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Hi everyone!
This is kind of a long read, so fair warning!
My name is Jessica. I am a mature, part time, bi-sexual cross dresser/trans girl.
I've been dressing for as long as I can remember, but only in the last decade have I been able to pursue this side of me in a more serious manner - such as finding and meeting other people of like mind, going out fully dressed, being invited and going to a few local CD/admirer parties, signing up with various dating sites as Jessica and putting my pics out for all to see. Kinda scary, but really exciting too! B)
I'm around 5' 9"-10", Brown hair and eyes, a bit of a chub (I wear a dress size of 18/20), but told I look pretty good when dressed, which I LOVE to do. When I dress I shave so I am smooth all over. I pluck my eyebrows to give them a more feminine arch. I normally have long, straight hair, so I curl, style it or leave it straight. I wear full makeup and sometimes do my nails as well. I have D cup, attachable breast forms that I LOVE to wear as they really feel like the real thing (LOVE how they jiggle! Heehee!). I always have a hard time choosing what to wear as I have a rather embarrassingly large wardrobe. Over half my closet, 2 of 4 drawers in my dresser, a full wardrobe armoire and a wall of shelves that hold baskets of panties, hosiery, various pieces of lingerie and around 3 dozen pairs of shoes! I'm starting to think that part time may not be the best description of my dressing with how my boudoir is looking these days. :D
I am a fairly conservative dresser when it comes to clothes, but love the tight bodycon dresses and more sexy club wear too. My favorite things in the bedroom are all kinds of lingerie, of which I have way too much - lacy bras and silky panties and robes, and corsets or waist cinchers with a garter belt, nylons and high heels.
When I am with a man, I'm all female - a total femme bottom. I love playing the submissive female to his dominant male, where he takes charge in the bedroom. I LOVE IT when he talks dirty to me. It's a real turn on when I hear him tell me I'm 'his sexy little cumslut' while I feel his hands on my hips as he thrusts into me from behind or when I'm on my knees with his throbbing cock inches from my warm, waiting mouth. I REALLY love to suck cock to completion and I've been told I'm better at it than most "real" women my partners have been with. I'll never understand why I hear the majority of women don't enjoy doing it. It's soooo damn sensual and hot in my mind!
That being said, I absolutely LOVE soft touching, caressing and sensual kissing all over and playfulness. I also love it when my guy reciprocates oral and gets into sucking my little clitty. There isn't much there, but I still love it.
I love just about any type of guy out there - race, height, weight aren't as important to me as is your perception of and desire for a girl like me (just don't be obesely overweight - although that too is in the eye of the beholder). And to be completely honest, I absolutely LOVE the ripped body builder types, and hairy arms and chests go to the front of the line. the more masculine the better.
Also, PLEASE be at least average in cock size, (5"-6") and preferably cut, although this is also not a deal breaker. (I don't mean to sound like a stuck-up bitch. A girl's gotta have something to work with after all and a cut cock is just more appealing to me.)
I have never been with another CD/Trans girl, but would relish the opportunity if the attraction was mutual.
I would would LOVE the opportunity to find a GFWB that puts at least as much effort into her persona as I do (and have at least as good results from it), meaning you don't have to be full time, but at least shaved and smooth all over, don't be a novice at your makeup (have some basic techniques down so you don't look like Mimi from 'The Drew Carey Show') and have invested some money into your persona (clothes, lingerie, makeup and breast forms). Shaving is a MUST however and a definite deal breaker for me. A furry girl is just not attractive.
Again, Race/Height/Weight is not as important as the effort you put into being your femme self, but that being said, the results should render you at least semi passable instead of looking like a guy in makeup and lingerie.
Which leads to the following - If you would be willing to possibly, eventually venture out en femme together once we got to know each other, that would be all kinds of awesome. (Although that is not a deal breaker) I consider myself semi-passable and have been told so by others, so having a friend to go out en femme with would be just amazing.
I am only available to dress and play in the evenings on the weekends if I am to be smooth as I can only shave once every 5-7 days due to sensitive skin. So usually Saturday evenings/nights, but Friday nights could work too. Weekdays can be arranged, but only if I am working from home and probably only if you dont mind a stubbly girl.
I have my own place, so I can host, or have my own reliable car, so can be mobile for the right person.
Things I give to and demand of my lovers...
I am squeaky clean when it comes to any and all diseases. I play safe to stay that way until I feel comfortable enough with you to not to.
I don't do drugs or smoke (420 being the ONLY exception Love a good dab!)
I am a fairly light drinker and usually only do so socially, but have been known to have a martini now and then after work at home. (Love the olives and onions)
I have great oral and body hygeine - meaning I brush and floss my teeth twice a day and shower at least once a day. (I'm sad I actually have to include this, but experience dictates I do)
I am very discreet with Jessica and will be with you as well.
If you've gotten this far, then you must have found something that interests you in all these words. If so, ping me on IM here or message me directly. I promise to answer all that I receive, even if it's just a polite no thank you, not interested, as I hate when people gaslight me. Is it really so hard to reply? Argh!
Stay safe and be kind to each other....
Jessica
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