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Springfiel117 44 M
18 Articles
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Meh   10/10/2023

When did the messenger stop letting new members message people using points?


0 Comments, 118 Views, 107 Votes ,0.02 Score
RinBoots 71 F
29 Articles
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Needs updating   7/7/2023

Another discussion group that is well dated.


0 Comments, 128 Views, 113 Votes ,0.15 Score
Mr_X75 48 M
1 Article
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Experienced Advice   3/8/2023

I have been in many relationships over the course of my life. Some short term and some long term, and have learnt many lessons, not only from my own experiences but from those around me going through similar things. <br><br> Based on my experience I have found that a lot of people tend to try and hold onto their EX in some shape or form. It might be subtle or even direct, and in some ...


3 Comments, 80 Views, 53 Votes ,0.93 Score
Springfiel117 44 M
18 Articles
Score 0.0
Trust   12/6/2022

How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle


0 Comments, 247 Views, 227 Votes
Springfiel117 44 M
18 Articles
Score 0.0
Trust   12/6/2022

How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle


1 Comments, 254 Views, 233 Votes
obedientboy56 57 M
5 Articles
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Harshest Break Up   11/27/2022

Most of us have experienced a harsh breakup in our lives. No breakup is pleasant, but some are much worse or cruel than others. <br><br> My worst was being dumped by my Mistress at the time. We were living together in my house and had been for about a year. i had to go away on a two-week business trip and was in chastity the entire time. When i got home i sort of expected a nice ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 83 Votes ,0.43 Score
DaddyOG3 43 M
8 Articles
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A lot about ghosting   11/20/2022

I see a lot of ghosting posts here


0 Comments, 238 Views, 214 Votes
Shirleyy223 41 F
1 Article
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NEED A MASTER NOW!!!!   6/30/2022

Just left a toxic vanilla relationship.... Now seeking to be owned and stripped of any ounce of control.


10 Comments, 558 Views, 479 Votes
jtpbigck84 39 M
4 Articles
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IT IS HARD   5/23/2022

WHO ELSE THINKS BREAKING UP IS HARD? IT IS ESPECIALLY HARD WHEN YOU ARE HORNY LOL.


3 Comments, 545 Views, 500 Votes
likeithot19 62 M
2 Articles
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finding something better can be hard   11/4/2021

After 3 years. She wanted someone closer in age. So we stopped. A few weeks later, she texted that she was happy and had found someone. Last night there was a knock on my door. I opened it and she came in. Said she was just close and wanted to see how I was doing. I replied fine. She the went on how much she likes her new guy and He was introducing her to everyone, calling all the time, checking ...


7 Comments, 284 Views, 190 Votes
jtpbigcock69 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Breaking up   9/22/2020

It is hard to do, what does everyone handle it?


1 Comments, 265 Views, 239 Votes
THEMANUNEED62 60 M
6 Articles
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silk   9/13/2020

i love to facefuck


4 Comments, 403 Views, 361 Votes
jtphgecck84 39 M
5 Articles
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Breaking up and being horny   8/14/2020

The toughest things is being use to having sex constantly and then stopping all of a sudden. What keeps everyone going during times like this?


2 Comments, 189 Views, 158 Votes
JTHPBIGCK2 39 M
5 Articles
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Breaking up with someone is hard!   7/11/2020

I bring this topic up because I have been there and it is hard especially when you stop having the sex you once did. Anyone ever deal with the same issue?


0 Comments, 79 Views, 70 Votes
Felinuskingu 51 M
6 Articles
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Hard   3/7/2020

Breaking up is a hard thing especially when it comes out of nowhere. I was talking with someone for over a year when we were supposed to meet she stopped talking to me for 2 weeks. Finally she talked to me saying we were going too fast and she was scared. I found out later she was seeing another Master and his slave let me know that. It took me a while to get over her with lots of help from ...


2 Comments, 110 Views, 86 Votes
JTPSBIG1 39 M
5 Articles
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ITS HARD TO BEAK UP AND HORNY!   3/6/2020

HORNY WHEN ALONE AND NEED PUSSY!


1 Comments, 45 Views, 42 Votes ,0.08 Score
JTPSBIG1 39 M
5 Articles
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Breaking up and horny!   2/29/2020

When u get alot of sex and end up breaking up?! How do you deal with it?!


1 Comments, 52 Views, 44 Votes
MissAnn235 41 F
1 Article
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Lost and found   2/6/2020

Looking this man here and his is


7 Comments, 205 Views, 147 Votes ,0.12 Score
obetoday 63 M
12 Articles
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why it hurts   12/11/2019

or does it?


2 Comments, 30 Views, 24 Votes ,0.63 Score
kkurtjomac 40 M
3 Articles
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why is it so hard to do   12/9/2019

i just want to lead you on a journey because i need the points to interact.


10 Comments, 114 Views, 83 Votes ,1.23 Score
SensualMatureDom 69 M
9 Articles
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SO SAD   11/21/2019

These are all slowly becoming nothing more that point grabs


7 Comments, 224 Views, 178 Votes ,0.29 Score
dacoolestanne 34 F
1 Article
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FICTION OF IMAGINATION   10/7/2019

Break up pain is a fiction of our imagination. At first it feels like the hardest the heart is going to bear but think deep and you will understand that you are the one hurting yourself. Break up happens because one person fall out of love and the other person still tries to hold on. what hurt most is holding on to someone who already has their heart somewhere else already. The day the feelings ...


18 Comments, 206 Views, 99 Votes ,3.67 Score
jtp8469 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
HORNY AND BREAKING UP!   7/12/2019

Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!


13 Comments, 105 Views, 63 Votes ,2.60 Score
jtp8469 39 M
5 Articles
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HORNY AND BREAKING UP!   7/12/2019

Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!


5 Comments, 64 Views, 41 Votes ,3.00 Score
hhh01 45 M
5 Articles
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Why breakup’s   7/2/2019

Hello All, In my experience as a dom.. I have ave very good lifestyle. And still continue as well. However, had few instances where sub moves out after the session or a good long relationship and then never contacts or not yet n touch at all with any of the doms. Is it that they are happy or they just quit? And in another scenario other subs have kep healthy relationship with dom after their good ...


11 Comments, 83 Views, 48 Votes ,3.16 Score
StrangerInEgypt 52 M
1 Article
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Why do women cheat and betray a mans trust??!!   7/2/2018

As the title says. <br><br> If you are a woman and you meet a man and tell him that it took you 53 years to find him and you decide at your own will to delete your profile .He is happy with that and believes you but tells you not to cheat or betray his trust at any given time and just tell him that you want to quit then do what you want after that But what you do is you keep growing ...


31 Comments, 262 Views, 75 Votes ,3.37 Score
DaphneSofia 28 F
1 Article
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Love is...   1/30/2018

It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and ...


11 Comments, 89 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
repeatedbehavior 34 F
6 Articles
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oh lala   9/22/2017

Earn points by simply using our site and use them toward upgrades, prizes, and even cash. <br><br> The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans and ...


4 Comments, 57 Views, 24 Votes ,5.06 Score
andymo3 50 M
2 Articles
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should i call time   2/4/2017

hi should i call time on my relationship after 15 years im the only one working i pay all the bills and she wont work and is very lazy expects me to do all the cooking and that after a 10 hour day work shift ive never got any money after ive get payed she smokes so i have to cover that .........


13 Comments, 114 Views, 42 Votes ,2.08 Score
Lcd18 70 M
10 Articles
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The One that got away   1/26/2017

I read a post or a comment on this site i thought i'd get something off my

chest.i met a cd in '06 when i joined this site and another, we exchanged

emails he gave me his number, and i should have called but didn't i'm

wishing i had. we had a few things in common crossdressing and some other

things he looked hot and said he found me attractive.i called him 4 ...


2 Comments, 71 Views, 29 Votes ,1.84 Score
junglekingcock 56 M
3 Articles
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Does IM Play up for you.   12/28/2016

I have lots of trouble with IM..Here is a list of my issues..



* IM seems to crash.. * messages don't get through * I sometimes can't receive message from others in IM * Point are not easy to get

What are your issues with IM ?


6 Comments, 65 Views, 37 Votes ,2.22 Score
MistressRae1 51 F
1 Article
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Divorce   3/21/2016

I was with my husband/slave for 12 years and married 10 years. On November 20, 2015 he told me that he did not want to be married to me any longer and had stopped loving me 5 years ago. I think it was do to the fact that 5 years ago my health went down hill. I had a minor stroke in 2012 and i had back problems that caused me to not to be able to play with my slave.He also had a problem with my ...


15 Comments, 193 Views, 44 Votes ,2.27 Score
littlegirltova 54 F
1 Article
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Betrayed & used   2/4/2016

i was in a 4yr realationshp with a married man who was not my Hubby but my Hubby knew about Him& let me visit Him. He was my roleplay Daddy. It got very intense. Due to the physical distance 2hrs dirve away, it was more of a mental than a physical relationship. Then last year He decided He was a sub not a dom. That He wanted to be dominated by a woman. Whilst We were together We were always ...


6 Comments, 146 Views, 27 Votes ,3.56 Score
pancha13piedi 49 M
10 Articles
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blessing in disguise   7/14/2015

Breaking up can be a blessing. I recently was dumped and after the heart ache found ALT.COM and have opened my world up to new horizons. I have always dreamt fantasized about BDSM and most likely would have never tried it but now have the freedom to explore. Why not life is short


1 Comments, 67 Views, 25 Votes ,3.57 Score
7022rough7022 37 M
4 Articles
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To the Point   5/2/2015

Isn't being blunt the best way to go?


4 Comments, 57 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
teachme2993 31 F
1 Article
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Feelings you neve new you had till they come to the suface   3/11/2015

I had a master for 6 months but he does not use me because of his other slave. but he is mor like a dad than a master I choose to leave this weekend as I have listend to people who I should not have listened to but im now scared that I have hurt him so much as he has not spoke to me much. it huts so much knowing I may have made a mistake I don't know hot to fix it as I have done this before and ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 25 Votes ,2.80 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Where did you go?   10/31/2014

The other day I read a post by a lady who's Dom just up and left her without saying goodbye...just disappeared. Nor only is the a cruel way to break up but cowardly too. Hope his balls shrivel up like a couple of raisins.


4 Comments, 143 Views, 49 Votes ,4.25 Score
1973angelica 51 F
1 Article
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VANILLA SKIES OF PURPLE RAIN   6/9/2014

The vanilla skies were full of purple rain the day that MASTER and I split. I was so hurtfully pained and saddened. The man who filled my Vanilla Skies with my Purple Rain had taken off his heroes cape. He had become a monster like those he promised he was not like. Those who had tained my skies in darkness, shades of dooming ebony. He lied, he snuck, he had her--an intruder in my hearts place. I ...


7 Comments, 115 Views, 23 Votes ,4.30 Score
The_Beast_Master 58 M
4 Articles
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You only live once   8/26/2012

I know its a cliche but we only live once and the best way to get over people is to either not care for them or move on quickly. If people would just stay honest then there should never be any reason for others to get upset. Usually dishonesty and unrealistic expectations are the cause of breakups dont you think? Although sometimes its not good for submissives to think too much.


1 Comments, 81 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
eaglor63 59 M
0 Articles
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Who is the worst in this relationship?   6/11/2012

I admit that I was wrong for sleeping with the other women. Those where meaningless and done out of need of affection that my wife wouldn't give. Each of the girls offered to bring in a girlfriend or a sister into the equation. One of them even invited me to be the only man at a bachelorette party. I did turn that down, because I was going to get married.

I have regretted getting ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
newboysub30 51 M
0 Articles
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end of a friendship   4/23/2012

My friendship with an amazing young woman I met here has ended. While not a "relationship" I actually felt more comfortable with her than with many of my girlfriends. It was an email friendship, I guess a pen pal type thing.

That it was an email relationship let me open up more than I normally do and I actually found it easier to open up. It being an email relationship also was a ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
VictoriousSecret 49 M
2 Articles
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JUST ANOTHER THURSDAY...   3/29/2012

i've been in and out of too many relationships. I've had my heart broken and have been disappointed as well. Over the years, for my hearts protection, i've accepted that peoplel just leave. In life or death, they're here today and gone tommorrow. So i enjoy the time i have with them. I just got out of a relationship in which i was engaged to a woman. Thought she would be the one. Circumstances ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 25 Votes ,2.47 Score
PadlockO 68 M
3 Articles
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break ups   1/19/2012

I know a few couples who start off with this life style, them move into add others to their game, just to have them separate some time down the track. As I am a sub, I wish to find a Mistress to serve 24/7 and to only be a slave. i worry that it may turn into something more on their part as it has done before, and in the end we went our separate ways. Have other been here and how do you handle it


0 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
CREAMYDICK 44 M
2 Articles
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it is hard   1/17/2012

really


0 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Going Slowly Mad!   9/20/2011

A new meaner way of getting to the truth out of KGB Generals Then the water mask was to bring them into a small sound proof room and strapped to a chair which was bolted into the wooden floor at Guantanamo Federal Prison, while Hermon Karden sound system of eight hundred speakers played the Barney Song repeatedly until the Intelligence Office broke down and gave all the information they knew to ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
kinkycouple102 55 C
1 Article
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i have done ok   8/14/2011

i have broke up with my ex just over a year ago and we met on here a couple thatsaid they was master and sub it turned out that he wasnt but the sub wanted to learn more . we are now together and my ex ( not devorcied yet ) is now with him . sort of a swap i know . but me and new partner are more into the bdsm than ever b4 . so what im saying is dont give up looking you will find the right one


0 Comments, 69 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
TeenCumQueen 33 F
2 Articles
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Slut Style!!   6/21/2011

I've been dating Jackson for 2 months now but I have decided he's to boring in bed and I dont want to keep sleeping around with his mates behind his back anymore. So this morning after he left for work I thought I should give his dad a heads up about what I planned to do. My boyfriends dad is 63 and a retired alcoholic pervert that constantly grabs my ass when I walk past saying things like ...


0 Comments, 125 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Traffic Death of a Friend   1/24/2011

How Too Kill a Witness

The Traffic Intersection

“Well Joe this is how we kill a Witness” said Officer Michael’s to his new partner. “How many miles hours does the average car drive here on the street?’ “30.” “Right, John!” “And how many feet are there in a mile?” “There is 5840, feet in a mile.” “Correct!” “So that’s 30 mph times 5840 feet would ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
michelleinmass 40 T
1 Article
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New poly relationship, jealousy issues caused breakup   1/22/2011

I pretty much had to get out of my relationship with my Master, as I felt I was being neglected. I was depressed, blamed others for making me this way, when in truth I just pushed myself out of somewhere that I want to be. I told my former Master that this type of relationship wasn't after the fact that I allowed the other girl to move in.

I am now in a partial hospitalization program, ...


4 Comments, 200 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Drugs?   1/17/2011

Nasty Trick Spanish fly in Mescal Tequila is what the mob did that Trine Lopez didn’t know about when he poured him and his nine friends a shot at a get together at his house while being watched by hidden cameras. “Wow this shit is good! He said, as his eyes rolled back in his head and his erection pushed hard against his sweat suit pants. His friends looked at the large bulge and laughed as ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
It's ReDiculus!   1/17/2011

Death Call Suicide Prevention Line 2011 Hello, Suicide Prevention, this is Tom, Can I Help You? Oh, she did, and then what happened? Oh, how did that make you feel? Oh, it did? Oh then what happened? Oh they did? Oh how terrible, how did that make you feel? Oh I see, that’s just so terrible! Oh, no, not that also? Then what happened? Oh, how did that make you feel? Oh you are? Oh no I ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
PlainRae 39 F
9 Articles
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Unfortunately, it's part of life...   9/26/2010

I was in a relationship with a man that I met on this site. We were together for the better part of a little over two years.

When I met him, he had just gotten out of a marriage that he didn't want and he was in the process of filing for divorce.

At the time, he was England, but we both made sure that we would get to speak to each other frequently and we would send emails. ...


10 Comments, 304 Views, 36 Votes ,4.27 Score
zigzag12 51 M
1 Article
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"Greivance and loss in D/s"   3/27/2010

Grievance and loss in a relationship is a feeling I have felt before in vanilla relationships, but only just managed to define and understand with Myself and with the help of loved Oones but something I wanted to share here amongst Oothers that may already understand or can be aware of.

And for Me it’s the loss of My first submissive after 2 ½ years in a D/s relationship.

As ...


2 Comments, 86 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
4 Articles
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Advice   1/29/2010

So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions


5 Comments, 123 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Arthand 61 M
1 Article
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closure is   1/28/2010

giveing or reciveing closure at the end of a relationship is so important , i can help heal both so as to not carry excessive baggage or wounded heart into the next relationshp !


2 Comments, 90 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
imagognotataff 38 M
3 Articles
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What Should I Do?   1/6/2010

I want to break up with my gf that i love, to go and have sex with whoever i want. Should i just do it behind her back and stay with her so i can have more sex later on.


5 Comments, 101 Views, 8 Votes
Freakkiness 43 M
4 Articles
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hows the best way to break up   9/12/2009

whats your opinion on the best way to end a relationship with someone


3 Comments, 140 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
boytoy3213 44 M
2 Articles
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Best way to call it off with a Mistress?   6/22/2009

Is there an "offical way" to end it with Your Mistress? Or is it like any other realationship?


3 Comments, 76 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
tattman6 53 M
1 Article
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how to   11/27/2008

can you tell me how the saftest way to break up with a posesive woman is with out her going crazy i need to do this in a proper maner and need help i, m not in love and she is not what i, m looking for in a sub i need a real sub please help me if you can


10 Comments, 168 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
imyourho 50 M
1 Article
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feelings are real!!!   5/5/2008

I've come to realize lately that even though a woman, or man may be ok with a "no strings" relationship, their feelings may be the very thing hiding the truth from themselves, rather than them from you. If I could give any advise it would be this...what you're partner says and what you hear may have no bearing on what they mean! tread lightly in the ever ebing and flowing tides of human ...


2 Comments, 120 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
fluffycouple1971 52 C
1 Article
Score 0.0
Question   4/20/2008

Just wondering whats the worst storie someone has giving you for breaking up with you?


16 Comments, 282 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
anglesask 34 F
1 Article
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trying to get my point across to my ex   3/10/2008

I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago. we stayed friends and it worked well up until about 2 and a half months ago i broke up with him because i found that i liked him more as a brother type then a boyfriend he's a good guy. around christmas he started get really clingy and started telling me how much loves me and stuff. and not too long after i asked him to stop taliking to me and to leave me ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
nativesassy 51 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
Over but not   1/20/2008

I had been with mybf/fiance of nearly a year when he suddenly chose to break it off. Truth is I asked him if we were breaking up and he said yes, but it made him feel sad, so I hastily negotiated for 3 months since then he’s been an interesting person and I’m wondering if he really wants to see me or is he just going through the motions. Should I just release him from this relationship or ...


5 Comments, 176 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
Score 0.0
Three Song set at the Strip Club   1/16/2008

There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
Score 0.0
Three Song set at the Strip Club   1/16/2008

There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
Score 0.0
WE BREAK UP TO MAKE UP.   11/23/2007

Breaking up in any relationship/marriage is not the end but in fact the beginning of the relationship/marriage.I believe that nothing GOOD comes easy, we have to work extra mile to earn it.A relationship/marriage without misunderstanding, quarrel, Row or even a fight might not make real meaning for the partners. For a relationship/marriage to be Rock solid, there must be a shake up once a while ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
david38372 54 M
2 Articles
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break   11/1/2007

up break


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
kinkyboy9 40 M
1 Article
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ffffffffffffff   5/6/2007

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


2 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
tazdawg46 54 M
41 Articles
Score 0.0
online fantasy   2/28/2007

why is it that there are so many pretending to want more than an online fantasy and when you try to meet them they say it is just more fun to keep it a fantasy thing and they never intended to really meet anyone?
isn't there enough folks that want that? instead of trying to trick those of us that want a real relationship?


6 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
LustLover29 41 M
1 Article
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she beg for return   2/6/2007

i met a thai girl from a club , she is working as a pro. i book her out a few night and slowly both of us fall in love with each other . after a few weeks she went back to thailand and i visit her a 2-3 trips and even buy ticket to let her come to singapore 1 time every month . We have been 2gether for nearly 2years . i dont mind of her past just wanna to love her with all my heart . But ...


1 Comments, 164 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
BoyC 42 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
breaking up   1/27/2007

breaking up is never ez, especially when you love the person. but sometimes you have to do what's right for you, which means being open, honest, and upfront, because that's what right for them.


2 Comments, 244 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
mebehappy2day 46 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
Suck it up   12/26/2006

When you break up. If it is for the right reasons, just suck it up and move forward. You WILL get over it


0 Comments, 138 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
dreamer01971 52 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
paths   12/16/2006

on two different paths we entered this life our paths came together as husband & wife
In that beatiful forest your love made me see just what I had all around me and what I could be
we walked down the path listening to nature's grand chorus always confident and hopefull for the future before us
as I looked into your eyes and on went these years I never ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
bon502 68 F
1 Article
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got dumped- need closure   11/5/2006

A few months ago someone from this site contacted me. I was hesitant since I live in PA and he in LA. But I really liked his profile and his note to me so I figured it couldn't hurt to start a dialog. I was very drawn to him (I am a sub) and after a short time gave him my telephone number. Over time a few red flags went up but I was unable to really pin them down...just kind of a funny ...


3 Comments, 333 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
romanalski 40 M
1 Article
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CRAZY WOMEN   10/16/2006

OH MY GOD AFTER A HELLISH 9 MONTHS IN A LOVELESS RELATIONSHIP IM FINALLY FREE AND SINGLE BUT EVEN THO AM LOVING DA THOUGHT OF MY FREEDOM AND HAVING COMPLETE CONTROL BACK IN MY LIFE I STILL FIND MYSELF THINKING ABOUT WHAT SHES UP TO AND WHATS SHES DOING, HOW LONG WILL THIS KEEP GOING ON FOR?


3 Comments, 322 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Chordewa 64 F
1 Article
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How many times must we do this?   10/2/2006

Have had several Doms/Masters in the short time I've been on Alt./Coven The hardest thing to remember is how to not listen to the "sweet nothings"!I am a sub. Just a warning to A/all please keep your eyes wide open..don't cave. I think you should know each other a long time..like in 6 months to a year..not a few months as some do. Self included.Lowers her head... if there is one lie ...


2 Comments, 509 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
shade006999 55 M
2 Articles
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secret lives brought to the open   9/27/2006

Anyone ever have to break up a relationship because one or both of you were married or in a committed relationship with someone who found out?


3 Comments, 199 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
blackenedheart 53 F
6 Articles
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Won't you die tonight for love?   9/19/2006

When I look at you I want to destroy your smile. It sits on your face like a lie. You look good, I want to know the truth about you. I want to get close to you. When I do, you see that I see right through you. Your heart beats like a small bird. You know me well. Thats why you can't handle me. it hurts me to act the fool. Pretend I don't see you for wot you are. All of you ...


4 Comments, 270 Views, 20 Votes ,3.89 Score
blackenedheart 53 F
6 Articles
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Think   9/19/2006

Do you ever get the feeling that you are being strung along? Dragging you by that string to your death? by wasting your time with bullshit and lies that feel good? Do you ever get that feeling? DO YOU? Ever at all? Do you think you'll be here forever? Do you think that wasting time is losing time? Do you ever think wasting time is gaing on your death? Not daeth that doesn't touch you, ...


2 Comments, 264 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
blisst 57 M
3 Articles
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dissapointed   9/13/2006

I came onto this site hoping to have a good time.Obviously you women are sick depraved jumped up middle class or worse truly evil middle and ruling class that worship lucifer and selfishness.Or maybe you are just nasty full stop.I mean you offer them everything on a plate and they just treat you like dirt.I wanted to be a submissive to some sick depraved cow.I mean you illuminati ........ ...


4 Comments, 151 Views, 14 Votes ,0.42 Score
ichi26 44 M
2 Articles
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which is worse for you?   7/16/2006

unfortunately, it seems that most break-ups are not mutual. it is usually one person breaking up with the other. i have been on the receiving end a couple of times, and i have had to tell someone i was dating i knew it wasn't going to work between us. having someone you have feelings for say they don't feel the same way is horrible, but having to tell someone who has feelings for you ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Sandrasweety 42 F
1 Article
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So... it's all over   6/19/2006

We were together for a year n a half. I found myself commplitelly changed in this relathionship. The old me, the one who was cheating on guys and was such a free spirit was gone. And, no metter how perfect he was, and belive me, he was, i yust couldn't relax and enjoy the whole thing. My cheatings in the previous life, life I had before him, were a safe place for me. Made me feal like I ...


4 Comments, 392 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
NibblesNLix 48 M
16 Articles
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Living with your ex!   5/6/2006

My ex girlfriend and I broke up about two and a half months ago. We noticed that we had drifted into a best 'friends who cuddle' zone. We decided to end our relationship so that we could put ourselves out there for others. We basically only changed the title of our relationship and became flatmates who still share a bed and cuddle and share all the bills except we aren't sleeping ...


1 Comments, 133 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
dynamitesneonaty 41 M
11 Articles
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Happens to us all   4/13/2006

... and I ran straight to here. Is that a bad thing? Should I have waited longer?


1 Comments, 114 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
sepffia 48 GC
2 Articles
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this is a test   4/3/2006

this is a test


1 Comments, 51 Views, 1 Votes
sepffia 48 GC
2 Articles
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a clean way to dump a person   4/3/2006

this is a test, you can deny the submission


0 Comments, 115 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
kmichef2004 37 F
1 Article
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Being the other woman   3/25/2006

Its been 1 month 2 weeks and 4 days.
The hurt hasn't gone away and has only lessened with the help of alcohol and drugs. It not the right way but the only way to make it through for me.
To be the other woman in a man's heart is a dreadful thing. He may not be with her physically, but with his heart she is always there. And then when she does come back you have no hope of ...


1 Comments, 167 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
jacque_gwrl 52 F
1 Article
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Is it my fault?   1/13/2006

Perhaps i should have seen it coming. Started this relationship with a very strong bang and it ended just as quickly. Living in two different areas doesn't help either and that is what really started this whole break up. He was a very determined man, but once his ego was brused that's it the world was ending. <br> my daily journal was starting to get rather depressing, the ...


1 Comments, 183 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
domcouple11 50 C
12 Articles
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DOMCOUPLE   1/8/2006

We prefer someone located close to us; however, would consider someone willing to relocate to be with in a 24/7 relationship.


1 Comments, 242 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
bdsmnn 53 M
18 Articles
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hard   1/8/2006

see and see!


0 Comments, 125 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
chubsub663 58 M
5 Articles
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treat with respect   12/23/2005

My pet peeve, when it comes to relationships, is people who do not treat others with respect. If two people are in a monagamous relationship, and one of them wants out, that person should tell the other one, "hey, we're through." In words, not by sleeping with another person. Any comments?


3 Comments, 232 Views, 23 Votes ,5.23 Score
Knightowl2000 58 M
2 Articles
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It Was Inevitable   12/16/2005

She was too young, and I noticed too late. Did I fail her? <br> Her long red hair glissed in the sun. Her playful smile and sparkling eyes were captivating. Her ample breasts barely contained as she danced around in that skimpy little Gypsy costume. That was the day I met her. When she told me she was collared I was more than disappointed, but pleased that she respected her ...


3 Comments, 153 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
lostprincess 56 F
1 Article
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trust is so important   11/24/2005

after searching on this site for many years not knowing what i wanted, i had tried being the sub.but that was not for me, i hated to be told and humilated.i decided domme was for me, ifound a sub after many years of searching, he messaged me one nite and insisted he would be my sub.i had told him no several times i knew in my heart he was not for me.i set him a task and never thought he ...


0 Comments, 158 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
LadyDracora 43 F
1 Article
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Breaking up with your BESTfriend   11/21/2005

I just ended a relationship that never should have been put into a position where anything short of family getting physically harmed could effect it. He had been well WE had been eachothers bestfriends for 9yrs or more. And we had been through it all. We defined the meaning of truly being a bestfriend. He saved my life more than three times. We stood by eachothers side through everything. ...


2 Comments, 295 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
Damage_Case 39 M
7 Articles
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help...   11/20/2005

Hi, was married way too young. I was nineteen she was seventeen. You guessed it got the girlfriend pregnent. What started as an adorable though definetely casual fuck turned into the only woman I've ever been able to say I loved. <br> Now almost twenty one, divorced. To make a long story short she cheated and I became abusive. More than anything I feel like I lost my virtue ...


4 Comments, 193 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
hdbeautysubx 61 F
2 Articles
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Getting him back i needed him so   11/15/2005

His name was Maxamilian Wood. His friends called him Max, Maximus or Maximum. I prefer Max. But, Maximum is humorous when used with my last name. Anyway, the following is the story of how I a long time exgirlfriend my name Baby came back into His life after dissappearing. <br> My mind was a million miles away. The bar seemed like a good idea when I left the house. But, I just sat ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
sassafra2924 40 F
6 Articles
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A girl with fire, can't be around a drip like that!!!   11/9/2005

Following on from a previous article named free as a bird, i really wanted to follow it up with some helpful advise. This is for anyone who might have just come accross this article. some bored housewife or lonely soul, who's only escape was to join alt. Someone who's deep down habouring a need to deflect from the norm but is themselves trapped in what shell of a body the inhabit or ...


3 Comments, 506 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
sassafra2924 40 F
6 Articles
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free as a bird   11/8/2005

Breaking up is meant to be one of the hardest things to do, but after leaving a relationship and feelin free and floaty light its hard when mutual friends are waiting for you to crumble.. Its sad when the other person pol vaults into the nearest open arms bed and runs straight back tellin you what a mistake she was... breaking up is all about what you really needed to do for a long time ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
SuperMandingo 39 M
10 Articles
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Breaking up is hard to do poem   11/7/2005

Don't take your love away from me Don't you leave my heart in misery If you go then I'll be blue 'Cause breaking up his hard to do <br> Remember when I held you tight And you kissed me all through the night Think of all that we've been through Breaking Up Is Hard To Do <br> They say that breaking up is hard to do Now I know, I know that it's true Don't say ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
ohioshow3 46 M
10 Articles
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love stinks   11/2/2005

i was seeing a woman for 8 months and things did not work out and she does not want to let go and makes me feel bad about it should i


1 Comments, 92 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Trikester18 36 M
4 Articles
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Safe Sex?   10/30/2005

Did you know 37, 000 Americans get infected with an std everyday thats over 1500 people an hour. Basic facts before u think about sex. Double up and contraceptives are ur best friend. <br> <br> Tips for people


0 Comments, 200 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Trikester18 36 M
4 Articles
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Breaking tips for Dummies 101   10/30/2005

Number 1 <br> U got to identify just wtf is going wrong in the relationship once u know that u can work from there. <br> Number 2 <br> Can the problem be fixed if not u got be straight forward on it dont be like i need time <br> Basic tips for dummies


1 Comments, 242 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
26 Articles
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hurt   10/24/2005

I am sat here with eyes filled with tears my master/lover has just ended our relationship after almost 3 years. I feel such a mixture of things...but i feel so empty without him and so very lost. My life wont b the same without him.... how can u go from loving someone with all u have heart soul and body to chatty friends i dont if i can.......................


2 Comments, 213 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
fucknhorni 64 M
5 Articles
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why is it so hard?   10/22/2005

i have no ideal myself however , there is a answer to this question / need your feedbacks please people


1 Comments, 110 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Leather_Messiah 67 M
3 Articles
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Mistakes Volume 1   10/14/2005

Falling in love1 Sometimes we make mistakes, and falling in love is one of them before you get know someone. Loosing your temper2 Being in control of your every action is what most Dom's do. But anger is no friend to a Dom. I got so angry with my last sub, I did some pretty stupid things. And I do apolligize for my actions. Never take them for granted3 I made this mistake too. ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
anastacia14 40 F
5 Articles
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just brake up...   10/7/2005

So??? I just brake up??? Why r u just kidding, n saying it was cool...But im crying...My heart is braking... <br> It hurts so much...


2 Comments, 240 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
bigpun87 38 M
1 Article
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love from above   10/3/2005

today i've no need for word to show how i feel , the thing i knew is that i lo9ve youy morethan word can ever say.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
DougErin 56,1945 C
8 Articles
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Dumping an abusive Fiance   9/9/2005

I was engaged once and when I finally realized how wrong she was for me, I took a couple of days to get my thoughts together. I planned a time when it was just the two of us. I simply came out and told her that I realized I wasn't happy and wanted to end this before we each had any more invested in the relationship. I expected her to be mad, and she was. I never let myself get mad ...


4 Comments, 224 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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cheating   8/23/2005

If the relationship ended because of cheating, kiss it goodbye, eventhough you might be lucky enough to get back with the person the first mistake you make would send everything downhill.... This draws a question to me, is the real reason ppl cheat on eachother is because they are emotional unstable???


2 Comments, 196 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
cuddles45 79 F
1 Article
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What now   8/7/2005

I had been a faithful submissive for a long time My dom stated that he loved only me but could not commit to a steady relationship of living together (not marriage ) He has now dumped me once again and i feel so empty, hurt, and fearful to trust any man to get too close to me again. As i am a loving person this is very difficult for me. I live a long way away from anywhere which makes it ...


3 Comments, 286 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
elorastarfyre 61 F
1 Article
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Trying to be someone i'm not.....   7/31/2005

This girl (wyld)just recently seperated from her Master after being with Him and His alpha for 2 years. she found that she was trying to be someone she just isn't. He wanted a bisexual and wyld just isn't bisexual -- yes, she is learning how to please a Man better than she had been taught but wyld is -- and will always be -- lesbian. The break up came after a month of fighting between wyld ...


0 Comments, 127 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
mikeswu3 60 M
10 Articles
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Strange encouter   7/18/2005

After meeting with a person i met, local bar...we had some wild times, details arn't necessary; however this person has become obsessive...I am not a sub, to be clear, just wanted to know how anyone would handle breaking free of this sexual hold?


2 Comments, 149 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
slave_enigma 68 F
12 Articles
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Being Released   7/15/2005

i write for therapy, i write for sanity and realize opinions are only my own..... <br> <br> Being Released <br> <br> What happens to the heart when a slave is released by her Master does it break does it feel relief or perhaps does it feel numb to nothing at all? Only a few days ago, I was released by a Master whom I thought I would ...


3 Comments, 282 Views, 19 Votes ,5.63 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
26 Articles
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Talk   6/13/2005

My master and i have just been through the most awful 2 months. And inever want to go throught it again. We almost lost all that we had built up over 2 years. Just because we didnt talk about the simple things that get so easy get mixed up. So if u feel that its goin off the lines talk to each other and stop it before u lose it all. We where lucky and have managed ( i hope) to save what we ...


2 Comments, 333 Views, 24 Votes ,4.49 Score
blacksnoopy77 41 M
3 Articles
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Cheat or break up ??   4/14/2005

hmmm... that's the question of the century but the obvioust thing to do is to.......break up!!! don't let it linger on any longer... if u do it once and get away with it you'll probably think of it again...


0 Comments, 141 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
lovesloves 51 F
4 Articles
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toss me a life savoir   4/9/2005

I love a man who could care less and it hurts so much. I had his and he left. And while I'm not sad for the baby, he really would be a mess as a father, I'm so sad for me. I wish there was a way to erase his memory from my body because it hurts so much. On our first date he rubbed my ankles and I was lost to him after that. And then we fucked and I never got it so good as when he was ...


1 Comments, 203 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
kickbackfan 50 F
10 Articles
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Dan's song - Gone   3/19/2005

Forever, forever, forever.. Trust and loved and cherished and never and never and never.. seemed to think I'd fall Deeper and deeper and know, <br> So I been to the end, things you can't comprehend.. once again I burn, now I feel the burn for the chance in the world for you to come to terms, I am just me, can't you just - see me. <br> So clear so clear so ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 12 Votes ,0.50 Score
LuciousChloe 54 F
1 Article
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Torn Apart   3/10/2005

I was seeing Master since November. I declared that I was his right before Christmas. He would come and visit me every single weekend, and bring gifts for me every time. He was so sweet, yet, sooooo kinky and dirty to me. I enjoyed him both as his slave girl, and as his girlfriend in our nilla life. And yes, our relationship was more nilla then anything, due to me having . It was a ...


8 Comments, 656 Views, 26 Votes
tweaker86 38 F
1 Article
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Forever, doesn't mean FOREVER   3/3/2005

I dated the love of my life for over 2 years. I lived and depended on him, but now it's over and I have nothing. the breakup was completely my fault and had been a long time coming. I now had to move back in with my parents with no car, no money, and no job. I am screwed.


8 Comments, 514 Views, 27 Votes ,2.61 Score
eager2pleaseuall 52 M
2 Articles
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Time to Explore   2/22/2005

Ater bieng a couple for so long i thought she was my lover and my best friend. Little did i know was about to happen , after living in each others back pockets , trying to buy the family home and thinking of bringing into this world i awoke one morning to hear the words i do not love you any more.To say i was not shattered was an understatment, after realizing my life was turning on me i ...


0 Comments, 217 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Violently 49 F
2 Articles
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Unspoken Words   2/9/2005

Forgive me my Lady for being such a dumbass <br> Why should I forgive you <br> You shouldn't <br> Damned straight <br> I implore my Lady, that You will find Mercy in Your will for my wretchedness. Please don't leave me out here on my own. Please don't leave me without hope. <br> You damned yourself fool. Did you know Me so little to ...


3 Comments, 413 Views, 28 Votes ,3.96 Score
karis_rye 55 F
10 Articles
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Closure - When enough is enough!!   1/25/2005

“You learn that kisses aren’t contracts, even while in the presence of their promises. You learn to build all of your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans. You learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul. Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. You learn that you really can endure, ...


4 Comments, 246 Views, 22 Votes ,4.69 Score
hOtCaRmElFuDgE 42 F
8 Articles
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When ur the innocance victim, " How do you move on and be friends?"   1/16/2005

About a Year ago me and my ex broke up its cuz i never said I love u. He told me it and I was speechless, but later that week I find out he's at a friends house that i met online and partied with. They become a item and date for awhile. It doesn't work out so he comes back to me. As a fool i did but to only end up losing him again to ur cousin/best friend. By this time around I was ready to ...


3 Comments, 175 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
trying_it_again 54 F
1 Article
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It's Never A Waste If You Learn More of Yourself   1/15/2005

I met the most wonderful Dom. We emailed and then chatted on the phone and eventually came to play. Initially our time together was sporadic due to work and his other social activities. The more we talked the more we grew closer or so I thought. Throughout the 1 1/2 years we were together there were many conversations and alot of sharing. But after all the time i realized that our time ...


1 Comments, 361 Views, 26 Votes ,4.64 Score
Meesha 53 F
1 Article
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For that stubborn sub   1/14/2005

I finally thought I met my perfect sub. He was a lot different from the type I was used to.At first we talked on the phone every night then finally we started playing together.The passion and desire we shared for each other was the greatest I or he had ever felt.He was then sent back home for a month. The promises he made well he didn't keep any of them.I haven't heard from him in awhile ...


1 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
BeoWulf_Ont 53 M
13 Articles
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Confused ... as always.   1/8/2005

Generally i just think I'm a sucker. been played more times than I can remember. it gets to thepoint where they all just meld together into one big confusing mess. It get's harder as I get older... 33 yrs old and I've never actually experienced a loving relationship. it tends to put you off of ever finding what you really need. My last relationship lasted 5 yrs. the longest I've had. ...


2 Comments, 256 Views, 20 Votes ,3.51 Score
painslut5150 56 M
2 Articles
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Pain turns to hatred   1/3/2005

I havent opened up to another person in a very long time . And now that its over , somthing else is stirring inside me . Its called anger , hatred the most vile and destructive emotions inside me . It begs to be let out , to run free and to protect me from the pain . I know i will feel guilty and remorse if I follow through with the ideas running in my mind . Its hard to fight a part of ...


3 Comments, 166 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
painslut5150 56 M
2 Articles
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the battle rages inside me   1/1/2005

I am slowly getting over the break up of myself and my ex owner . I never have been one for a good break up , never once was i rational or calm when my emotions are steped on . But this sets up a major conflict with in myself . My ego and pride and self worth precive the danger the rejection abondoment and the only thing that part of me wishes to do is strike back to defend myself. I know ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
lilmissexkitten 51 F
4 Articles
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Time does heal   12/22/2004

11 Months ago I sat red eyed and exhausted a very real and dear D/s relationship had ended and landed me rather heavily on my ass.. I hadn't done anything wrong. <br> I decided and it was right for me to back off from the scene and concentrate on me and important real life issues.. <br> We remained friends and communicated and then there came a point when I took the ...


4 Comments, 577 Views, 65 Votes ,4.64 Score
Mistress_Kayln 53 F
1 Article
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I gotta hole in Me now....   12/18/2004

She has been My life for 6 1/2 years, and a week ago Monday Our relationship ended.She is everything to Me, the air I breath...world revolved around making Her happy...but alas after years of sexual deprivation...I just couldnt take it any longer. I finally had to tell Her that I needed to smell Her smell, and feel the touch of Her hands, the heat of Her mouth on My.... Now We are still ...


2 Comments, 375 Views, 33 Votes ,2.60 Score
i26 43 F
6 Articles
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short and intense   12/10/2004

In the past two months our worlds have become intertwined like nothing I have experienced. I suppose you grew used to me letting my world revolve around you, and yours mine. Your selflessness and even self-destructive nature wasn’t a problem since I was like an fledgling and needed everything done for me. Now I have a strong desire to be able to do for myself, as well as for you. ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
Unhyped 41 M
1 Article
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Longest delay in a split   12/6/2004

This is my first article written, and it's not really much. The last actual relationship I was in went on five months longer than it should have and the chick never bothered to dump me then. That was a lot of time wasted, wasn't it?


1 Comments, 101 Views, 16 Votes ,1.36 Score
soggypantscan 42 M
10 Articles
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Break   12/5/2004

Don't you hate it when you break up and your partner says "its just that I think you are doing ________" like they think they know what you're thinking and tell you how you feel. <br> Irritates the hell out of me. The last time, we had only gone out for 2 months, I'm quite sure she didn't know how I thought.


0 Comments, 73 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
Lady_Gatta 58 F
55 Articles
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blue story   11/29/2004

have you ever felt that by talking to someone you never met before, that he is so special.... have you? have you ever felt sometimes being surrounded by others 24/7 that you are so lonely, haveyou? did you wish sometimes to close your eyes and never be able to open them again, did you? have you ever imagine yourself elsewhere, far far away from where you really are, haveyou? ...


6 Comments, 207 Views, 23 Votes ,5.23 Score
i26 43 F
6 Articles
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Making love by the head stone   11/29/2004

Making love by the head stone The graveyard is a parable of Where we are soon to belong Dripping traces of lifes Dead history To many seems sick I think this makes the spirits sing <br> Shh.. A new life being spawned The silence so long Orgasm prolonged The ground is breathing In its heaving Becoming one with everything <br> Following down these ...


3 Comments, 109 Views, 37 Votes ,6.62 Score
elvana
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   2004-11-18

breakin up hurts n nastily painful.it doesnt matter who dumped who, whether u r heart-broken or relieved its over...the end of any serious relationship, means a dream is shattered...... it takes time for the sharp pain to recede...but eventually you'll wake up one morning n forget to be miserable...


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Underbedbeast 59 M
9 Articles
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Who's got the BREAK UP HOW TO BOOK??   11/17/2004

So you start your mental laundry list of why – at first you resist even considering it because it feels so rotten, so distinctly painful. But eventually, you get enough items on this mental list. There’s that time, and that other time, and the deep inconsiderate behavior. And perhaps there’s all these times in your mind when you were made to feel guilty and took the blame. ...


0 Comments, 177 Views, 15 Votes ,5.58 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"breakin up"   11/17/2004

its like a beautiful rose plant...u once planted n it grows, healthy beautiful roses.After a while....it became weak...the flowers died n lost its shine....n its out of control....coz somethin is just not right...dont panic...if u try to refresh it again....n u failed...just live with it coz thats reality, the truth hurts but when a relationship goes blank.......there are no powers to ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 32 Votes ,6.52 Score
Dragon_fire69 41 M
3 Articles
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what should i have done   11/15/2004

ya about 5 months ago i was in a relation ship with a girl that was a total bitch to me...and not in a good way...she thought she could do anything she wanted but if i did the same stuff she was doing she would freak...like i was not alowed to have any friends because she thought i was going to cheat on her...theres a lot more stuff but anyway i ended up leaving her in her home town and ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 19 Votes ,3.92 Score
Para_91 59 M
6 Articles
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Just some thoughts   11/10/2004

No one can tell you what hides in the heart and soul of another person. It is doubtful that even that person can truly tell you what or why they do the things that they do. After my wife of 12 years disappeared I was suddenly given a great deal of time to do some serious soul searching and reviewing of our “relationship”. After a full year of despair, confusion, and sleepless nights ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 37 Votes ,7.89 Score
csundquist 38 M
1 Article
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Its so hard   11/4/2004

Why Is it that its so hard to break up and try and find another person why cant it be easy I wish it was anyone have any suggestions on this


1 Comments, 53 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
Reese215 78 F
4 Articles
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Try Honesty   10/30/2004

All my life I have had trouble ending a relationship. Being a born pleaser, I never wanted to cause hurt. But now I am going to admit something that I had a hard time even admitting to myself: "a sharp wound heals much faster than a jagged tear." Women have a tendency to not be able to end a relationship smoothly. Fax is fax. They will go six ways to sundown to keep from coming right out ...


3 Comments, 141 Views, 42 Votes ,7.93 Score
joey_jo_jo 39 M
1 Article
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What a Bit@h!   10/14/2004

The day after i broke up with my ex she slept with my friend on a field.... do girls do this often or is she just a super bitch... i dont know?!


4 Comments, 88 Views, 39 Votes ,6.57 Score
madcron 49 M
1 Article
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it's a hard thing   10/13/2004

Nobody likes to be dumped, it's the bottom line! If your a chick and ure getting over a hot relationship, you start thinking if things can be the way they were. Face the facts he/she dosen't want you anymore try your best to find another mate and GET OVER IT!


0 Comments, 57 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score
mastergenus 49 M
1 Article
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When your Sub chooses to take off her collar   10/12/2004

Hmm, should I not be phased, or be emotionally hurt by my sub walking away? I was, and am. but why, this deeply? I think it is because in any solid relationship. Well let's break it down. Why? Hm I was told I was not consistant, I was not strict enough, and hard enough to truely break her down to the level of submission she felt she needed. Hmm and yet she asked to be collared, not ...


2 Comments, 160 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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So bad yet so good!   10/11/2004

In answer to redass1979 which said: Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another. . There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. <br> Well you're here aren't you? doesn't that put you in the same ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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Getting Over the Pain (trying to be friends after a breakup)   10/11/2004

Human emotions are not always your friend! It is only when people learn that nothing in life is worth an emotional distress to yourself, that they will begin to live life to the fullest. People come and go, relationships come and go. sure there are good times and bad times, but remembering the good times and moving on is better than remembering the bad times and wallowing in your own ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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Why won't he say its over??   10/11/2004

To CowboyAngel He's playing you like a chump that's why he won't say it's over! Keep ya hanging around just in case his other ventures don't work out! Be strong and tell him goodbye, you don't deserve what he is putting you through. Unless of course you just like being a puppet on a string!!


0 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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breaking up   10/11/2004

Well then desiredelf, if your sub has realized what she truly wants and is trying to come back, and you did say you love her, then why still carry the grief? Just consider yourself the winner of the tug-o-war and maybe in time she will explain to you why she handled things the way she did before she left. The ball is in your court now, I hope you handle it well.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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response to: My last boyfriend   10/11/2004

Well mahalcock what did you really expect? People more so than not, seem like a dream come true when you first meet them, but can turn into a nightmare soon afterwords. People so often get boared with their other half and think the grass is greaner on the other side. Even quicksand doesn't look like quicksand until you step in it! Ever heard of spice? You should have tried to put some ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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Response to: nude college   10/11/2004

ok veevij, and screwing the mentor is bad how? If it gets them good grades, I say go for it!!!


0 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
SatanicQueen 66 F
10 Articles
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Still Longing For Her .....   10/11/2004

It's not so much what you did to deserve what happened to you, but be thankful you have fond memories, and move on!


0 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
redass1979 49 F
1 Article
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There is no reason to be in a real relationship with someone if you are on here   10/6/2004

Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another.. There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. I dont care how bad someone treats you...its nothing but complete death for your partner...finding out that no matter what you do ...


2 Comments, 85 Views, 15 Votes
Miss_Coco30 50 F
7 Articles
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Re: break clean or not   10/4/2004

A clean break is the best thing for everyone. Lingering feelings will only make a sad situation worse, so moving on with your life would be better in the long run.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
BelleMorte 53 F
14 Articles
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RE: Getting over the pain   9/30/2004

Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs... As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on... Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
sxygrneyedbrat11 52 F
4 Articles
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getting over the pain   9/12/2004

I have recently broken up with someone who was very dear to me, for reasons that I won't mention..I find it very difficult to make the transition from being this beautiful "couple" to now being just "friends"..I am at my wits end, trying to find the happy medium in which to conduct this relationship..I miss him terribly, but, can't continue either..the relationship has not beneficial to ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 19 Votes ,7.34 Score
facedownarseup 59 M
3 Articles
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Still Longing For Her .....   8/28/2004

I hate to admit it, but I still miss her. I long for her. My heart aches for the sight, the touch, the feel, the passion of her. <br> My spirit which once soared like an eagle in anticipation of serving and has crashed to the ground. Ipleasing her t lays on the side of life's highway, crushed by the daily grind of having to go on without her. <br> At night I yearn ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 21 Votes ,6.10 Score
IrishPrincess4 61 F
13 Articles
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Re: What Happens When Honesty Fails   8/6/2004

Alan340....Let her be, if she is in the hospital for attempting her life, she will get the help she needs. Any contact from you at this point will send her back to the place she was prior to entering the hospital. At this point you just need to distance yourself from her. Based on what you say, it can't get better, it can only get worse. She is not balanced and may need medication to ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 49 Votes ,8.14 Score
alan340 55 M
1 Article
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What happens when honesty fails?   8/3/2004

I was with a woman for years, at first everything was great. After a couple of months in r/l things started to fall apart. When we were fighting it was always my fault, a few hours later it was all her fault. I was honest with my intentions and what I was looking for from the start. I never hid my dark side and in some ways she enjoyed that part of me. She used to tell me it was my fault ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 34 Votes ,7.73 Score
aquarianmale 61 M
2 Articles
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when a relationships end.   7/18/2004

when two people part life can be very truamtic you feel unloved uncared for that no one wants you.depression can set it , work performance goes down hill and boredom takes over diet goes up the creek and life doesnt feel worth carryon.but why has it ended is it due to one person not fufilling the needs of the other or has one strayed or is the biggest cause of the lot money problems or ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 60 Votes ,8.31 Score
lookin4lotsofFun 49 C
9 Articles
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response to ex-husband missed out...   7/13/2004

So why were you such a prude? It is funny all the sex people talk about sex and the reason for infidelity but hardly ever the solution to it or preventing it. You are a good example, had you not been such a prude and been sexually active with your husband, worked at sex with him, being interested in it, being creative, playing, and having fun with it, you could have notonly saved a ...


1 Comments, 98 Views, 58 Votes ,7.64 Score
AnEagerBeaver 54 F
29 Articles
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Tears without trust?   7/7/2004

There were tears upon my leathers, Tears upon her face Tears of anger and denial Of shame and loss and disgrace The lie in which I had caught her She knew would cost her dear She knew what I now had to do The words even I could not bear to hear. The collar, worn around her neck She wore with joy so well She knew her neck would soon be bare By my eyes alone, could ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 45 Votes ,8.63 Score
fireflymster 73 M
2 Articles
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When is a slave not a slave?   6/28/2004

I recently had what i thoght was a male slave who's only wish was to serve the master. Our agreement was that if I could not look after my slave for any length of time or the slave proved unreliable then I would release him to find a new master. Owing to a sudden unexpected change of job i was placed in a position that my free time no longer was compatable with that of my slave. Doing the ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 47 Votes ,7.32 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: Do We Really Deal With Lies In A Breakup   6/24/2004

Having our trust violated is always painful but having it violated within the lifestyle is more so due to the very nature of a bdsm relationship. While closure acts as a catalyst for moving on it's isn't always attainable when dealing with someone who has been less than truthful with us. Sometimes we simply need to accept that we will never know what motivated someone who we trusted to ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 50 Votes ,8.92 Score
greygutiar 43 M
1 Article
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ex girlfriend   6/14/2004

me an my ex are friend i got mad at her and left her house a while later she called me crying because i left she said i was teh only shure thing in her life shes driving me nuts


0 Comments, 70 Views, 33 Votes ,1.49 Score
hockeydv 41 M
3 Articles
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Re: Limbo   6/1/2004

I agree with you totally that it is hard. I had a similar situation where it was more her fault but I moved out, and then told her I still cared about her. I gave her a month to decide how she wanted to go about things. Well, in all honesty I got off the phone about an hour ago, and I had to tell her. She tried telling me that she loved me and gave "kiss" sounds, but yet she couldn't ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
AboveandBeyond 53 F
1 Article
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reply to I Love her but   5/7/2004

Ever see the Seinfeld episode where they discuss the "pre-emptive" breakup? Might be the case here. Ask yourself - Do you really love her? You say you were thinking of breaking up with her. Did she simply beat you to the punch? Just a thought or two


0 Comments, 43 Views, 33 Votes ,5.26 Score
femlicker 71 M
2 Articles
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Limbo   5/5/2004

I have recently come out of an ltr. Things were wonderful until I had to deal with some difficult personal stuff in my head. Then, I began to withdraw a little, I guess a little down. During this period, my girlfriend, who I truly loved, decided to end things as I wasn't giving her the attention she wanted. She did this on the telephone, (shitty but true), but gave me a month in case I ...


2 Comments, 71 Views, 26 Votes ,6.80 Score
kset2kx 51 M
8 Articles
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How to break up with out hurting someone   4/28/2004

I am in a serious relationship but I have found I want to do so much more sexually and explore more and the girl I am with is so sweet and innocent that I really care for but I am ready to move on and explore. How do I break it off with her and remain friends and not hurt her.


0 Comments, 53 Views, 41 Votes ,4.73 Score
singedangel 60 F
1 Article
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Sir William.........Thank you   4/26/2004

"Breaking Up" Two of the harshest, words a person faces.Especially so, in this "lifestyle", where one's mind , body and soul belongs to another. To be embraced, physically and mentally by your Master's words, His touch, His actions, His whole being alone. Although i heard those words, and felt the stinging pain and cried for what seemed an eternity... i also grew within that time, ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 32 Votes ,8.30 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Reply To: I'm Stupid   4/14/2004

Stupidity doesn't factor in here. It sounds as though you are having great difficulty in accepting the fact that your relationship with this man is over. You stated that during the relationship he criticized you repeatedly and wasn't a supportive and caring element in your life. Sometimes in situations such as this it's helpful to take stock and to access and define the relationship the ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Reply To "Why?"   4/14/2004

People who spilt up only to return to a past partner repeatedly are engaged in perpetuating a pattern. This is typically due to a lack of any real closure or an unwillingness on the part of one or both partners (typically both) to realize that they have long-term issues that may or may not be something they can resolve. We see this in abusive relationships. People will frequently wonder ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Juggabeef 38 M
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HOW DO I BREAK IT OFF   4/14/2004

I've had an off and on relationship for the past couple years and now she wants to take it to the next step and get engauged. i do love her and i told her that i wanted to also, even though i decided later that i didn't I'm just not ready for that big of a step. i want to get out in the world and explore more before i settle down later in life. i really have no idea how to go about letting ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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A Lack Of Closure   4/13/2004

While I am very much aware that life is a classroom, some lessons aren't pleasant and are in fact painful. Knew there were risks when I got involved with my first real time D/s relationship. Thought I had covered the bases but didn't bank on being outright lied to about his marital status. I am processing what happened but am having some difficulty in that I am challenged in gaining any ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 34 Votes ,5.04 Score
runupinya72 51 M
2 Articles
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love of my life ran off !   4/11/2004

all of my life i wanted someone like brandy.now she ran off with my and we rarely speak.some days it's hard breath without her as my fresh air of life.baby if you ever see this i love you so much!!!nobody can ever replace you in my heart.i miss you, and our .love always, me...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
Donjuandemiko 67 M
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Don't come over with out warning   3/30/2004

Just a small tip. If you are reently broken up do not show up at their place randomly. I dont care what excuse you have, whether its that you are looking for a missing tooth brush or that your drunk. At best your ex thinks you are even more pathetic, at worst they call the police. <br> I have an ex who continues to show up at my place drunk, even though we broke up about 3 months ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 41 Votes ,8.18 Score
SweetThing34 54 F
22 Articles
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Re: How to say Goodbye   3/3/2004

You're kidding right? Love...that word is tossed around far too carelessly. If that person "Loved" you there would be no need to say goodbye as a result of lying cheating using etc. Sweetheart face it they did not love you. So saying goodbye is the easiest thing to say if you truly were lied to etc. You cannot possably tell me that you love someone that you cannot trust because the two ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 47 Votes ,8.52 Score
sandi7 53 F
6 Articles
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Response to "It Just Doesn't Get Any Easier"   3/1/2004

I have to wonder if it is the passion you love the most about your relationship, and if that is the reason why you are still wanting her even after all of the hard times. Huge arguements are just as passionate as hot sex, and for some people, passion of any type is a need. If you could find passion with someone, without the fighting, perhaps you could be even happier than you were with ...


0 Comments, 213 Views, 25 Votes ,6.67 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re: how not to break up   2/9/2004

your 'article' is a veiled excuse to tell a really crap joke, right?


0 Comments, 38 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : to good to be true   2/9/2004

sorry, this isn't really anything to do with breaking up.. <br> ..however, this might have been better under the category of 'dating' or 'building a relationship' - where it would actually be relevant !


0 Comments, 37 Views, 15 Votes ,6.65 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship   2/9/2004

sorry to hear your troubles.. ..it's plain that the experience has affected you <br> it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication. <br> trouble meeting bdsm partners ?? it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to do is ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 33 Votes ,7.19 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : what i miss most   2/9/2004

great article !! <br> i am keeping this to explain to others why people enjoy a bdsm life. <br> it's evocative of the depths that the master/sub explore and how it really allows people to share and express their desires - without being sordid. <br> thank you


0 Comments, 44 Views, 19 Votes ,6.03 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : Leave the person with dignity, grace and respect   2/9/2004

thank you for the great article.. <br> i think it's not a thought just for ending a relationship, but a guide throughout.


0 Comments, 51 Views, 16 Votes ,7.39 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : Don't give Doms a bad name re : Don't give Doms a bad name   2/9/2004

sorry to hear what happened to you, but if he's that immature, then you're best away from him. <br> your article shows that a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship and is based on the same rules - honesty and communication. <br> unfortunately, people in a d/s relationship are only human and carry their frailties with them ["wherever you go, there you are"] ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
24 Articles
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re : giving her away   2/9/2004

great article. <br> i think you did the right thing, namely not trying to 'force' the relationship and having it end badly for both of you. <br> bravo, monsieur !!


0 Comments, 63 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
SynnerOfRoissy 56 M
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more?   2/9/2004

well, it sounds very fishy to me.. ..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based on honesty and communication. <br> considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be the 1st sub to contact him or the last. <br> if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs this for various reasons that he does not have to explain" refers to, then he's not being honest ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
SweetThing34 54 F
22 Articles
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This may seem rude but...   2/4/2004

I cannot believe what I am reading! Ladies! What the hell is wrong with you? You meet some guy online, and decide that H/he is the be all and end all of your world? This goes out to those people that got "dumped" and didnt really get together RT much. Please...Where the hell are your brians? Did Y/you check them at the door when Y/you came home from work or something? the world ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 61 Votes ,9.59 Score
nyTrouble 51 F
2 Articles
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need help please.   2/3/2004

I am a submissive, searching for a Dom to meet in r/t. I recently met a Dom for coffee and a brief get to know each other meeting. <br> My delimma is; how do i tell him he is not what i am looking for. I know that this was only the first meeting, and that things might improve, but i do not honestly feel that he and i would make a proper match. <br> Help, how do i ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re:Breaking Up Without Hurting   2/2/2004

Becoming a couple is a process that occurs over time. Uncoupling is also a process. Disengagement from one another after sharing your hopes goals and dreams can be as upsetting as losing someone to death, if not more so as it involves a sense of deliberate abandonment. Typically the break up is initiated by one party leaving the other feeling rejected. A good way to proceed is to put ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
veilpuss 49 F
2 Articles
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Do it with respect and face up to what you've done....   1/25/2004

my Master just broke up with me this weekend and i'm heart broken about it. It's not just the fact that He left, its how and why He did it. A past ex slave/girlfriend of His came back to town and He immediately dumped me to be with her. This is from the Man who only a few days earlier was telling me that i would belong to Him forever, that i was perfect for Him, that He could see me ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 71 Votes ,9.22 Score
Spankmaster42 62 M
6 Articles
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Reply to Read the Fine Print   1/23/2004

I now where You are coming from - but reading profiles is not a strong point of M/most on alt. Yes, they A/all like to glance through them, but what they are looking at/for is beyond Me. I have had a couple of subs on alt, and each time they have changed their profiles to indicate that they are with Me, and have no desire to meet or cyber with any Other. Does that stop the wannabee Doms ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
YourDomGuy 42 M
2 Articles
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The sooner the better saves hearts   1/6/2004

Always remember when you break up with somebody that you can drag it out or wait, becasue it wont go away. You always need to be honest and true to yourself and you partner. Thats how I remain friends with all my ex's. But treating them with respect and caring and being a friend even after we've broken up. <br> If you've beenbroken up wiht, value their honesty and their ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 49 Votes ,6.23 Score
sandi7 53 F
6 Articles
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Breaking up without hurting   1/2/2004

I have realized that my boyfriend and I are not right for each other. We are different people with different beliefs, neither of us is a bad person. I just see no future in "us", but I so don't want to hurt him. He really has done nothing wrong, and I know he loves me deeply, and I do love him, but I am feeling so stifled, so trapped. I feel I need my freedom back, that a serious ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 30 Votes ,6.28 Score
Sadie2003 81 F
1 Article
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re: Help me understand this. Why does he need more?   1/2/2004

My heart goes out to you, finding out that your Dominant "needs more." I thought about this situation earlier today, and no one can answer for anyone else. I believe that my Dominant has been unfaithful to me. He doesn't want to say, but I forgive him because I cannot imagine life without him and no, more than that. He is who he is and may have needs I can't comprehend. Your Dominant ...


0 Comments, 98 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
Alohacovedreams 70 F
22 Articles
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RE: Help me understand this...   12/25/2003

I can offer assistance by tossing out questions to help you sort through this, but first let me say, I can only answer one of your posted questions. (The others only you and he can answer.)--NO, you are not stupid for feeling hurt. Stupid does not come into play where any of our human emotions are concerned... <br> Questions: Was there a mutual agreement made for exclusivity? ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 31 Votes ,7.94 Score
weebro18 41 M
4 Articles
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How not to break up.   12/25/2003

One night, I was considering leaving my girlfriend of 11 months, and she came over unannounced. So we decided that the tv was rubbish and we should have some fun, so after some foreplay we started to have sex, after less than a minute I shouted out, "Kirsty!", one of our friends, I couldn't believe it but my other half didnt seem to notice. So I put my head deep in the pillow and bit down ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 31 Votes ,0.36 Score
darkrose 52 F
1 Article
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Dear S., I shall try to keep this brief...   12/7/2003

It is extraordinarily difficult to even break off a ‘temporary’ connection with someone and some pitiful snivelling part of me feels that it must be even harder when that connection has been a bdsm one … <br> <br> Dear S…, <br> To use similar words to ones you wrote to me not so long ago, ‘I shall try to keep this brief and write as words flow ...


1 Comments, 193 Views, 48 Votes ,6.56 Score
MistressBrenda2 63 F
7 Articles
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be respectful but honest!   12/1/2003

the reason i'm writing this is because i had been chatting with a slave who agreed to moved here from another country. he lied to me, led me on by saying he rally wanted to be with me and wanted to start a new life with me. i had told him from the start that i wasn't into cyber that i was looking 4 a R/T slave. instead of him telling me the truth that he was just a "player" instead he told ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 30 Votes ,4.51 Score
Alohacovedreams 70 F
22 Articles
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Your widest fantasy remains just that...   11/12/2003

I had hoped you would be my mirror, but it's apparent that it won't be you. The only room you seem to have in your reality, is room for fantasy. And that's not what I'm looking for. There's too much at stake to continue comprising. We're coming down the backside of the mountain, and time is short. And the last relationship that I have in my life, will not only be the very best, but it ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 37 Votes ,7.05 Score
servant2u40 61 M
10 Articles
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never complete breakup   11/3/2003

They'v got you by the balls for life.She, s got pic, s of you on your knees eating ass, your face in a toilet, chuging down lots of piss.I ran into woman i had worshiped a few times at gas station, she took the $45 I had went to her car saying get busy fuce face.I ate her asshole for 30min see her in 2 more yrs.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 47 Votes ,2.67 Score
needsgooduse 66 M
1 Article
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RE:Submissive vs girlfriend   9/27/2003

I am 48 never married no and my last D/s relationship was my relationship. She was my love, girlfriend, friend and playmate. And yes, underlining it all she was my submissive, slut, and anything it pleased me to make of my property. So I understand why you would want more. And it is so nice to adore your vanilla partnership and know that your private partnership is ruled by him.


0 Comments, 82 Views, 39 Votes ,7.23 Score
mishashellshell 63 F
2 Articles
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Soon Baby, We'll have to Say Good-bye.   9/18/2003

You are all that I could ever want in a man, a Dom and a life partner. I trust you as much as I have trusted the one family member that was so very special and so important to my life delvelopment. As you have been. And I know that I have been somewhat important to you, as well. And that means the absolute world to me. And the more that I opened up to you, the better it became. You are ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 54 Votes ,8.12 Score
cateyes46 68 F
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What I miss most   8/17/2003

What I miss most about my Master. As the days go by, I remember our times together, I remember the scenes, the times we shared. I walk alone now, missing Him all the more, as I remember. Sex I can take care of myself, I did not need Him to be able to physically feel. What I miss the most was giving of my mind and soul. Knowing that my body, mind and soul belonged to Him and I had no ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 69 Votes ,8.13 Score
Darkthoughts03 63 M
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Once upon a time...   8/14/2003

Once upon a time, <br> a handsome, daring Scorpio man met and began a relationship with a beautiful, sexy Aries woman. Neither was expecting to have an affair such as this. The sparks flew from their very first meeting, and they grew those sparks into a raging inferno of sexuality and emotion. They gave to each other all that they had, their bodies, their hearts, their souls. ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 50 Votes ,7.38 Score
WoodyMNNY 43 M
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Master dropped by slave?   7/31/2003

Just a bit of advise to All of You out there who are looking for slaves and subs from a slightly bitter Master. BE CAREFUL! I just ended a relationship with a very promising slave, actually she ended it. If You find a slave who is very wild and spontanious, unless you can be there 24/7 to break them or their rebeliousness, do not bother. It will be better for the both of Y/you that way. I ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 64 Votes ,7.10 Score
slave20000 52 F
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a note to You   7/22/2003

things that could have been, sometimes just aren't... i have learned the world is what i want it to be. we are what we are and what this life has made us. this hasn't been easy, but, it's made me much stronger for that and many reasons i thank you my Mentor...i thank you for letting me find my way and mend my wounds. <br> i hhope it brings happiness to you ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
penni4yrthts2 65 F
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Dom occupied elsewhere   5/30/2003

I had my first experience with a Dom about a month ago. Being new to the lifestyle, I communicated my hard lines and he his. We talked and finally met. He was attractive and had a great sense of humor. After much talking throughout the evening, I decided that it would be o.k. for him to teach me certain aspects of the Dom/Sub relationship. I was with him for two days and it was great. I ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 73 Votes ,8.92 Score
LordChainer 69 M
3 Articles
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Don't wound her!   4/12/2003

Paraphrasing the movie Imperial Scandals: "A Slave is a noble animal... don't wound her... kill her quickly!" meaning don't go beating around the bush... say things straight without delay or adornment as soon as the situation is such that it can't go on further. However I ought to add that if you reach such a situation with a Slave that has already Surrendered totally to you (and isn't ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 96 Votes ,8.87 Score
lovegrape 53 F
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I made a mistake, I am very sorry....   3/4/2003

To My Master: <br> I love you. I want to be your slave forever and ever. But I have needs you don't want to meet. You ignore my dreams, yet tell me to dream. You ignore my hopes, yet tell me to seek hope. You have told me you will never love me and that you will never marry me. You have told me you don't want , yet you know how much I desire . You have told me not to ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 83 Votes ,7.30 Score
Ur_fallen_angel 41 F
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an appoligy in advance   12/15/2002

to all those men who email me <br> im really still a and though that is no excuse for my actions it is the reason why sometimes i act the way i do. i may seem to always be wriggling my finger "cum hether" but really i dont want anyone to get close... ive been hurt (like everyone else) and im still trying to put the pieces back together. <br> anyway i hope youll for ...


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slave20000 52 F
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To my dear Mistress   12/8/2002

This message I write, I know makes no sense to most people it is meant for my Mistress. I still feel your control after everything we have done to each other. I’m still thinking about you and still feel owned and your property. I am your slave at your feet where I belong, you are my queen im ready. To be the slave you can be proud of . Sincerely, Slave 20000


0 Comments, 67 Views, 27 Votes ,2.08 Score
Sweetfaith69 47 F
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I love you but I had to let you go...   11/5/2002

I thought I will finally meet the man of my life. It all started with exchanging e-mails then phone calls and finally we decided to meet. He is 15 years older than me(I thought)and he is really a gentle person. We made love on our first date and it is really wonderful. He is a perfect gentleman and I was really treated like a queen, he pampered me everything. <br> Then one ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 122 Votes ,5.70 Score
manxcat 61 F
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Apology to Cruel_Lord   4/15/2002

My dear Sir, i seem to always make you angry with me. I do this unintentionally, believe me. It is just so hard to get over your first Dom. We could have been very good together, but i panicked and ran away, twice. Now you have no wish to even talk to me, and that makes me very sad. I am here to publicly apologize for my behaviour the last few weeks, and i vow that i shall do everything ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 155 Votes ,1.83 Score