SLUTS FOR BLACK COCK49  1  10/17/2023
Required PostBrutal Fucking NO SAFETY63  2  10/10/2023
A long Island clubNY Fisting Club18  0  10/1/2023
required postKnotting135  8  9/11/2023
Required PosstKnotting203  5  8/25/2023
Required postTaboo Topics31  1  7/15/2023

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