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GothEis  
Very little time to play :(
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Last Visit: Yesterday
Member Since: June 5, 2016

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   January 1, 1969
(55 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Newark, New Jersey, United States
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   Prefer not to say
Drinking:   Prefer not to say
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Receding
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   Prefer not to say
Dress:   Prefer not to say
Social Orientation :   Prefer not to say
Safe Sex:   Prefer not to say
Demeanor:   Prefer not to say

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Religion: Agnostic




   
55 year old Man in Newark, New Jersey, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for GothEis
If you really think I'm 'hot' enough to view me, put me in your Hotlist, and/or send me a message - and you're really "real" - then you need to go to my blog and send me a message using my "Private Mailbox" there. Since I'm a Standard Member, this is the only place you and I can exchange messages. I'm more here for the "Alternative Lifestyles" than "BDSM", although I do love the visuals and innuendos of such! *blushes* Married, quasi-introverted, old school goth simply looking for a pen-pal to hang around with online for some fun. Very committed to my lovely spouse of many years but also free to play around online. Not looking for cybersex; more about just having fun with someone who is like a really close friend with online benefits. Day by day I live a professional corporate life. No , no drugs; love a single glass of red wine after a long day at work. High expectations regarding respect, ethics, and morals. I love religion but am not 'religious'. (I'm actually very agnostic.) I don't have much time to spend on hobbies so I pick up things that are easy to start, stop, and come back to. ...movies, television, graphic novels/comics, and cartoons. I'm a very visual person so these things work well for that too. I am a rather extreme realist and pragmatist. I do not enjoy drama or people who are acting something they are not. My reasons for seeking a female companion is because there are more things that can be done with female friends than men, such as flirting. Thus, if either a male or female can both equally attract my interest because of their personalities, I'd prefer to be with the female. (...and to be honest, it's just more visually pleasing to look at a female when talking about Lovecraft. *smiles!*) [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
If I had time to play, this is who I'd be looking for. *winks*

Mainly interested in a lovely muse to be a pen pal for a long term relationship. Someone who I can message while I have my morning coffee and maybe text at lunch or in the evening, also when I'm out and about on the weekend. Also likes to play light games such as Vampire Wars. Additionally, someone who enjoys discovering someone new; comparing likes, thoughts, and ideas. Someone that likes to help spark my imagination while I (hopefully) do the same for her.

The person I'm hoping to connect with should really love typical modern gothic things that match my own. Examples:
- Light games like Vampire Wars and Mr. Jones' Graveyard Shift
- Genre of Lovecraft
- Television and movies such as the Addam's Family, Walking Dead, Face Off, and Oddities
- Comics like Vampirella
- Cartoons like Edward Gorey and Charles Addams
- Sunday newspaper comics like Lio and Pibgorn
- Music like Assemblage 23, Covenant, De/Vision, Gary Numan, and Peter Heppner
- Older artists like Maxfield Parrish, Alberto Vargas, Albert Besnard, and Heinrich Kley
- Modern artists like Berk Ozturk Matt Dixon, and BRÄO
- Art Orientalism


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