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RinBoots 71 F
29 Articles
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Relationship   7/9/2023

Relationship can only happen where there is free interaction between people.


1 Comments, 65 Views, 43 Votes ,1.50 Score
DaddyOG3 43 M
8 Articles
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Covid   11/20/2022

Why are there so many covid posts here?


1 Comments, 79 Views, 67 Votes ,1.02 Score
WhiteDom4BlacFem 49 M
24 Articles
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Intimacy of a Dom and his slave   3/5/2022

Forever and ever I have required the heat and passion of a slave. <br><br> I need her heart more than I want her body or servitude. <br><br> The act of deep kissing is my form of TPE as she gives herself completely and the connection is perfect with no pretense or costume. To lie upon her breasts and listen to her breathe. To press my ear into her as to hear her heart ...


5 Comments, 141 Views, 82 Votes ,2.57 Score
barryj43 81 M
24 Articles
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Relationship building   7/4/2021

Relationship are a 24 / 7 job. I sometime wonder if it's worth the effort or if settling for the occasionally hoop up is the way to go....


5 Comments, 201 Views, 126 Votes ,0.78 Score
fussleckskl1000 66 M
1 Article
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Central Astronauts Training Education Masochist feetslave   6/20/2021

article is in preperation


1 Comments, 93 Views, 84 Votes ,1.29 Score
satyrp 77 M
22 Articles
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Finding True Self By Being Humbled   4/24/2021

We all agree, it seems, that D/s relationships are tricky affairs which most folks aren't very adept at. The control freak is too often abusive rather than an instructive dominant and the bratty sub is an attention rather than a yielding submissive. Why is this so and what to do? <br><br> Humiliation is not a fetish but a pathway to discovering reality-based selfhood of the ...


8 Comments, 198 Views, 89 Votes ,1.55 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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Corona's time   7/31/2020

Hello, I hope that everyone will be fine, healthy and happy. We previously talked about the most dangerous disease, which is the Corona virus or Covid-19. There are some conclusions, such as this disease that will leave an impact with humanity. Some people began live with this disease as if the disease did not exist, and it may be the most dangerous stage or vice versa. A puzzling question. It ...


2 Comments, 128 Views, 94 Votes ,1.21 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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Greetings to doctors and nurses in the world who are victims of humanity   5/24/2020

The diary of the Corona Virus. I wish everyone a recovery, and that everything is okay with everyone and be in health, happiness, and salutation to the doctors and nurses in the world who are victims for humanity and death for humanity. From the due appeal, I understand many thanks, gratitude and gratitude. The most loyal loyal soldiers of the homeland are lost because they are in battle with an ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 77 Votes ,1.23 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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God, joy and smile prevail over all the people of the world   5/16/2020

Good evening to friends. I hope for everyone to be well and well. Complement a topic. I love adding some things. We talked about the most serious disease that afflicted mankind and the paralysis of the economic movement in the world days. Life comes back from another. But we have to be careful. I talked about some sixty products that the virus with weather A lemon sunlight Most herbs. Drinks, ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 59 Votes ,0.71 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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O Lord, the joy and smile prevail over all the peoples of the world   4/30/2020

Welcome to the next chapter of my blog The Most Dangerous Enemies of People We Benefit From Or There is a useful experience that informs conclusions about the most dangerous human disease Hovoved Corona virus emerging What you should know about the emerging corona virus disease as a benefit The corona virus emerging affects people all over the world, including Many as the virus continues to ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 65 Votes ,0.59 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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The most dangerous enemies of humans   4/30/2020

Hello everyone who read my blog and I wish the good and happiness to the people of the world and I hope that it is fine and good health and the recovery of all disease. We benefit from it or a useful experiment that benefits conclusions from the Coronavirus or (COVID-19) is present in areas that witness a widespread and continuous spread, for example cold areas like Europe and America, the ...


3 Comments, 87 Views, 64 Votes ,0.45 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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Good three in the morning, evening and late night   12/26/2019

Good in the morning, evening and late night


3 Comments, 102 Views, 69 Votes ,1.48 Score
fares70 47 M
10 Articles
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Happy year is ready for the new year   12/26/2019

be ready in the year. I hope that you will get everything you need and forward awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the year and happy birthday all.


6 Comments, 64 Views, 47 Votes ,0.90 Score
Daddyknowsbest8 55 M
0 Articles
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How to contact you   12/25/2019

Hello, <br><br> Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k. <br><br> I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role , taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient, etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching, anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc... <br><br> ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 38 Votes ,0.91 Score
Daddyknowsbest8 55 M
0 Articles
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How to contact you   12/25/2019

Hello, <br><br> Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k. <br><br> I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role , taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient, etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching, anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc... <br><br> ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
obetoday 63 M
12 Articles
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how to   12/12/2019

i would if it were easier to build points


0 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Bus Journey.   12/11/2019

Travelling is a hobby for many and compulsion for most of us. We have to travel long distances and when in urgency without reserved tickets in train BUS JOURNEY becomes best option. On such an occasion I had to travel and I boarded the bus. There were two seats on remote back corner. Relunctantly i sat there . After an hour on next stop of bus a young lady of 30 around entered in bus and she had ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Beaches.   12/9/2019

It is astonishing to find out that all grown up boys and girls show fascination for to visit beaches and to further their love interest. On one such story, a boy meets a girl and both exchanges smiles and share sun tanning sleeping close to each other. The curves of girls attracts the attention of the grown up boy and he immediately request for a friendship. The girl was also good cake and she ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 19 Votes ,2.46 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Can anybody answer?.   12/7/2019

Two ladies were sleeping on same bed. They were hugging each other and kissing each other at times while gossipping. Their intentions were now known. they just talked and kissed and hugged tight. Why they were doing so?.


2 Comments, 36 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
intrinsic_heed 55 M
4 Articles
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Tribal Education; TPE (Total Power Exchange) 24/7   12/7/2019

[post 174] 24/7 TPE Dynamics <br><br> Friday, October 30, 20 Tribe Education Gridlox TPE Total Power Exchange <br><br> TPE or Total Power Exchange is an arrangement between two or more individuals, in which an agreement is made of bonding, trust, complete understanding of all parties expectations, desires, boundaries, needs and limitations. Based on these ...


3 Comments, 33 Views, 20 Votes ,2.23 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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My sex session with a stranger woman.   11/28/2019

It was a evening. I went to park. Cool breeze was breezing and gave more oxygen and mood changed. Mood for lovely evening with good food came., I needed a woman for me to have dinner. I searched and searched on corners of the park. But no one attracted my attention. Then I went to a nearby bar with food. I sat in a corner. A lady came and asked me what I want. She tole me She is also hungry and ...


5 Comments, 62 Views, 27 Votes ,3.35 Score
4rwl233 43 M
14 Articles
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whores   11/7/2019

looking for a dirty whores that are into taboo its sometimes hard to find them but when you do find them they are into everything and want to try new things witch every woman like to see there limit


3 Comments, 37 Views, 19 Votes ,2.07 Score
jf23231 53 M
3 Articles
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insatiable always   10/28/2019

testimonials available


3 Comments, 26 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
TwistedDesires10 58 M
1 Article
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Starts here   10/3/2019

Its time build a bdsm relationship. subby kinky needing edge .


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes
CarolineIsYours 41 F
7 Articles
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minus three extremities..   7/4/2019

everything but intercourse or giving, the session is $80 a limited time Nicholasville, Kentucky. See my <br><br> website www.commodityadult.com <br><br> And more freevideos www.commodityadult.com model/candyCastle <br><br> And live now free on webcam www.commodityadult.com blog/WineForCandy <br><br> Passionate. I enjoy foreplay, passion, slow, ...


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Come2playwithyoy 36 F
2 Articles
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How do you know how to trust on alt   2/28/2019

Their are so many fake people on here how do you know who to trust. Looking for help.


2 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Misstress4mslave 52 F
1 Article
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A poly family   2/6/2019

Hello, So I am a Mistress who has a bi male sub and a bi female domestic sub. We are a family and in a poly lifestyle. For a lot of poly family's, all the members play separately and they each have their own paramours. For our family, My puppy and I only play as a couple. I have been told that it is a rarity for a poly family to be that way but as far as I am concerned, It is safer and it ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
Sirforher2018 53 M
3 Articles
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How long has it taken you to be comfortable with your Dom as the submissive? Females...   2/4/2019

Establishing a D/s relationship takes time to build up trust, chemistry and the ability for a sub to let go. How long has it taken you to get there?


5 Comments, 51 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
kk4q69 62 M
1 Article
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Subs Are Born Not Made   11/23/2018

I very fortunate in having vast and varied experience at sharing the D/s experience with female subs who are truly authentic in their sexual submissiveness. Authentic subs are submissive at their core. They don’t to be trained to be a sub. It is as natural as breathing to them. They already know and feel it inside. The authentic sub simply needs to be brought to and express her natural and ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
Mrslittlebrat55 61 F
1 Article
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Spanking is needed in every relationship   9/13/2018

I feel that to buld a good relationship must have good communication an trust an have a good sense of humor.i have always felt that there should always be spanking in a lasting loving relationship


27 Comments, 221 Views, 59 Votes ,5.37 Score
Filthypleasure89 35 M
3 Articles
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Are people here for something more?   4/23/2018

I am only assuming here but I imagine most people here are highly sex driven individuals; people who think about sex for the majority of the day. Chatting is the norm, meets are a given but what about relationships. Are people here to find a relationship and hopefully find love? <br><br> With standard dating sites, you get to know the person first and then after meeting I guess the ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
AlphaLthr 74 F
36 Articles
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Early Stages of Online Relationships   12/22/2017

Something catches your eye about their post... You may like something they said, perhaps the site has told you he was the match for you, or maybe the smile said this is a genuine person, I want to get to know... <br><br> What is online is often so far from the real person that you can’t begin to imagine, later, when you look back, what was the connection in the first place... One ...


13 Comments, 156 Views, 34 Votes ,4.68 Score
lovlylatina 57 F
2 Articles
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Wait until you are chosen   11/16/2017

As we are all searching for the right partner. Don't assume because you identify as a Dom it gives you the right to instantly make demands or to disrespect someone. Untill a sub chooses you, you are not her/his Dom. Respect is earned not instantly given. Being chosen as a Dom is a gift not an entitlement.


4 Comments, 46 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
OLD_WHITESLAVE 70 M
3 Articles
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Memories that now make sense   9/2/2017

When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive, both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always. When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking behind them carrying the bags. I ...


3 Comments, 116 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
gamarriedcouple 71 C
73 Articles
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Is it worth it?   8/11/2017

Wearing this chastity cage between my legs. Waking up early in the morning as I get a painful woody telling me I need to go to the bathroom. Living my life now as a chaste husband. There are times I ask myself is this all worth it.

Then I look at my wife. My beautiful and gorgeous wife. Then, like last night, I see her in bed with someone other than me. I watch another man pound his cock ...


6 Comments, 85 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
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Chinese slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


2 Comments, 154 Views, 25 Votes ,2.91 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
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Chinese slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


3 Comments, 89 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
Score 0.0
Chinese slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
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Chinese slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
bootlckboy39 51 M
14 Articles
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Why Africa or Asia?   6/2/2017

Seems odd someone posting in africa or asia in variety of language when looking. Picking a language seems easy unless not serious.


2 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
SirFun1964 60 M
1 Article
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Takes Time   4/22/2017

If you want a good relationship, you need to take the time to get to know one another. Rushing into it when you hardly know each other usually ends up not working out.


1 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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Would you be in to a Trophy Stepford or made in to one in to Submission?   3/14/2017

I know I am a Natural Stepford with the push up bra's and tight corset's but some what to go to the extreme. Being a kept Women for a man she cater to him out of her submission. She must submit to him fully in contract. Willing to be forced in to refinement and pleasure and marriage in contract. To cater and be under him as he guides and protects you must wear what he requires heels are ...


22 Comments, 223 Views, 41 Votes ,7.39 Score
sirraden1972 51 M
6 Articles
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EFFORT AND TIME   11/13/2016

IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
sirraden1972 51 M
6 Articles
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EFFORT AND TIME   11/13/2016

IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Master_Big_D 54 M
2 Articles
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When chosing a sub, does race really matter?   5/4/2016

I'm open to any race that wants to be with me, but sometimes I get the feeling that the stigma of race is in the air when I'm searching for the sub to be with. I'm still first, and foremost, a gentleman, and a scholar ( college educated with a 3.0 GPA) , and I do dress to impress on first meets.


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
annnterry76 45 C
1 Article
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How love sex and marriage can be possible.   3/23/2016

Hope the title got your attention. If not I am sure the explanation and illustration that will come to follow will. For coup!es serious to be with one another and explore to the fullest extent. Only for the open minded and strong willed. Willing to want more then comfortable. To be able to imagine want desire and explore with all possibilities.only for the mature strong and nonjudgmental. No ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   1/2/2016

Has anyone travelled to meet someone from this website? How far? Was it worth your effort? How far would you be willing to travel?


9 Comments, 117 Views, 18 Votes ,5.72 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   11/6/2015

I have a long distance relationship. He is in a place where he can receive photos but no nudity. I have great sexy clothes and costumes. I need suggestions for photos. What would create a really hot photo? What are your favorite poses and scenery? What visual images turn you on?


4 Comments, 69 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
ddprincess 44 F
1 Article
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DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING/NETWORK   9/18/2015

DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE NETWORK http://alt.com FORUMS BLOGS INSTANT MESSAGING VIDEO CHAT VIDEOS GROUPS FORUMS AND MUCH MORE


0 Comments, 59 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Cumshot9078 38 F
1 Article
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hi there   8/19/2015

I have tried all the normal dating sites and now am here. Looking for a relationship. I have found that some of us have an inner strength and some of us don't. Honesty, loyalty and honor are the ground works for any good relationship. It would seem when you are honest you run the risk of being scorned by many. I am not saying from the moment we meet all will be perfect, that is and would be ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
aldompdx 62 M
5 Articles
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How Control and Surrender are Different   3/28/2015

External control is when my partner delegates to me, the privilege of exercising authority on her behalf. That includes authority over her, and making decisions on her behalf, to the extent and degree permitted both in advance and in the moment.



Internal control is of myself, my thoughts, my actions and reactions, the balance and emotion of my feelings. It is the observation and ...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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New Friends and Fun!   2/28/2015

I joined this website for fun yet didn't know what to expect. My goal was to find people for real-life play. I am lucky to have been contacted by people who are sincere in their desires.

Regarding the world outside of the website, I am amazed at how quickly time spent playing in this lifestyle turns into friendships. I feel like I have so much in common with people whom I've met. I ...


2 Comments, 249 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
kittiiara 48 F
8 Articles
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Finding the right Dom   2/13/2015

I'm finding it extremely difficult in finding a dom who fits in with my lifestyle. I love being dominated during play time but outside of that I require someone who is able to treat me equally. I need a dom who respects my profession and who is able to love me as well as dominate me. My last master fell in love with me then was no longer able to dominate me it was beyond frustrating. Is finding ...


8 Comments, 455 Views, 27 Votes ,5.98 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Second chance   12/8/2014

Just an expression of thanks for dominant women who give a guy a second chance after he screws up an introduction. Cheers.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Who does what even in Femdom   10/31/2014

It appears that in many cases it is up to the man to begin the communication and continue building the relationship from that start. That is, being the aggressor at the beginning of the relationship. Even in a female lead relationship.


2 Comments, 86 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Wodwosen 68 M
1 Article
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Mescaline but Submissive Gentlemen, Can It Exists or Is It Delusional!   1/15/2013

I am a mature gentlemen in has late fifties who sees himself as being a mescaline man while a gentlemen by the nature of the way I was raised. But I am also sexually submissive to women and enjoy being dominated by a lady during play. I would like to ask you ladies out there can a man be seen as mescaline especially out in the vanilla word we live in, a gentleman with proper etiquette and being ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
shekaass112 36 F
1 Article
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a real relationship   12/14/2012

what it takes to be with the person u love so much n yal cant not please each other and the person have to get alone with the person u love or fall in with n yal got to talk to each other n yal may have disagree sometimes that normal n yal have to support each other in everyway


1 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
classactwilts 61 M
1 Article
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humiliating Sarah, the first time   5/30/2012

All my stories are true unless stated.

I do have a few ideas of fiction I would like to write and will do, sometime. For example about a man who can’t pay his debt to me and the consequences he has to pay, his wife for a weekend.

Another, hopefully amusing as well, about a lady who goes to something like and meets the people running it. They agree to have her for a day to tie ...


1 Comments, 339 Views, 16 Votes ,6.66 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join.   5/9/2012

please join and enjoy....


1 Comments, 65 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sosexy38 40 F
2 Articles
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New to this   4/28/2012

Hi I'm new to this life and i got my first slave I'm looking for some help i don't what I'm doing having trouble controlling him so i ask all the doms & subs out there to share there know how with me


2 Comments, 148 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Black Air   11/4/2011

Aaron Seagull placed the Guidance Control Helmet on Senator Arrowbrim Recovering Alcoholic wife’s head an d Began to Butt Fuck her with his 18b inch Black Dick in his private Helicopter out in the Pacific Ocean out from its home base in Malabo looking at the Cashier’s check in his pocket with a golden Smile from his capped teeth in the Early week of her release from Phoenix Treatment Center


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Blood is thicker then water   10/8/2011

Bonnie and Roger sat next door watching a hidden camera as Gerard was running around looking for his bank card that Bonnie stole, as she gave her brother a deep throat to his pubic hair, he chuckled and handed her a tray with ten filled syringes of coke, they traded places and he began is muff dive as he eyed her twisting her hand just as Gerard hand twisted and he burned his finger on the fry ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
True Police Story   10/4/2011

Mrs. Jones and Mr. Grumpy were married because of Dad’s Shot Gun; he was an outlaw farm boy football hero that could drink the best man under the table, but got his pregnant and had no choice. She was Miss Darling, the pick teaser of the Cheerleaders and a coke head from the grave living dead, but she sure was pretty to look at. He worked his ass off all day long for meat and potatoes and ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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City Nights   9/30/2011

Mike O’Dea told Gloria to put on her mini skirt and Stiletto high heels and take off her panties and met at the apartment house staircase at the fire door to the roof, she obeyed. He told her not to turn around as he lifted her dress and not make any noise Mrs. Sullivan was taking out the trash as he slid it on in. "Night Life"

When the evenin' sun goes down You will find me hangin' ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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My Life is the Night Life   9/11/2011

Night Life Well, you can tell by the way I use my walk I'm a woman's man no time to talk Music loud and women warm I've been kicked around, since I was born And now it's all right, it's okay And you may look the other way We can try to understand The New York times' effect on man Whether you're a brother or whether you're a mother You're stayin' alive, stayin' alive Feel the city breakin' and ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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New Gay Men   8/13/2011

Rainbow Power Today with the male homosexuality so out of the closet so to speak, the Adulteress affair might sound something like this. Hello Jim, is Carol gone to work yet? Susan left for her Seminar in the Bahamas, come on over you big Burt and bring that polish you got in your basket upright and ready, my asshole is quivering.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Old Nevada   8/2/2011

Sheriff Burt Hanson, got the boys together, Mitch, Gush, Don, Mike, and John, the best dam Deputies he ever had. He explained his plan. Well men he said, this town is really getting kind of dull, and town folk here all been itching for a good hanging. There is this real smart ass rich boy from Kansas City, Missouri, his daddy is big time banker into the railroad, running for office. He’s done ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Police Business   5/20/2011

Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? Hangs up Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? Hangs up Period of prolonged heavy breathing Hello, Hello, Hello, is anybody there? This is Sgt Sadanko, “You have won the contest for most nonemergency 911 Calls made.” What was the breathing all about? Oh that’s just my Massif, ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Ben_Leads 59 M
1 Article
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Sensitive Dom?   4/6/2011

Hi and thanks for reading! Maybe you can help me? When I look at how I treat my "Toy" it feels like I am to kind... I enjoy the ideation of them being helpless and at my mercy! I enjoy satisfying their needs above my own.

Always believed that a "Sub" is the one that has the real power! Do you agree? They say how far they will go and when to stop!

What I am getting at is I feel ...


2 Comments, 178 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Return of TJ Bonobo   3/11/2011

Planet Fart Revised

The Revenge of Bam-Bam, was a never ending battle of fighting Black Panthera’s one after another who appear whenever the Goddess Perk-a-Dama got mad, and she hiked up all her little gay fruit juice drinks into insanity to agitate everyone all the time, it seems that he didn’t really get circumcised, and the government lied, and so did the military, seems like ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Cooking at Home   2/5/2011

Cooking Honey incest is best! Roll your own and kept it in the family. A family that sleeps together stays together! Blood is thicker than water! Trust the ones you love, and the only ones you can trust are your family! Stick together forever and you’ll always have each it other; they only have themselves! Honey, did mommy leave to go shopping? Yes Daddy! Good, go put on the new red dress I ...


2 Comments, 104 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
toiletslave0124 68 M
1 Article
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Safe Meetings   6/2/2010

The reason for the success of this site is that it allows people with 'alternate' sexuality to meet and get to know each other, literally across the seven seas. However, there is an inherent danger and that is that unlike people we meet in daily life, friends of friends and fellow workers there is no guarantee that the person will be as they present themselves...

How then do we meet Alt ...


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oscarthegrouch3 49 M
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QUALITIES OF A DOMINANT FROM A SUBS VIEW   4/21/2010

When choosing to gift your submission, what is the thing you look for above all else, if you had a top ten of traits, qualities you look for, what would be your number 1?


4 Comments, 417 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
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QUALITIES OF A SUB FROM A DOMINANTS VIEW   4/21/2010

When choosing a sub, what would be your wish list, if you had a top ten of qualities, traits which would endear a sub to you, what would you choose, what do you look for, is it personality, lack of perhaps, inteligence, looks?

What is the number 1 thing you look for?


4 Comments, 312 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
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Beginning A New Relationship   10/5/2009

Gosh, it doesn't get more unstable than this. You feel sick, you can't eat, you don't know what you are thinking and feeling, but you are thinking excessively. You feel happy, you feel sad, you feel unsettled, you worry, you are ecstatic. You want to panic and wish you had said no. What's happening to you? You are in your first four weeks of dating someone.

The first thing that can ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
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Dating Etiquette and Rules to Follow   10/5/2009

* Dating should always be fun, and it's as much your responsibility as it is your partner's to ensure that it is. When you're dating, make sure you do everything you can to make the time you spend together enjoyable.

* Eye contact is crucial, and it's good etiquette to give your date as much of your attention as possible. They should feel like they are the only person in the room. ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
s1nfullynaughty 41 M
2 Articles
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The most important quality..   7/12/2009

As I have come to realize, there is one quality out there that is more important than all the other ones.. ESPECIALLY in this lifestyle..

I would suggest everyone try and get up to speed with this, as it will create a more comfortable, trusting, and exciting dynamic!

NEVER JUDGE!

Also, make it clear from the start that you don't judge people, and you'll be surprised ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
slave_david3 55 M
1 Article
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Learning to serve: the real life slave   6/15/2009

Having experienced serving many Mistresses over the last 5 years, a yearning grew in me to be a real life slave to a Mistress. I would think about this constantly, and the more a fantasized about the prospect, the more profound my yearning became. In fact, it became an obsession. The thought or being truly owned, both body and mind, the idea of giving total and absolute obedience in total ...


3 Comments, 206 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
agoodslave4 53 M
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Getting your wife to lead   4/17/2009

Many times my wife and I have tried and failed to initiate a D/s relationship. I always knew she was capable of being a female dominant, based on the early years of our relationship, but only now do I realized where I made errors.

I should never have written contracts with so many rules and details. It's like starting at 60 mph. Even though we both signed each time we tried, the ...


1 Comments, 174 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
quedog2subpurr 70 C
1 Article
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Married & D/s   3/1/2009

Reading many clips on lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage & D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such would hinder O/ones role and performance.

...


5 Comments, 127 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
gqgreeneyez 39 M
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How I view Serious M/s Relationships   10/20/2008

You will also find this on my profile as it would help a perspective slave gain an understanding of my views of the M/s relationship.

I have had a couple FTPE (full time power exchange) relationships that were really more my thing although I enjoy a "bedroom only" M/s relationship too, I like the structure it provides... What turns me on about it is: the total power over someone else, ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
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Twisted banter..   9/30/2008

We A/all know communication is the key to any type of relationship. So here's an example of how it works within a humiliation one, for those of you who don't already know..

Communicating with worthless pigs. As we all know, stupid slut females love to talk but are often very poor listeners. Teaching the cunts effective and respectful communication techniques should be the cornerstone of ...


7 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
subredcbrm 45 F
3 Articles
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave   8/7/2008

It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it is a million small touches, a million small submissions, a constantly evovling gift between two people that for me looks like this.

i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla, what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day to day. So here it is.

5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...


9 Comments, 577 Views, 24 Votes ,5.86 Score
acura25 44 T
1 Article
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Is it me?   6/21/2008

Every where I read are success stories but when I try to contact some one I do not get a response ? How do you get someone to notice you...How ever I was not interested in , i send out a one liner polite answer. Is it not the write thing to be honest or what ???


5 Comments, 147 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
5 Articles
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Building a Relationship through Humiliation   6/15/2008

Humiliation has many purposes in the training of a slave. One of the major reasons for using humiliation is to force the slave to push the "choice decision" she has made to obey her Master/Mistress and be subject to his/her will. It forces her to realize how deeply this decision is and how obedience is not always easy. This provides positive reinforcement.

Humiliation can have a positive ...


1 Comments, 375 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
AJW1 55 M
5 Articles
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Slavery and Servitude   6/3/2008

Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their Master and after that the slave should have two choices obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg, and ...


2 Comments, 169 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
kad20072 43 M
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3 Simple Things that Men Wished All Women Knew   4/9/2008

1. Men are more sensitive than many people realize.

What most people don’t believe is that men are indeed more sensitive; they have harder time coping with break-ups than women do. Men are not biologically designed to have the full capacity of processing feelings like their female counterpart. Being this is the case, men tend to have a hard shell around their heart that keeps them from ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
salisburycpl2 38 C
1 Article
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new to this   3/31/2008

hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses salisburycpl2...


6 Comments, 117 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
14 Articles
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On relationships...   3/19/2008

Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same, and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change completely means that at some inner ...


1 Comments, 133 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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Why dominants need welts, too!   3/19/2008

I recently read about a dominant who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist that they are not a "Real Dominant."





*shudder*

I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse to bottom.



Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant ever switch?



In a ...


2 Comments, 128 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
steelbreezz2 69 M
12 Articles
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Finding "The One"   3/16/2008

I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine- women only interested in finding "The One".

Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise, won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't be deemed immediately "The One".

Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.

Finding ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
youngdutty88 35 M
2 Articles
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getting back with an ex   2/11/2008

i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far. i need help. any suggestions


1 Comments, 66 Views, 0 Votes
MasterDFs 72 M
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The corner stones.   2/9/2008

I know that W/we A/all want to put the most wanted things out there to make U/us more wanted.But the first corner stone is to be honest.If that does not seem to be the best light to be seen in, readjust your focus.If you find the O/one you want and T/they find you, then T/they find it is a lie, Y/you will loose T/them!Another corner stone is dedication.To get what Y/you want may be easy, but ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
mischiefangel 64 F
1 Article
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers   1/29/2008

Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter Covers.....

We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our destiny?

...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
LilHotSexy1 59 C
1 Article
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Out With Old In With New???   1/28/2008

I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much. He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting & calling both mom & & not telling me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this, but is it right ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
ColneaJoans 67 F
1 Article
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man   10/23/2007

I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle of getting a dominant lady to notice them.

Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups" on alt so that you know how to write something that might be ...


4 Comments, 524 Views, 20 Votes ,5.04 Score
MsLise 53 F
3 Articles
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Lay down Ground Rules   10/17/2007

You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume someone knows something ...but it in black and white and you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...


6 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
GoddessKell 55 F
3 Articles
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Online Relationships   10/13/2007

Do online relationship really progress to reality?

In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online. Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women, but no man has captured my time and attention enough for me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.

Do you think its because once ...


4 Comments, 218 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
TheVampmaster 56 M
2 Articles
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Understanding   7/6/2007

While building up a relationship it's very important to take two features into consideration.

1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he tends to either ignore the woman, or ...



0 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
louonkneels4u 84 M
3 Articles
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Belated Birthday Surprise   6/29/2007

Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle me on it and now it seems I have been ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
zennflower 61 F
10 Articles
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Aftercare...Why is it so important?   6/27/2007

zennflowerAftercare is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's more than just play, more than just scening that the ...


13 Comments, 801 Views, 64 Votes ,8.01 Score
ShogunMaster 67 M
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On Trust & Faith   6/14/2007

As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog On Trust Faith. Read on!

I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly raved essays that sounded great with all the right words and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones of this ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
ShogunMaster 67 M
4 Articles
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How Well Do You Listen To You?   6/14/2007

How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay attention to your "gut instincts"? How well do you take action based on this information?

These gut instincts were originally named as the information comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.

We'd like to believe that what someone tells about themselves to be true. ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
NoBDSMBS 59 M
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner   4/14/2007

I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave situation. ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
jamunaa 42 F
1 Article
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FUN AND FUCK   3/28/2007

HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...


4 Comments, 494 Views, 26 Votes ,1.41 Score
maxi130 47 M
2 Articles
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what do you think about...?   3/1/2007

When you are on this website, do you think it is a good way to know people and exchange with, anything you want to exchange? Do you think it's the same way in all countries, or do you think there is some differences according with cultures and way of life in specific countries? Finally do you succeed to have good relationships, virtual or real, even shorts but good, or would you say about it ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
cccc04 45 C
3 Articles
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my take on building a relationship   2/16/2007

be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to think about if there the perfect one because you need all the time you can get making it the perfect one


1 Comments, 92 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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I don't understand...   2/1/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


2 Comments, 460 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
BoyC 42 M
4 Articles
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Building a relationship   1/27/2007

When you want to build a relationship, first off, make sure you are truly in love with the person. Don't confuse love with a passing, temporary infatuation. Spend some good, quality time with that person. Notice how often you two have sex with each other. If after a year or two, the sex is still great, then go for it. If not, then it's time to call it quits before someone's feelings get ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
master_pharoh 51 C
24 Articles
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You Cant Go Home Again -- Or Can you?   1/13/2007

Thomas Wolfe’s critically acclaimed novel, You Can’t Go Home Again, was published in 1940. The novel chronicles a man’s search for himself and centers on the theme that you cannot recover the past. This novel came to my mind when I began reading a book entitled Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally Really Grow Up by James Hollis (2005).
Wolfe’s novel ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
SlaveSeeker_1
26 Articles
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How Can I Tell IF It Is Abuse? (for the newbie)   12/22/2006

Simply said. . . If It Is Not CONSENSUAL it is NOT BDSM --------------------------------------------- Here is a short checklist that can help you determine if you or someone is being abused.
Is it Consensual?
Is your partner in CONTROL of hirself?
Does your partner REFRAIN from Hitting you in anger?
...


0 Comments, 283 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
flanky1000 53 M
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Master and slave   12/20/2006

I was after her beauty, and she conceived beauty in pretty romantic terms.We might be inclined to laugh at the extravagance of his beauty worship if there were not something almost magnificent in his single minded dedication to it.


0 Comments, 229 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Downtown2006 42 M
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Proper Speech Equitete   12/13/2006

When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should act? Or should I just be ...


0 Comments, 297 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
DarkDesiresNYC 56 C
2 Articles
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s   12/12/2006

Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master and the submissive as slave). However, most service is task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...


2 Comments, 604 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
mohar10 44 M
4 Articles
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The Only True Aphrodisiac   12/9/2006

We humans like the idea of spontaneity in our romantic relationships, we look for drugs and other agents that may help stimulate sexual desire, but love is a rebel bird that nobody can ever tame and lust is a fickle mistress not well understood.
We have seen considerable interest in using chemical communication based on human pheromones to help stimulate sexual desire, just like ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score
notwhatiseem72 51 F
1 Article
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Meeting that first one...   12/6/2006

Sometimes when you least expect it, someone new comes in to your life and introduces things you had never dreamed of.
For me that was BDSM. It was the start of a new year and he was someone I would not have looked at twice. It started with 100 texts a day but then when I tried to sustain that a few months later, I was "clingy!" ... so I moved on. But somehow it changed me. It ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
powerdemon666 52 M
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No toes left   11/29/2006

Think i keep shooting myself in the foot by being to open and honest about what i want as most "doms" just read the profile of a sub and say "hay guess what i like what you like".I am so sick of the fakes on here, you can talk to a sub for a month but when you come to meet up there always a problem!(i hear its just as bad for subs looking for doms, they get told they are going to get used ...


0 Comments, 293 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
fireflymaster 69 M
1 Article
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Gaining the trust of first timer submissives   11/27/2006

I sincerely think that there are a number of so called Doms that never listen to a submissives needs. No joking, to build up trust is the first priority, then you can extend limits, introduce new ideas. Whenever I have a newbie submissive I explain what I intend to do and ask if there is anything that they are unhappy about. If there is we discuss it, if necessary modify the idea. ...


1 Comments, 378 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
MsPierced 50 F
3 Articles
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What it Means to be a slave   11/14/2006

I may have a different definition of a slave than most so I will explain that first. For Me, a slave is not someone who gives up their rights as human beings. A slave is someone that in many ways must be just as strong as their Dominant. Case in point. At a run, a Dominant may want to stay out late and play and may not have eaten. The slave must be the one who makes sure the Dominant ...


0 Comments, 419 Views, 25 Votes ,7.45 Score
MsPierced 50 F
3 Articles
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What it Means to be a Ma'am   11/14/2006

"Ma'am, all I want to do is be of service to You." Sounds familiar, doesn't it? But the real surprise to most people is that, in many ways, the Ma'am is in service to Her property. This contradiction in terms is the cornerstone of being a Dominant. I will be discussing Lifestyle, 24/7 Dominance and submission. These concepts don't necessarily apply to all situations or relationships, ...


3 Comments, 336 Views, 28 Votes ,7.86 Score
lillymax001 45 C
2 Articles
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trust   11/14/2006

i have given this some thought, and still havent come up with the right answer. Is there an right answer?? How do you let your gaurd down to trust someone? You hear of bad things happening all the time and that scares me, we play in a world that can be scary, but i think thats the fun of it. But can it be taken too far?


3 Comments, 125 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
colette77 46 F
10 Articles
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How soon is too soon?   10/21/2006

Do you think that you should give up everything all at once or space it over a period of time? I've thought about this from time to time. I'm an honest person really so I dont lie all you have to do is ask? So not letting someone know something about you seems decietfully almost. Not that you should give complete strangers your whole life story, but if you really think that this person is ...


5 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
colette77 46 F
10 Articles
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Are Harems Okay   10/17/2006

Ive been wondering if people think that having many subs is okay? My Master has his little harem, I call them since I dont include myself personally in with them. Is that wrong...? im the jealous type so it took some getting used to. But I finally gave over control of those issues to him and asked what I needed and now I feel better....


5 Comments, 237 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
zennflower 61 F
10 Articles
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Sub Drop-a very real phenomena   10/13/2006

"Sub-Drop" Over my experiences in the lifestyle it has never ceased to amaze and frustrate me how many people understand what 'sub-space' is, but have no idea what 'sub-drop' is. The truth of the matter is I discovered what it was by experiencing it, and asking for help. I was asked if I was experiencing 'sub-drop' and after a long discussion I was both relieved and worried, to admit ...


18 Comments, 953 Views, 68 Votes ,8.87 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
11 Articles
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Sleep Deprivation training , a view on the STORY OF " O"   9/29/2006

this is a pat 2 of an explroration of "o"

Well how do you do it and why , depriving someone of sleep REMEMBER THIS IS A CONSENTING ACTIVITY .... NEXT I do not recomend doing this , i am fiction writer .. so do not fucking sue me ..you stupid motherfuckers!


If done totally for like 4 days a person enters a pyshcoes , so do not fucking do that .. this shit ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
papabear_1969 55 M
1 Article
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Looking For Info   9/22/2006

I am looking for consent forms, or anything of the sort. Trying to find forms and documents to havemy sub complete to see what she is willing to submit too and what she isn't. Still new at this and I haven't built up my library of knowledge yet. If you have any please help me.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 0 Votes
MasterSpankerSW 74 M
1 Article
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Trust and Safety   9/21/2006

Knowledge and safety in all areas cannot be emphasized enough.
Knowing yourself, both as a top/dom and as a sub/bottom is so important, as is learning about knowing and understanding your partner. I feel that one of the best ways to learn and teach is by open communication, offering examples and sharing experiences.
Here is an experience I had.
An example of ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Simplyalbertaman 71 M
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Mind Over Matter   9/18/2006

SO YOU'RE LOOKING ..... Aren't we all and do we ever stop looking???? Ya right, lie to yourself if ya want but we all know the search never ends. We look because we can and we always carry that curiosity itch. Primary to our search is to find that person or people that blend into what satisfies us, our needs, our desires. Some times that's found in pleasing them or pleasing you or pleasing ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
GIVESandTAKES4 74 M
10 Articles
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My last business trip   9/12/2006

I checked into a hotel on a business trip and was a bit lonely so I thought I'd get me one of those girls you see advertised in phone booths when your calling for a cab.



I grabbed a card on my way in. It was an ad for a girl calling herself Erogonique, a lovely girl, bending over in the photo.



She had all the right ...


0 Comments, 963 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
blisst 57 M
3 Articles
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going nowhere   9/9/2006

Hello .Iam finding it very difficult to get any response from any of the women on this site.Its very frustrating.Im a very shy type of person and find it difficult to express my sexual fantasies.I know im anonymous, which makes it easier.I want to explore and have fun but im just a loser.I obviously am ugly or unsuitable for some reason.Being a loner isnt easy for me. I want to be ruled ...


3 Comments, 174 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
11 Articles
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She is MY cunt !!   8/30/2006

She is my cunt


Look at the animal world , males battle each other to insure their sperm lives ! now females go to be protected by a strong male that has more than one female , in fact the scent of woman attracts females .
I had divorce court today , first time I have really seen my adorable lil 25 year old future ex wife in a year ..( dam this case ...


2 Comments, 256 Views, 7 Votes
Man_Bear25 44 M
7 Articles
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What do you think?   8/29/2006

To what I beleive about relationships I consider the experimentation to be an excitement, part of the entire me and you forever thing. But many guys as well as girls are affraid to let go even in a safe secure environment. Some guys are affraid to be called freaks, weird, homo(nothing personal), and every other word that might hurt their manhoods. Women in the other hand the only hting ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 0 Votes
londonlad35 52 M
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tough someitmes in london   8/23/2006

I have of late why i know not lost all my mirth and indeed it goes so heavily with my disposition why those who desire a certain aspect of life suddenly forget that desire when faced with the possibility of fufilling it. It apparently becomes too much of a risk to their cosy life to extend beyond the boundries of what they have been used to and are content to continue in their normal ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
jre1997 44 M
1 Article
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How can you build a succesfull relationship starting with a computer?   7/24/2006

Is it even possible? How can you get away with it when some of the people you meet are married and want a discreet relationship? Sex only is good if you know that going in but not if you don't and are expecting something else entirely. I guess I'm just not good at weeding out what I don't want yet.


6 Comments, 169 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
GoddessKell 55 F
3 Articles
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TRUST, HONEST and INTEGRITY....   7/15/2006


Since I have been active in this lifestyle (8yrs) I have learned 3 important lessons in this wonderful lifestyle of BDSM and D.s; they are TRUST, HONESTY and INTEGRITY. I want to share this with anyone who will take the time to read what I have myself learned.
TRUST is an essential requirement in establishing a BDSM and ...


5 Comments, 336 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
FatDickTop 59 M
4 Articles
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“Life as a bottoms’ top”   7/13/2006

Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling. I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do not enjoy the same at ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
MistressDior 56 F
7 Articles
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Lying submissives   6/23/2006

Submissive men sometimes lie to Mistress. This happens when they want to present themselves as more submissive than they are. Should a Mistress dismiss a liar? I think, she could give him a chance to prove himself prior to dismissal. Set him a difficult task, do not forgive a liar easily.


1 Comments, 139 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
MistressDior 56 F
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Being a Mistress   6/23/2006

A Mistress should understand that the submissive will try to "test" her, like a would do to a master. Be firm, and use the "hot stove" principle: every time the hot stove is touched, it burns the hand that touched it (ie every time a submissive is out of line, Mistress punishes him). Of course, the punishments should match the crime


0 Comments, 128 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Carl86 37 M
2 Articles
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Too much information too soon?   6/16/2006

Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully about anything you ask with little to no forethought about the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think. But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little too much when it comes to ...


4 Comments, 238 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
GoldMan234 52 M
6 Articles
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How can you be sure about the other?   5/22/2006

I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not know anything about what they are into. So here is my question; If they are not being true to the other half and telling them nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust what they are saying to you as ...


1 Comments, 192 Views, 0 Votes
GoldMan234 52 M
6 Articles
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How does a Dom decide when it is time to collar a sub?   5/22/2006

I am new more to the Dom side I have been chatting and getting to know a sub very well....I want to approach and collar her. My question is how do you know when the time is right? How do I know she is ready to be collared by me and that is what she is looking for?


0 Comments, 149 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
9inchblackhorse 41 M
2 Articles
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more)   5/19/2006

I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend... what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both are in love for about a year now... we both get along very well and we understand each other perfectly... And most of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY COMPLICATED ...


4 Comments, 164 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
teepot2000 44 M
1 Article
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T-Girls   5/5/2006

Hello to all...
Im in search of sexy T-Girls that looking to be with one guy. My past experiences with them have be so -so. I guess because they get so much attention...it's hard for them to be with one guy. But, you know what? I'm not going to sterotype all of them...so this is my message to the world. If there is a sexy T-Girl out there who wants a ...


0 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
anenigmale 61 M
5 Articles
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Collars and Getting Over   5/5/2006

As I cruise thru this li'l playpen that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating, and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing.. I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive the other night, and thought that the overall ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
monaangel 61 F
16 Articles
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Master Takes Me to Santuary   4/29/2006

My Master has taken me to Sanctuary in Dallas and I enjoyed my self emensely.But boo hoo I was only there to observe others and didn't get a chance to receive my proper spankings or get tied up.Well he did make up for it when he brought me home and showed me how wicked and good he could be.The ideas I got from visiting Sanctuary were numerous, Someone took a lot of spankings and Yes the ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Mischievous3 48 C
1 Article
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Hard to find someone serious....   4/28/2006

Me and Mt pet has been looking for a possable live in. We have joined many of the groups for our location, have tried talking with many possabilities. We keep running into the same problem, someone says they are involved and or looking to learn. Then we start talking and thats all it is is talk, We havent found to many people actually aactive or serious in the kind of commitment We are ...


3 Comments, 97 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Help needed...   3/30/2006

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about. So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation and with that came the ...


7 Comments, 798 Views, 29 Votes ,5.95 Score
bubaby6 54 F
58 Articles
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COMPATIBILITY   3/29/2006

The Ultimate Union cannot be achieved without two compatible souls - one dominant by his nature and his desire and one submissive by his nature and his desire. These two people will have a powerful motivator that sends them, from different directions, toward the same goal. That goal is to find a person who will love them more than any other could or would. Love? Yeah, love! It is the cement ...


0 Comments, 128 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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alternative lifestyle relationship   3/29/2006

Stable alternative relationship starts with understanding the needs/desires of each other, and no… this is never easy…
There are several aspects that need to be discussed, you have to allow for the real world and others who are in that world who are not giving their consent… for example if you are going to the supermarket most do not want to see Master and slave, they want to ...


0 Comments, 157 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
Trip_RockCity 40 T
2 Articles
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First Kinky Experience with some one new   3/19/2006

The best thing for this is to both get drunk and say listen i like .... and not be shy...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
onlyhands 72 M
1 Article
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Finally Getting A Spanking   3/17/2006

Dear Diary, Today was the day I met my dom. I had been wondering a long time what it would be like, and here I am going to find out. I am Chris Columbus on his way to a new world. He seems kind of stern. I was told how to dress, and especially on my underwear. Nothing grown up, you spoiled, willful brat, he said. So here I am in a knit shirt that barely goes below my navel, ...


0 Comments, 204 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
justsomeone_29 50 M
2 Articles
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :)   3/5/2006

Hi What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please share.


1 Comments, 149 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
MMasterMMM 70 M
1 Article
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North Coast CA Masters & slaves   2/3/2006

People living the Master/slave lifestyle benefit greatly by communication with others in the same lifestyle. The needs and concerns are quite different than those in the D/s or M/s lifestyle, although there is definitely some overlap. <br> There is a National Organization called MAST--Masters And slaves Together--that seeks to facilitate this communication. There is a chapter in ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
BobWRuns 73 M
3 Articles
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male   1/31/2006

Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 1/29/06 <br> This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may take and ...


3 Comments, 910 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score
servant2u40 61 M
10 Articles
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A girl told me   1/29/2006

Sucking her finger as told she just pulled from her asshole means, so your into me we will continue on.


0 Comments, 227 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
masterzad 40 M
5 Articles
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Relationships   1/27/2006

99% of relationships are based on lies


0 Comments, 157 Views, 11 Votes
m9by7 54 M
1 Article
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Training and developing subs tips   1/20/2006

Most people consider others in a cookie cutter fashion, however in a Dom/Sub relationship there are a lot of areas that need to be identified. <br> 1. Does your Sub want to be obedient all the time, in the bedroom or just from time to time. <br> Example. I have had subs who want to be in it all the time at first, then only when we are together, then finally only in the ...


0 Comments, 458 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
Damage_Case 39 M
7 Articles
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nice and slow   1/10/2006

Was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. My first marraige was kind of one of those love at first site things. Now divorced I find myself extremely picky. That typical anyone?


0 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
domcouple11 50 C
12 Articles
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DOMCOUPLE   1/8/2006

YOU SCREEN MY PLEASURE )!


0 Comments, 198 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
bdsmnn 53 M
18 Articles
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nice   1/8/2006

Nice nad beauty!


1 Comments, 157 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
New_And_Curious2 56 C
1 Article
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Butt Play? What's That?   1/4/2006

I met my husband five years ago. The first time I laid eyes on him, I knew I wanted him. The night I first went to his house, my intention (and I'm pretty sure his) was merely a one-night stand. Or maybe friends with benefits. <br> The first night was filled with fireworks. The moment he touched me, I felt electricity run through my veins. It was the best sex I had ever had. ...


0 Comments, 484 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
servant2u40 61 M
10 Articles
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The first step is completey up front and clear on your wish.   12/30/2005

A femdom private life relationship is what most seek.and at extreme femdom level top dollar, at firt but regulars should get discont.On line or in person if she is very willing to take you as descibed, start a new relatioship.


0 Comments, 186 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
NathaninDC 75 M
5 Articles
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories   12/2/2005

come by and visit


1 Comments, 132 Views, 2 Votes
SuperMandingo 39 M
10 Articles
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A healthy relationship= change   11/7/2005

A relationship is two people eliciting responses from each other. If you want a change in response, then you must change your own actions.


0 Comments, 95 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Masterandme2005 51 C
1 Article
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My first meeting with Master   10/23/2005

My first meeting with Master was a meeting I will never forget. I was excited that he would meet with me and nervous as to what to excpect. I am very new to this and wasn't quite sure what I wanted. I did know that I couldn't wait to meet him. We met at a public place and talked for what seemed like hours. I felt comfortable but yet knew I was being inspected to see if I was worthy of his ...


0 Comments, 544 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
DRGINGER 72 M
2 Articles
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False Starts   9/28/2005

I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration. I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple. That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship first, which I always like to do before plunging into more physical events. In my first ...


1 Comments, 300 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
BobWRuns 73 M
3 Articles
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Guide to Establishing Dominance   9/10/2005

Guide to Establishing Dominance 9/10/05 To be an Owner, you have to establish and maintain your authority or dominance as the Owner and the slave's recognition that they are a slave to you, their Owner. Rarely are you in a committed Owner/slave relationship at the beginning of the relationship with your desired slave. And, you will probably never get your slave without ...


4 Comments, 2659 Views, 122 Votes ,3.49 Score
JTMRP2 54 M
16 Articles
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ASS TRAINING (part 2)   9/10/2005

HIGH HEEL's <br> High Heel shoes are a must for anal devotees on special occassions.......because they speak of anal servitude and being a butt themselves. They increase the erotic nature of the femine submissive form- and arouse in male'es feelings of favor and admiration. Like chiderall'es slipper- once a women puts on high -heels she feels like a queen-----a queen of sexual ...


0 Comments, 378 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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What i have always known and yet it still got to me becareful   9/1/2005

My goodness you would think by looking at my profile and as long as i have been a slave if anyone in this world would know better it would be me. Yet here i am being a dummy and telling anyone who reads this becareful as you can get sucked in and not realize it and all of the sudden you end up with being in a very bad spot in your life. i can't memtion any names but some of the people ...


3 Comments, 1085 Views, 36 Votes
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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Quiet vs talkative   8/23/2005

I have notice that most girls that stay to themselves are more active, when i say more active i mean when they find a man they can trust and feel comfortable around, she would show you a side of her that will outstand most forward girl!! think about it, just say you met this girl and shes real conservative and shy, you might start thinking that she might be boring in the bedroom!!! trust me ...


4 Comments, 171 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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Size matter for women too!!!   8/23/2005

Each woman has a position and a angle which penetration would drive her crazy, but i have also learned that depending on the size and height of a woman that a certain position would make her climax even faster and you know the rest.....this is a FACT


0 Comments, 171 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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I got tricked, how??? i don't know   8/23/2005

I known i haven't known you for a very long time, and i shouldn't be asking you for this so soon, but i need it badly, I haven't had it for a long time. I can already feel it going in good and hardanad coming out nice and soft, If you would do this for me no one would ever know. I am sure you can satisfy my needs, and i'd be very grateful if you would. I am very desperateand i need you ...


0 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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Don't put all your eggs in one BASKET!!!!!   8/23/2005

I learned that if your starting a relatinship with a woman, that its best not to give her all your attention or go out your way 100% for her. Woman have a way that at first they will appreciate all the sweet things you say to her and do for her, then later on when the relationship go on for a while, all the same sweet things you say and do for her would somehow make her feel suffocated ...


1 Comments, 128 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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stranger???   8/23/2005

I know that sex with a stranger is risky, but is it better because you don't need to wrry about your performance??? or that you can go all out and do everthing you want to do without being jugde??


0 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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The right path   8/23/2005

Trust, faith, honesty, I think those are the main three things to help keep a relationship alive. Once you have those three main things thats when you move on to doing things that bout you and your partner like doing to keep the relationship interesting and exciting, I think the main problem is ppl forget how simple it is to connect to someone, that they overlook doing small things ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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What in Earth is a Pure Trust slave Realtionship w/his(er)Owner   8/21/2005

i never heard of no limits until maybe 10 or 12 years aod to be honest. i have found (3) different Dominate Females and all True Dominats's those i think who where born with an extra gene as i was and is why i am as submissive as i am although i am afriad they did not realize at the time i was who i am and they where who they are.So even though i begged all of them to come and claim me ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
JTMRP2 54 M
16 Articles
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PREPARATION FOR THE SLAVE ASS   8/19/2005

To trian a slave ass takes a lot. First one must be willing to do the job.............every ass starts out-- OK- "I, m a ass"....but to be prefected each ass must undergo- specialized training. In order to accomplish slave training the master must be prepared to take the steps, bare the expense and work diligently to accomplish his or her goals.


2 Comments, 323 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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This is Part II of my life Story with how i became a slave   8/17/2005

First i send the warmest of my hug's to males or females Dominate or submissive with the hope it light your path and help you find not only what you search for but what your heart searchs for as well to those who where kind enough to take the time and read part one of how i became a slave. i would really like to thank those of you who took the time to vote as it is only because of this i am ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
lavo1999 37 M
3 Articles
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how do you do it?   8/14/2005

i need to find out how to build up a sucsessful sub/dom relationship! its so annoying all i want to do it to b abused and used in so many ways and its justnot happening:'( how do you do it? please tell me........:'(


0 Comments, 227 Views, 0 Votes
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend   8/10/2005

i guess all relationships start at some point or another but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9 or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife. So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand i have changed names and places as ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
lookupinme 52 F
1 Article
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what is happening ?   8/9/2005

As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up in the new excietment of this life style ...


2 Comments, 332 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
WhoWillWhipMy 51 M
1 Article
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!!   8/6/2005

I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful with what I show and do online, and also really look into a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past this point and however long it had taken ...


1 Comments, 285 Views, 0 Votes
man4alltakers 40 M
3 Articles
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what to do   8/4/2005

i found someone who lives far away. Should I move away?


0 Comments, 53 Views, 0 Votes
Angelus2814 38 M
1 Article
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Big surprise   7/29/2005

It all started at this party. We were all playing truth or dare; we were all having the time of our life. Now my friends all new that I’m straight and I have never backed down from a dare before. Any ways I was dared to suck on this girl’s breast and of course I did. After that I was a little hard then the girl I had just been sucking on dared the man right next to me to give the guy ...


0 Comments, 305 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Sunny_Mumbai 46 M
2 Articles
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The New Variety of Love and Relationship   7/11/2005

From ‘bed buddies’ to ‘polyamory’ I takes a look at the changing face of relationship in the 21st century. The rules of attraction have always been very simple; there are no rules. You can look for sex through love, love through sex, neither, either/or – and still end up miserable, frustrated or heartbroken. So, in fact it wasn’t surprising to find that ‘Where is the ...


0 Comments, 462 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10 Articles
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across the ocean   7/8/2005

I've made a rather special friend who wants me to vist her in the philipines some day. Nothing abnormal about it, but she wants to do that. What's your take on it? Is it a bad idea to go to a country on vacation as a request? I think it'd be nice to go and all, but it seems like a lot to do for a friend.


0 Comments, 130 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
bound_sweetness 65 F
2 Articles
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Looking for a good relationship   7/1/2005

Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what i think. What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive) not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting their own way in what is typically a ...


4 Comments, 673 Views, 44 Votes ,5.24 Score
behavenow2 53 F
3 Articles
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truth and nothing but the truth   6/23/2005

From life experience I can tell you that lies breed hate and mistrust so if anyone wants a relationship or marriage to last truth and nothing but the truth no matter what lie to me good-bye, tell me the truth and we will get by


1 Comments, 185 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
gentlerain44 65 F
2 Articles
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Training by Rob Hart   6/22/2005

"I want to be trained." <br> These are delightful words to hear. They show desire; they promise fun; and they speak of trust. But what does it mean to train a submissive? It is far more than instructing a submissive on the expectations of a particular Dominant, or making her a good "generic slave" (there being no such thing). It is also never a one-way flow of information or ...


3 Comments, 894 Views, 43 Votes ,8.83 Score
Lady_Aurora2005 72 F
1 Article
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Long Distance Relationships   5/31/2005

Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not having him with me. We never take our love for granted each time we spend together we jam a month ...


7 Comments, 1070 Views, 69 Votes ,7.23 Score
Glory4U 64 F
1 Article
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Several signs of poor doming   5/22/2005

So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other subs in separating the real Dom from the posers. <br> <br> 1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention of playing. <br> <br> 2. You agree to safe sane limits <br> <br> 3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from the ...


3 Comments, 1602 Views, 122 Votes ,5.12 Score
adorfemtryoutnas 48 M
1 Article
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Friend wants bi......   5/14/2005

I know this 24 year old girl who has some very strong bi-sexual pull. She luvs to masterbate watching girls go down on each other. Needs guidance but motivated. I would like to surprise her as a gift. I am not involved with her (5 yrs ago)- so you believe me when I would listen to her talk about girls and going down fantasies. I have some vid of her getting off to femonfem porn--HOT! ...


2 Comments, 219 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
DarkCarnival 54 C
5 Articles
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Problems with Mom..getting better   4/28/2005

When I met my bodyfiend It was the first time I had met someone from ALT. I told my parents I was going out to a friends for a couple of hours. I wasnt sure how they would react to my telling them "Hey MOM! Going to met some strange guy and have sex! Be home by 12! Bye!" I was only 19 and new to the world of BDSM. I figured my parents would rant and rave and call the police. But My ...


0 Comments, 1301 Views, 61 Votes ,3.38 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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How to explain subspace to another?   4/22/2005

In the begining the concept of subspace bewildered me, indeed verbally defining the concept was near impossible. It was almost like some secret club, everyone but me "got it". Books talked of it, but were vague in ways that books for a thirteen year old are when talking about kissing. People spoke of it as if they were all speaking of going someplace that all subs get to go... a sub heaven ...


3 Comments, 912 Views, 54 Votes ,6.74 Score
slutsJM 72 M
7 Articles
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I'm not an expert ...   4/2/2005

I don't really have a good track record ... it seems I trust those whom I shouldn't trust. I am very dominant, but I'm also sensitive and romantic. I have few limits sexually, but the ones I do have are very hard limits. One is trust. And in expecting trustworthiness, I also give it. I didn't come to BDSM, M/s, and D/s to see how many women I can conquer. One woman ... the right woman ...


0 Comments, 316 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
slavinnen 60 C
4 Articles
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Are feelings ruled by "old genes" ?   3/29/2005

Is the fact that humans, genetically, are animals... - still causing troubles for us, in building a relationship, in modern times ? <br> Is it so that many of the reactions we have, comes from an almost pre-historic instinct, and/or are genetically “decided” or “programmed” within us... - often without any of us understanding that this is what causes our ...


2 Comments, 393 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
slavinnen 60 C
4 Articles
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When feelings does not grow at same speed...   3/28/2005

Is it unusual that feelings does not come/grow at same speed in a BDSM-relationship ? <br> And is it so that it maybe comes faster/stronger from the submissive part, because of the need to involve feelings to be able to give him/her self to a dominant ? <br> I have experienced this some times during my life; as submissive, I NEED to have feelings for the one I do give ...


3 Comments, 474 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
slavinnen 60 C
4 Articles
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It takes time   3/28/2005

To build a relationship takes time in a "vanilla" relationship... - and maybe even more time in a BDSM-relationship, because there is even more elements that shall "fit". <br> I think it is importante to get to know (im my situation) the man, before I get to know the Master. No matter how strict you are planning to live the relationship, you are both humans, both peoples, ...


1 Comments, 778 Views, 37 Votes ,5.01 Score
Reese215 78 F
4 Articles
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The Bee Versus The Flower   3/24/2005

Still new to being a submissive, I am always looking for ways to understand my relationship to my Dom. While He is completely in charge outwardly, I feel at sometimes I am in charge inwardly. Not a powerful 'in charge, ' just a knowing within that I do have somewhat control of what I do and do not give. He knows that to receive unwillingly is both a waste of time and energy. My Dom, ...


0 Comments, 670 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
Skitzythefreak 39 F
1 Article
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Thank You Alt.com, For The Love Of My Life!!   3/23/2005

Greetings, My name is Ginger And I am 20 years old. For the last two years I have been waiting with fingers crossed for "Mr. Right." Well on the night of May 23rd 2004 I got a loving letter from a strange man. The title, "You could have it all, My Empire of Dirt." Being a strong fan of Music by Nine Inch Nails this gave me pause. I opened the letter and It was from a man I would learn to ...


1 Comments, 412 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
slutsJM 72 M
7 Articles
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Body, Mind and Soul ... are you really out there?   3/21/2005

It is interesting to me that though we are all here on Alt.com to seek that which is beyond what most in general society call "the Norm", in many ways, we seek what our vanilla friends seek, as well. We just choose to look for the edges and in some cases the extremes in expressing our feelings with one another. Most vanilla people want someone who cares about them; they want someone with ...


3 Comments, 630 Views, 20 Votes ,6.70 Score
MistressTara69 73 T
1 Article
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS?   3/19/2005

Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've just found that every member I ever met personallly, was at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/ <br> But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's emotions and hurts frankly. <br> ...


5 Comments, 1000 Views, 58 Votes ,5.05 Score
servant2u40 61 M
10 Articles
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Usually the next day   3/13/2005

I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school, after I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up by sitting on my face, telling ...


0 Comments, 2241 Views, 80 Votes ,0.07 Score
milkmyts 57 F
2 Articles
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Adult Nursing   3/10/2005

My very first experience with adult nursing happpened quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always had a thing for having them sucked). It ...


2 Comments, 2473 Views, 139 Votes ,5.64 Score
dajokerishuge 42 M
4 Articles
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What about smokers?   3/7/2005

Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......


0 Comments, 374 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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The Prime Directive   3/6/2005

In my trainings, I was given several unshakable rules. The first was the “Prime Directive”. (Yes, I suppose it is an amusing co-incidence that it is a phrase akin to the Starfleet core value, but as we know, so many perverts are geeks…!) <br> The prime directive in my D/s relationships is this: <br> “The (submissive / slave) has the duty to protect the (dominant ...


3 Comments, 2856 Views, 201 Votes ,6.81 Score
SirDeeVe8 83 M
2 Articles
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Baby Do you have A Hard Limit?   3/1/2005

Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol <br> Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me you should have it. Remember - anything ...


1 Comments, 370 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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knowing is not to abuse   2/27/2005

I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship & mentally abusive one? “ And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual… yes. The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome I am in the candy store and I want… <br> I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...


2 Comments, 269 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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does it work.. of course   2/17/2005

Jim (Dominant, melj) Wow It is the first time i have looked at the Mag section and I was shocked... <br> I can see so many lost soul's who for whatever reason seem to be in a pickle... negativity and lots of it... <br> RELATIONSHIPS There are many types of relationships in the alternative scene, none are wrong or right they are only what we need, if you want ...


3 Comments, 231 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
GoddessOfCruelty 47 F
1 Article
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Being in love and having slaves   2/15/2005

Is it possible for this to be mutually exclusive? <br> <br> I have a very dominant side, but I don't tend to express is to partners, as I feel it is seperate from the relationship. I'm happy with it being this way. <br> <br> Is it really possible to have the Mistress/Slave relationship intertwined and in a 'normal' partnership, and is it necessary, in ...


5 Comments, 444 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub, the response from the Dominant   2/6/2005

When I first saw you weeks back. I knew then I had to have you. The want and desire was strong. But not until I was within inches of you, feeling your heat radiating out, smelling the faint and underlying aroma of lust and need from you, was my control sorely tested as it has not been in so many years. While sitting talking to the people last night you passed and grazed your nails across my ...


0 Comments, 349 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub   2/6/2005

I sat here last night, thinking, always thinking, about what would happen if you, or I lost control and started to explore... Being that I crave your touch so badly, and you crave touching me so badly, beyond, for both of us, the comfortable yet tragically torturous yet.... So much needed caresses, mostly in passing or out of the habit of just what felt right at the time...But I so ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
AcidSpikes 37 M
3 Articles
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question   2/1/2005

is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff and she liked doing that well i found out that she started to get it some where else so ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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"SANTA!^^I'M PREGNANT^^!"   1/25/2005

SANTA{DATELINE]PREGNANT?Dont.blameMe SNOW-WHITE;SANTA I'm still 5'-8" I was.118#(size 3 or 5)andwore, tight fitting jeans and.miniskirts. Now I weigh 163#(size 12 or 14), I've accepted my new figure but, my husband, Prince Charming hasn't. He continues to buy me expemive clothes (size 5), telling me to set them aside untl I can fit in them agan. Can I get my husband and ...


0 Comments, 144 Views, 3 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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SANTA;#1-LOOKOUT^SLAYAGE.TV(BuffyVamp.Slayerwebsite)   1/24/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Stake^TheUndead"Buffy SECRETSANTA;Rhonda Wilcoxis.finding out what is behind Buffy's Vampire' Sayer's Punch! "I was there from the first season , the name was goofy, it had to be really good or horrible, "said Rhonda , a professor of English at Gordon college in Geeorgia. The show.was.created.by.JossWhedon, and began ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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"SANTA'S.HIDEAWAY.USE.TO.BE.CASTLEDRACULA?"   1/23/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]FORRENT.DRAC.HIDEAWAY Nestled deep in the scenic heartof a Transylvania setting. All rooms have CountDrac.-sized beds. Room service is an extra monthly charge, with hot and cold maidenhead service at no extra charge if you choose to change the blood, semen streaked bed linen nightly. nurafora9cent ourly fee. Stay inour.moseleum like luxury suites, guaanteed vermin and ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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"SANTA,What's.Grandpa.doing.in Iraq[War?]"   1/20/2005

SANTA[Deadline]Mosul, iraq, BaseCamp: SECRETSANATA was not aware that the government had resorted to pull- out all the stops and, recalling 50yr and older ex-GIs, such as Major John Nelson for duty in Iraq. He says he doesn't mind the troops under him calling him "Grandpa" and "Dad", and after all they are"whipper-snappers" in their 20's and he's 51. SANTA; has learned the ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
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"SANTA IF I WAS PRESIDENT I'D..."(AconcernedTeen)   1/19/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Freedoms.answer.ATeen SECRETSANTA.asked.severalteen-agers before and after the lastRe-election of The"PREZ", a simple questsion, what they'd do if they were President? Emily N., 18, of Tampa, Florida said- "When I am President I will remember several thing like;Reember what it was like to live with 2 hard working parents.eking out a living day by day, Remember In ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 2 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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SANTA;"PREZ"^GEO.W.BUSH^AGENDA.2005:   1/17/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]WASH, D.C."PREZ": SECRETSANTA;Both Federal and Local Govermnts will get tougher agressing individual rights, (that's.unprovok- ed). The machinery to implement exe- cutive Order Woman 490 which gives the President power to do any thing he deems neccessary for the welfare of the nation, which includes the destruction of all currency in the United States, and probably ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 1 Votes
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Poly relationships   1/9/2005

Do poly relationships EVER work? Is there a formula to make it work? Or is it something that others can grow into? Are certain people cut out for poly lifestyles?


4 Comments, 316 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
ZEYAD077416675 59 M
1 Article
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heyyyyyyyyyy   1/4/2005

to paintbrushAdrift:you r so sexy and attractive, i like <br> u.


0 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes
phil56 67 M
11 Articles
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Need a woman.s advice   12/30/2004

First, Do women like men who are hairy or shaved? During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho" if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...


5 Comments, 253 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
phil56 67 M
11 Articles
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Finding a Dom or Sub   12/30/2004

A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here, as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex, as well as women laced up in corsets. I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living in the "alternate" lifestyle. If you have never been ...


1 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
native_icon 72 M
5 Articles
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In The Beginning   12/23/2004

Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day. Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows. <br> In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others, they only know the us that is here in this online family. <br> So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without disrupting ...


3 Comments, 276 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
slave20000 52 F
14 Articles
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R diamonds a girls best friend   12/21/2004

Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones (a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and find the one thing that does make her ...


1 Comments, 240 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
nikki_smiles 49 F
2 Articles
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If you really want to WOW your girl....   12/19/2004

I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!! <br> Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11 remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely match, that way ...


3 Comments, 493 Views, 53 Votes ,5.59 Score
DarkDesiresNYC 56 C
2 Articles
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution   12/16/2004

Hello, <br> We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently wrote. Any comments are welcome! <br> Happy holidays! Sir Eric <br> <br> The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution* <br> "You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You own the responsibility of your property - whether it is real estate, slaves or your ...


4 Comments, 411 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
MsGenevieve666 48 F
1 Article
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Co-dependancy and slave owning   12/15/2004

Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one of devotion, disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul... This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily become unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual ideal this isn't exactly sane. <br> Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills the fantasy and definition of ...


3 Comments, 364 Views, 34 Votes ,5.31 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Exploring a bi relationship   12/14/2004

How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?


5 Comments, 264 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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What is the role of symbolism?   12/12/2004

Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories" has got me thinking... <br> The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late into the relationship with my first dom. I started with an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...


1 Comments, 188 Views, 19 Votes ,3.52 Score
jeszabelle83 45 F
4 Articles
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Begining...need advice   12/11/2004

I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive rolls we are each already playing ...


9 Comments, 268 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange?   12/11/2004

The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s? <br> The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe) refers to general power, it's usually applied in political fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand. <br> But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power is power, in ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
Music_ata 52 M
4 Articles
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Introducing the "Lifestyle"   12/7/2004

How does one go and introduce the "lifestyle" to a new partner? W/o scaring them off. Or does "planting a seed work within reason.?


5 Comments, 268 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
soggypantscan 42 M
10 Articles
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Question   12/5/2004

Ok, I met these girls who were working at a bondage booth at this local sex toy convention thing, and I asked one out. She said she'd like to go for drinks after the convention, and even said "sure we'll go for drinks" after I asked her later on that night "so you were jokin' about the drinks right?". Problem is, we had to go (the guys) towards the end of the show and she disappeared, so ...


6 Comments, 150 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
lonleyinco 58 T
1 Article
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how to tell one your a tg   12/4/2004

Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met someone and things are going well thing is this person knows nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach this subject without hurting this person or making them think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated !


5 Comments, 153 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
Sandy55555 73 F
2 Articles
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me?   11/28/2004

He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding. Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...


0 Comments, 259 Views, 44 Votes ,8.06 Score
EugeneBob 66 C
1 Article
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Novice Dom   11/24/2004

So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by "On your knees slut!" there are a few things I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying up and ...


2 Comments, 1061 Views, 113 Votes ,8.48 Score
magnon101 61 M
4 Articles
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HI   11/19/2004

I just create a new group at egypt area and i invite you all to join it.


0 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
VABDSMCOUPLE 58 C
1 Article
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wen love play   11/19/2004

and want to hear from thers who didg this


1 Comments, 139 Views, 22 Votes
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"a soulmate"   11/18/2004

a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will express your highest potential, while also fulfilling your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!


2 Comments, 76 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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***a woman needs***   11/18/2004

someone who cares about her well-being...n understand what she's going through...recognise n value her feelings.... someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in return... someone to notice her...love her n adore her... someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn on her n break her confidence....


1 Comments, 70 Views, 29 Votes ,7.25 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"a man needs"   11/18/2004

a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....


2 Comments, 171 Views, 51 Votes ,6.72 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"practice make perfect"   11/17/2004

the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship is the foundation to great SEX....


2 Comments, 116 Views, 26 Votes ,5.18 Score
Flyingfoxxy 61 C
1 Article
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us   11/16/2004

ok i first met the other half in alt 14 months ago a mate of mine said why not try it out so i did ta alt for bringing foxxy to me the worst part of our relationship is she lives 2000 k away from me so it makes lif hard at the moment but on the 27 of dec that will all change as we are finaly moving intogether ok most know who i am by now and i would like to take this opertunity to say ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
mistress_moyra 55 F
4 Articles
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From first chat to collaring   11/15/2004

Dear men, <br> Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured them out all ready. <br> Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...


9 Comments, 443 Views, 182 Votes ,7.92 Score
subgirl45 64 F
2 Articles
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Collaring   11/12/2004

I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring. What is the average amount of time it takes including training and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar a sub? <br> Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.


4 Comments, 241 Views, 26 Votes ,4.21 Score
ASilentSeeker 62 F
13 Articles
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being schooled in submission...(truth from a.s.s. re: CMM)   11/11/2004

i am personally, by 'el naturale' extremely Dominant. Streets and my 'history' has formed this dominant aura around me, keeping me safe yet bound to a Dominant existance. Until CMM came along, that is. <br> The hardest thing in the world for me to really do, is to be submissive, yet in meeting CMM - it has been the most exciting and educational experience to date...and this is ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
GloryGirl 65 F
1 Article
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Older Women and Younger Men   11/8/2004

I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where the woman is older and the submissive is younger. <br> I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings about just such a ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 43 Votes ,7.70 Score
Reese215 78 F
4 Articles
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To Be Or Not To Be   10/30/2004

While I am fairly new to this lifestyle and to this site, I have been approached by numerous Doms who write they can "train me in one night." I find this hard to believe, but then there may be some supermen out there just waiting to train this submissive to be all she can be. I have a tendency to believe (and want) a more stable relationship, starting off with a friendship, chatting, ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 32 Votes ,8.21 Score
like2bpunished 52 F
1 Article
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant?   10/22/2004

I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking, go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins the scene when the submissive is trying to ...


4 Comments, 112 Views, 22 Votes ,7.33 Score
adventerous56 67 F
1 Article
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new to this lifestyle   10/17/2004

I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally submissive to him without challenging him because know there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do this, have discovered ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
sansplo 47 F
1 Article
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new to this   10/9/2004

Does anyone know where I can find out information or help on being a good Domme?


3 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
travelman11 60 M
3 Articles
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love letter to my girlfriend   10/9/2004

Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
MstrJD_at_htmail 44 M
3 Articles
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Any ideas?   10/7/2004

I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things further?


1 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
MINDFUXpunished 60 M
1 Article
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave.   10/6/2004

I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem? Worried ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Paul_Cuddles 76 M
1 Article
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What a lucky guy I was   10/5/2004

I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
Sovereigndesires 66 M
2 Articles
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Fasination also a basic of a relationship   10/3/2004

As I said in a privious articial that connection is the basis for a relationship, I also believe that there has to be an element of fasination,as well. When you think about your perfect master, me I know this, that unless there is something that truly leads you to this special one then they will not fulfill those basic needs that must be met, in order for you to, feel that fasination, with me, I ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
minililmisfit 60 F
1 Article
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Oh, Just Spank me Already!   10/3/2004

I'm a frustrated subby just getting involved in the lifestyle and find, like many of us, when I'm really stressed or upset, I NEED a good spanking! So Why is so hard to get my partner (a stated dom) to understand this? I explained, it's a great stress reducer for BOTH of us, he won't harm me if he stays focused on the sit spot and uses his hand or "gentle" implements, it allows me to release my ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
Tabby48 69 F
2 Articles
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What ever sub wants   10/3/2004

He led her By the collar, he led her by her hair. And she responded …love you dear, And he responded ….bitch I’m here. And late at nigh, after passion was done Home he went, for he was a solitary one But, she laid there, deep within the night, Alone and confused, which was her right. For she served him with no thought of herself. And gloried in her pain, But with the first ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 16 Votes ,6.21 Score
ThdersMist 57 F
1 Article
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How do I learn to trust again?   9/30/2004

I am a lifetime submissive. I currently am in a 24/7 with my Master. My problem is trust. Because of past issues with Doms not being honest and faithful, I am having a hard time trusting my Master. We met a yr ago and I knew he had other slaves. He knew I was not poly and gave up his slaves and his life in CA to come live with me in a small town. However he keeps his slaves online and keeps in ...


5 Comments, 83 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rhondanjay 54 C
1 Article
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Bisexual wifes how many husbands have no problem with it.   9/29/2004

I have no problem with my wife being bi-sexual but I have noticed at swingers parties and even in some couples me and the wife I have met. So husbands and boyfriends have a real problem couping with the fact there wife is indeed bi-sexual. I have no problem with the fact as I knew from the day we started dateing she was bi-sexual and it was part of her I accepted.


2 Comments, 91 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
hunnybx 55 F
1 Article
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Keep Looking...   9/23/2004

Maybe there really is not perfection to attain out there in the vast smallness we like to call our planet. But don't just give up deeply felt core things about who you are deep inside in order to accomodate someone who says they love you. Love you? Can you truly love someone and ignore the things they feel and need in their life? I don't think so but that is just me. There are things far worse ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Sovereigndesires 66 M
2 Articles
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Connection the basis for a great relationship   9/18/2004

Some call it connection others call it chemistry, but what ever you call it it is the foundation for and great relationship, without it the relationship just will not work, and that holds true no matter what kind of relationship you are in, it could be D/s a gay, or a straight relationship. With me now when you make that connection, its like you can feel, as if there is and energy ...


0 Comments, 171 Views, 18 Votes ,5.99 Score
coed3sum 50 M
1 Article
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Idaho Summer- She cuffed and spanked me   9/18/2004

I was at a party at a friends house when I met the most perfect girl ever. It was a dry point in life and I was really looking for something different. The way she casually talked about S&M was inviting. It all started so innocently, with me being in total control of the relationship. When she would give me head, I would face fuck her hard. It was awesome, but the relationship slowly ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
ratormo 50 M
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youngman/olderwoman   9/15/2004

I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few : 1. OLDER WOMEN MORE CONFIDENT - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, WHETHER IT'S SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP. <br> <br> 2. OLDER WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE - THEY DON'T DEPEND ON A MAN TO PAY FOR THEM, THAT MEANS ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
IrishPrincess4 61 F
13 Articles
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Repy to Protocals   9/14/2004

Dearest Untamedspirit <br> Men will be men, however maybe the Dom/Master's you are finding yourself getting involved with are more of a polyarmorous mindset. If so, I suggest you have them read "Polyamory, The New Love Without Limits" book so they understand that it works both ways. <br> Nothing wrong with experiementing, as long is one is doing so safely and ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Pectoralis1503 50 M
6 Articles
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Relationships without sex?   9/3/2004

HI there. I saw a lot of people, who looking for special kind of oral sex, bondage sex, anal sex and and and. Is it possible, to built a relationship without all that physical things. I mean sex could be nice, but is it all?


1 Comments, 32 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
stan69_4u 62 M
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RE: The importance of sex in a relationship   8/27/2004

Sex is not the primary reason or motivation for a relationship, but within this lifestyle, sex does play an important part alongside the psychological and emotional well-being. Not all sex is intercourse/copulation! <br> Sex takes many forms from self and mutual stimulation to masturbation onto play and onwards. Many people are sexually fulfilled without intercourse and the sex ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 29 Votes ,6.55 Score
facedownarseup 59 M
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Starting Over W/New Dom   8/26/2004

I've been "off the market" for awhile, and am in the process of looking for a new D/s relationship. I've read all kinds of tips for subs looking to establish relationships and contracts here on alt.com, but those were geared more towards female subs, male Dom's. <br> I'm a male sub, however. I've filled out a profile here (and been completely honest to my likes/dislikes) and ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 28 Votes ,8.17 Score
YendorB 54 C
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Just a little not from a friend   8/25/2004

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much." were most of the comments. <br> No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 23 Votes ,5.58 Score
Norton161 65 M
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re:how long is a peice of rope   8/5/2004

get a life, yes weve all been through it you meet someone you think their the one and it doesnt work, move on do other shit to get her of your mind, and when your ready youll be back there ! rock on Dude


0 Comments, 122 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
Giantdom71 52 M
2 Articles
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How long is a peice of rope?   8/3/2004

It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial. If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and open with your partner? My ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 22 Votes ,6.37 Score
Kaysler 40 M
5 Articles
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Stay on your toes.   8/3/2004

Relationships are in our hard-wired nature. Fourtunatly or unfourtunatly, however you care to see it. I am a young writter, but I have learned my fare share already. I also relize there is much still left to learn. Being the kind person I am I am going to share one of my harder learned lessons in relationship construction. Trust is something we all know we need in a relationship, ...


0 Comments, 229 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
smeesme2004 60 M
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SERVITUDE   7/25/2004

To my mind, domination over another is won by fulfilling the dersires of another....not your own. To read another's desires and draw out thier passion is the most rewarding thing we can experiance. Servitude is freely given at that point and becomes real and meaningful, no longer a simple game. > No two women are ever the same and should be respected and treated as individuals. ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 105 Votes ,7.47 Score
bigrock2350 50 M
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The importance of sex in a relationship   7/16/2004

Is sex really that important in a relationship. I know that we That way the realtionship leave you nothing to desire.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 23 Votes ,2.89 Score
tobeyourslut2 50 F
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Tribute to my Master Richard (punter11)   7/15/2004

SIR, YOU FIRST CAME INTO MY LIFE AS WORDS ON A SCREEN, NEVER REALISED THEN YOUR WORDS WERE MORE THEN THEY SEEMED. LITTLE DID I KNOW AT THE TIME IT WOULD BE YOU WHO WOULD CAPTURE MY HEART, MIND, BODY AND SOUL. MY LIFE WAS TROUBLED, I WAS SAD AND FEELING EMPTY. BUT ALL THAT CHANGED WHEN YOU CAME ALONG MY SWEET MASTER RICHARD.I DISCOVERED MY OWN PEICE OF HEAVEN. I AM BLESSED WITH YOUR KIND ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
jeszabelle83 45 F
4 Articles
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race is an issue   7/13/2004

I am a young white woman who recently started seeing a black man and I am shocked by the reactions I have gotten from some people. He treats me very well and I enjoy being with him so why do some of my "friends" have a problem with him? I have heard enough nigger jokes in the last couple weeks to make me puke, and often they are from people who claim not to be racist. I know some people ...


2 Comments, 131 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
aquarianmale 61 M
2 Articles
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how to build a successful relationship   7/12/2004

a good relationship is built slowly no rushing , taking life as it comes listening and accepting each others limits and do and donts without bieng pushy if you follow those few points you shouldnt go far wrong meet youre partner half way and respect there wishes and get them to meet you half way it should start moving alongjust nicely this should avoid arguments and diputes if advice is ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 36 Votes ,4.36 Score
IrishPrincess4 61 F
13 Articles
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Response to Girlfriend from Hell   7/11/2004

Just read your article about your 16 year old "bitchy" girlfriend. Although 6 years is not a big year difference, your maturity levels are. Maybe it's time to move on to someone a little closer to your own age. 16 year old girls are known for their "bitchiness", you didn't know that?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 13 Votes ,6.50 Score
Malamasub 66 F
3 Articles
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Relationship Preventive Maintenance   7/9/2004

My hope is this text of information will aid people in their communications with other’s be it vanilla or in the D/s bdsm lifestyle to prevent needless and unneccessary hardships from interfering with their relationships. <br> I am speaking from personal observation and experience. <br> Integrity, in my opinion, is a key to life without regrets. Trust, is the ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
AnEagerBeaver 54 F
29 Articles
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"THE OTHER SIDE"   7/7/2004

To start with, I am going to tackle some thoughts on the various components of BDSM. I won't talk much about the acronym, but do want to discuss what they are and how they relate to each other. This may seem like beginner stuff, but you'd be surprised at how many long time scene players don't really understand how it all fits together - this can and does lead to some skewed expectations. ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 36 Votes ,8.07 Score
daves_kat 41 F
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful   7/5/2004

If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing. But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman. When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it show that she is hot. If you ...


2 Comments, 647 Views, 97 Votes ,7.94 Score
Wolfman228 56 M
3 Articles
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From Russia With Love   7/5/2004

I've met a woman from Russia on a European website. She is 29 and I am 36. We've been writing emails back and forth and the relationship appears to be growing into a long distance one. She does not speak English very well and uses a translator program to read my emails. Out of respect I send her and email in English and another of the same content in Russian using a free online ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
JusLooking4now 67 C
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Relationships can happen here   7/3/2004

Relationships can and do happen here. For the past (almost) year, with a few ups and downs, a beautiful thing was created between two consenting-married to vanilla spouses-adults. Like any relationship, you have to build, learn, and create. The thing I love about this man, is I, as his subby, can tell him anything, and while he is my dominant, he lets me be myself. He knows how to punish me ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 49 Votes ,6.70 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
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B honest   6/26/2004

PLease when u meet someone new just b urself and honest. If u want to build its best way to start. Dont b something ur not........


0 Comments, 31 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
Shag_nasty66 57 M
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re: Wondering what to do   6/26/2004

I guess it all depends on where Y/you live, and how outgoing Y/you are. How about a visit to a club? Let Him watch what O/others do...maybe give a few pointers about what you would like. Failing that, how about a Munch? General discussion can help O/one to relax more regarding their feelings. If circumstances do not allow for these activities, why not suggest that He looks for an ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
rose_budslave 70 F
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Feeling stalked   6/20/2004

Have you ever felt like you were being stalked? I started talking to a nice Dom or so I thought. Not in that mindset right now, though. <br> I cannot sign onto the computer without him messaging me. I have tried to tell him politely that I do other things on the computer besides chat. He doesn't seem to get it. Should I tell him point blank to leave me alone. I cannot ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 21 Votes ,6.71 Score
SweetSurrender4U 72 F
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RE: First Meets   6/10/2004

In this modern world of uncertainty, no one can be too cautous. Yes, even Doms/Masters have a need for safety from explortation, blackmail, etc. The internet offers numerous opportunities to meet new people. How wonderful and exciting it can be. However, it can also be devasting and deadly if you should fall prey to the wrong person. During my voyage through the Alt. lifestyle (very short ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 28 Votes ,7.45 Score
SadisticPanda 55 M
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A Man Lost to Sensitivity?   6/2/2004

I have had many different relationships in my life. The "innocent" times in high school, where I became known to a small group of girls for my ability to give good spankings and wonderfully secure bondage. The woman who possessed me for a year and made me feel things that a dozen years later I now find myself craving for again. The intense sadism and emotion that I shared with my wife ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 17 Votes ,7.23 Score
hockeydv 41 M
3 Articles
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How to say she's beautiful   6/1/2004

To whomever can help me out on this one: Why is it that every time a guy compliments a women by saying she's beautiful, 90% of the time the response is bad! They say "whatever" or "no I'm not" or "thanks, if only it were true". Barely ever do you hear a thank you. I do know not to use "pretty" because that sounds average. <br> This probably goes on the same subject, but it's ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
Ms__Darlin 68 F
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RE:Long Distance.   5/31/2004

Of course ...anything you want to make work, will work. I have been in a relationship with a sub that lives 2 1/2 hours from Me. We get together several weekends a month. (usually) and vacation together. Is it easy? No, it would be a lot easier if we could live together, but for now, we can't. When it is meant to be ...it will be and trust Me, worth every hour on the road. Enjoy ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
fabiosmart1 73 M
2 Articles
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How to built a relationship for Standard Member   5/26/2004

At this time I haven't seen any member, but only very few profiles without photo. The only one thing that I can do is to receive winks (none for now) or see the album of my friend. <br> I seems a little few after severla days of navigation on this site. I think that should be better to adopt the method of FriendFinder, where is possible to see all people, but contact only the ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 31 Votes ,3.53 Score
Kent_Couple2003 48 C
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Anyone Want a Threesum With a Bi couple ?   5/24/2004

Hi everyone, Our names are Michelle & Chris were 21/F & 28/M from kent england. Were looking for anyone who would be up for a threesum with us ?


0 Comments, 62 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
carol_pacd 68 T
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Hardest Relationship of all??   5/23/2004

I am wondering if the crossdressing lifestyle is one of the hardest of relationships to begin?? I know there are women out there who have special interests in the TG an crossdressing lifestyle, but it seems for the avgerage Transgender and/or Crossdresser, its difficult to meet such a woman... Alt.com is one of the few sites that I know of, that offer a chance to meet someone but yet it ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
brian352004 54 M
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Relationship with someone much younger.   5/20/2004

I've been talking to a girl online...but she's 15 years younger than me (I'm 36 and she's 21). Does anyone have any advise, good or bad experiences...etc. Any advise would be appreciated. Also, she is the one who contacted me first...so she must like older men.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 25 Votes ,1.91 Score
brian352004 54 M
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Long Distance.   5/20/2004

Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone who lives an hour away...who also has small and cannot travel. A few of my past relationships were "weekend only" types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends together...it lasted you 6 years. Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?


0 Comments, 23 Views, 28 Votes ,4.47 Score
brian352004 54 M
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Long Distance.   5/20/2004

Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone who lives an hour away...who also has small and cannot travel. A few of my past relationships were "weekend only" types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends together...it lasted you 6 years. Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?


0 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
unknown_guy17 38 M
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re: no strings   5/18/2004

i totally agree w/ u. wmoen just play mind games. its kinda freaky actually


0 Comments, 44 Views, 10 Votes